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Be polite, unreasonable?
No wonder I always disagree with my mother.
Originally, people who grew up under the two concepts, why bother to assimilate?
——"Of course, this is not to say that we should fully affirm the 'rule of ritual' and ignore the importance of the 'rule of law'.
The main reason why the implementation of the rule of law was not smooth was that China was in the process of transformation of rural society at that time:
On the one hand, the Western culture of the same period was continuously introduced into Chinese society by intellectuals; on the other hand, the habit of continuing the "ritual system" in the traditional rural society was too deep-rooted, and the legal provisions at that time were precisely derived directly from Western countries. borrowed from.
In a "rural society" where intellectuals don't have enough understanding, it will definitely not work to implement this set of existing laws that have been copied mechanically with only a passion for reform.
In a culture that lacks change, social differences occur between the elders and the younger, and the elders have coercive power over the younger. This is the foundation of a blood-related society.
Blood relationship means that the rights and obligations of people and people are determined according to kinship. Kinship is the relationship formed by birth and marriage.
Strictly speaking, blood relationship only refers to the parent-child relationship arising from childbirth. In fact, in a monophyletic family organization, the emphasis on relatives is more due to birth than marriage, so it doesn't matter if they are related by blood.
Geography is a social relationship developed from business. Blood ties are the foundation of an identity society, while geography is the foundation of a contract society.
A contract is an agreement made among strangers. When making a contract, everyone has the freedom of choice. In the contract, there is credit on the one hand and law on the other.
The law needs a power of consent to support it. The completion of a contract is the liquidation of rights and obligations, which requires precise calculations, proper units, and reliable media.
Procreation is necessary for the continuation of society, and it is the same in any society. The difference is that some societies use the social relationship that occurs in procreation to determine the social status of each person, while others do not.
The former is related by blood. Generally speaking, blood kinship societies are stable and lack changes; societies with great changes are less likely to become blood kinship societies.
The stability of society refers to the stillness of its structure. Individuals filling various positions in the structure cannot be static. They are limited by life and cannot stay there permanently. They are bound to die.
The consanguineous society wants to use biological metabolism and reproduction to maintain the stability of the social structure.
?Father dies and sons succeed: the son of a farmer will always be a farmer, and the son of a merchant will always be a merchant—that is the blood succession of occupations;
The son of a nobleman is still noble - that is the blood succession of status;
The sons of the rich are still rich - that is the blood succession of wealth.
Up to now, although few societies can completely abandon blood succession, it is not easy to do in the era when relatives are responsible for childbearing.
However, if the social structure changes, it is impossible to completely inherit it by blood. Before childbearing is socialized, the strength of blood relationship seems to be determined by the rate of social change. "
These, Chu Lihua heard a little confused, but the general meaning is that the village is dominated by blood-related society.
This is why parents care so much about relatives who don't have much contact at all, and contact is the money.
Father always said, "Falling leaves return to their roots, and our roots are in the village. No matter how far we are, we will eventually go back. Therefore, we can't break the connection."
It's no wonder that parents who live frugally must find ways to build a house in the village.
Parents did not grow up with Western education, and their thoughts are normal in their system.
Thinking of her father who is desperately trying to make money rain or shine, and her mother who has to bargain for every penny, Chu Lihua suddenly feels sad.
It's because they are not strong enough to allow them to enjoy life unscrupulously.
Just when Chu Lihua was immersed in her self-blame, the waiter knocked on the door and came in.
It turned out that they were going to get off work.
Looking at a table of uneaten dishes, Chu Lihua suddenly felt that it was a waste.
First came a sentence, "Could you please warm it up for us, I'm really sorry, thank you!"
In fact, the other three people didn't eat much, but they were here to drive them away, how could they
——"Okay, I'll call two people over."
So the waiter agreed
There are no other words——
??"Chu Lihua, how did you do it? Isn't it amazing?"
Chu Lihua shook her head, "I just say what comes to mind. I don't think too much about it."
At this time, Chu Lihua recalled such a sentence in her mind, "Being filial to parents is worse than praying to God and worshiping Buddha."
Is it the momentary realization I just had?
The dishes were served quickly and everyone ate in silence this time without speaking.
When leaving, the waiter was still very enthusiastic.
After returning, Chu Lihua did not send the video to the children as usual, but called the parents.
It took a long time to get through the phone.
It's the father.
——"Father, have you guys eaten?"
——"I have eaten, what's the matter?"
Chu Lihua was heartbroken, when did it start, and she wouldn't call home anymore?
It was a long time ago.
Before I got married, I called once a week to give my mother an explanation.
In fact, the boss is not happy in his heart, because 90% of the phone calls are mother's nagging up and down, and Chu Lihua can recite it backwards and forwards.
Later, after that big quarrel, the number of calls home after marriage became less and less.
——"Is there anything I need to talk to your mother about?"
Perhaps it was Chu Lihua's long silent father who spoke again, and at the same time, the phone call was really given to her mother——
"Is there a problem?"
Hearing his mother's voice, he was still a little confused. He probably fell asleep while lying on the sofa watching TV.
Obviously, the appeal of TV series is not that great.
Chu Lihua suddenly felt her throat was blocked. In the past, it was mother Barabara who said, but now, she really doesn't know what to say.
——"What's the matter? If you have anything to do, just say that you have nothing to do and hang up!"
Chu Lihua hung up the phone silently, tears streaming down her face.
Why am I not used to the nagging mother gone?
Before I adjusted my mood, the video came over.
Chu Lihua quickly wiped away her tears and picked it up.
"Mother——"
Xiao Qi's big head was shaking all over the screen.
? Chu Lihua responded with a smile, and then Xiao Qi asked her mother to tell her a story
At this moment, Chu Lihua suddenly understood that Xiao Qi may not be able to understand the story she told.
Perhaps, what Qing Yunfei told her was simple, but she could understand it.
But the reason why she pestered herself to talk about it was probably a kind of mother-daughter interaction. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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