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That's what Xiao Qi wanted, to keep in touch with her mother.
The mother's nagging, in fact, isn't it a kind of connection between mother and daughter?
It's a pity that it was destroyed by myself.
And this is after meeting Qing Yunfei. In contrast, Chu Lihua hated her mother's nagging about her lack of "education".
On the contrary, I am more and more envious of Qing Yunfei's mother's casual video chat.
The parents are short on trivial matters, and the embarrassing things between relatives are calculated.
In fact, compared with mother's nagging, this is not so noble, is it?
"Mother——"
Chu Lihua's mind-wandering time was a bit long, and Xiao Qi couldn't wait any longer, and started to yell.
Ha, the impatience of the little girl must be very similar to when I was a child!
The responses that I didn't get when I was a child will never be missing from the children.
No, why are you thinking about this again.
Raise me young, I will raise you old.
The first half has passed.
The second half is my duty.
I watched the video with the children for a while, watching the three little ones gradually fall asleep.
Only then did Chu Lihua hang up the video.
During this period, he and Qing Yunfei didn't say a word.
After Deng Yudong went back, she hurriedly read the book desperately, yes, she has always been like this.
It's rare that I can finally be the one who is looked up to.
After the next day's work was done, Deng Yudong still proposed to have dinner together, but Chu Lihua was eager to go back and spend more time with her children, so the dinner was not organized.
Chu Lihua sent a video to Qing Yunfei, who hung up there.
Chu Lihua sent again but was hung up.
Thinking about the children, Chu Lihua hurriedly sent it to Meng Xianxiang.
Picked it up, and asked Chu Lihua what's the matter, he was videoing with Lanzhi.
Chu Lihua asked him to see why Qing Yunfei didn't pick up his video.
Meng Xianxiang jokingly asked, "What? Did you miss him?"
Chu Lihua cursed with a smile, telling him to go quickly, Lanzhi is still waiting for him.
As a result, Meng Xianxiang came back and told him that it was because Qing Yunfei was videoing with his family.
Chu Lihua's slightly hot cheeks turned pale instantly after being teased by Meng Xianxiang.
He still cares more about his family, that is his family!
Even if you already have a child.
The balance of Chu Lihua's plan to forgive Qing Yunfei tilted again.
Why do you have to wrong yourself to cater to others?
The ideal blueprint that Chu Lihua had planned to take Qing Yunfei and the children back to Yunnan to develop well, so that parents would no longer worry about themselves, was instantly blurred.
Family, family, Chu Lihua called home.
It's a pity that I still hung up after speaking less than five sentences
There is really no topic.
It is embarrassing not to hang on both sides.
Chu Lihua regretted it. If I knew it earlier, I might as well go to the dinner.
However, Chu Lihua dared not get too close to Deng Yudong who was still single.
People who have already owed money in the past are still
Chu Lihua didn't know what to do. She didn't want to quickly start a family again, but she was afraid that the children would grow up too quickly.
Without knowing it, Chu Lihua opened the door and walked out.
In the corridor, she met Liu Xingting.
——"Come out for a walk?"——
"Um."
——"Let's go together."——
"good."
——"Annoyed?"
——"It's a bit messy."
——"Can you tell me about it?"
Seeing that Chu Lihua was silent, Liu Xingting went on to say, "I'm still in the assessment period, so I'm out so soon?"
Chu Lihua couldn't help laughing, "Look at what you said, what kind of assessment period? I'm just weighing myself, and I'm afraid I won't be able to climb high."
——"Haha, let's talk normally."
——"Xing Ting, I actually didn't know what to do. I know that Qing Yunfei is not a good match, but I always think about"
——"I understand your thoughts. But I will tell you from my personal experience. To be honest, children can feel whether parents love each other or not.
theRather than letting children live in a relationship between parents and families who lack love, even being single will be better than it. "——
"you mean?"
——"There is such a line in Lin Zhixuan's "Single Love Song", find a dear person who loves deeply and loves each other, and bid farewell to being single.
People desire a marriage that offers love in addition to happiness, warmth, and a worthy companion. "
Then, the two were silent for a long time.
It took a long time for Liu Xingting to speak, "To be honest, I have never had any expectations for marriage."
——"Ah! The dream wedding is just a dream, and I have no expectations now. It's just that I have to be responsible for my children."
——"It's easy to handle."——
"how do I say this?"
——"Have you ever wanted to live out yourself? To be honest, I feel that you are so forward-looking and backward, kind of just to live in the eyes of others."
——"My pursuit, as I grow older, becomes more and more blurred. I don't even know what I want. Is this the legendary midlife crisis?"
——"Everyone cares about the evaluations from others, and they all hope that these evaluations are positive, great, and not underestimated.
But this kind of caring is completely harmful to individuals.
The most important reason is that other people's evaluations are often inaccurate, and you cannot receive reliable and correct evaluations. Therefore, underestimate reputation and word of mouth, and don't care too much about what others think.
Otherwise, your life will be restricted in the name of "teacher", "minister", and "director" - although it may bring pleasure and peace of mind, you have become a target of public criticism.
Didn't Nietzsche have a book called "Every Day Without Dancing Is a Disappointment to Life", you go back and read it carefully, I think it will definitely be of great help to you. "
After Chu Lihua and Liu Xingting chatted a few more words, they hurried back to the room.
When looking for Nietzsche's book, Chu Lihua accidentally saw a passage that inspired her even more.
"Children are not a bottle waiting to be filled, they are not waiting for our help every moment.
A baby's first instinct is to refuse the help of others and do things by himself.
Acknowledging that children have unusual abilities does not reduce the authority of parents. Only when parents can persuade themselves to return the leading role in the child's growth process to the child and play a supporting role willingly, can they better perform their duties. "
Perhaps, the child himself will choose, right?
"Children are small in size and not very capable, but they are the most fearless, brave and persistent human groups on this earth. Because they are engaged in the greatest 'project' in their lives, which is to 'create themselves'."
? Give the choice to the child.
Don't always use children as an excuse. If it is really for the children's benefit, they should make their own choices.
Seems to be true, when Xiaoqi was learning to walk, he showed that he didn't like being helped by his parents and wanted to "do it by himself".
To get something, you have to do it yourself, even if you still can't walk steadily. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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