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There must be a solution to the relationship with the mother in the end.
The previous tactic of delaying the attack has never been the same thing.
Chu Lihua learned a good method from a psychological point of view, and had a good chat with her mother at her home court.
All of this requires a change in the general environment. When the "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" became a trend, it was time for Chu Lihua to speak.
Chu Lihua also believed that this day would not be too far away.
She also saw an analysis on The Paper: In the future, whether a city can become the main destination of the "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" may become one of the criteria for measuring the city's comprehensive competitiveness.
What kind of city can gather popularity during the Spring Festival? Picking up your parents for the New Year requires more than just finding a place to sleep. Where do you eat New Year's Eve dinner? Where to buy New Year's goods? Where to take parents to play is a problem.
Therefore, only cities with strong comprehensive service capabilities and a sense of belonging can become destinations for "reverse Spring Festival travel".
As for such cities, as far as the high-speed trains are currently open to traffic, many of them meet the standards.
After eating, Xiaoqi fell asleep again.
Chu Lihua and Qing Yunfei stood on the balcony watching the fireworks.
In the villa area next door, there were many people setting off fireworks, one after another.
——"I still remember the first time we celebrated the New Year together. We went to your house. There were ice lanterns that I had never seen before. Under the illumination of various lights, they were colorful and crystal clear; they were extraordinarily dazzling."
Chu Lihua was very emotional.
——"Yes! In a flash, this is already the third year we have been together."
Qing Yunfei put his hands on Chu Lihua's shoulders, looking at the sky with fireworks constantly blooming outside the window, full of thoughts.
——"Go and make a video call for our mother."
——"Our mother?"
——"Well, after all, the two of us are too far away, so we can't go back for the time being. But they will definitely miss you very much at this time. I miss you so much during the festive season!"
After Chu Lihua finished speaking, Qing Yunfei went to get the mobile phone that was charging on the coffee table.
The video over there was quickly connected, and the mother and son chatted very happily. Chu Lihua was a little envious.
Even if they chatted enough in a while, when it was time for them to talk a few words, there would not be such an intimate atmosphere.
After all, blood relationship is the strongest relationship.
It's just my own side that needs to be improved.
Sure enough, they chatted for about an hour before calling Chu Lihua over.
Chu Lihua, who can speak well, still couldn't speak a few words to Qing Yunfei's mother. Very similar to my own mother, simple blessings and greetings, nothing else to say.
In this regard, Chu Lihua admired Qing Yunfei, and chatting with his family members could talk for an hour or two, and the atmosphere was quite harmonious and pleasant.
After Chu Lihua returned the mobile phone to Qing Yunfei, she hurried to the side and continued to study her psychology.
When Qing Yunfei hung up the video and came over, Chu Lihua was immersed in it——
"What are you doing?"
——"Study psychology. Finished the video?"
Chu Lihua didn't even raise her head.
——"I studied psychology again, so you also think you are sick?"
——"Ah? No, why do you think so? Who told you that studying psychology is a disease?"
This time, Chu Lihua raised her head from the phone screen in shock and looked at Qing Yunfei.
——"Why don't you learn this thing if you're not sick?"
Qing Yunfei didn't care.
——"You are wrong, there are too many people studying psychology in this world. Psychology is just a discipline, and we can't look at it with colored glasses.
I think I have to clarify this matter with you. Even if you go to see a psychiatrist or receive psychoanalysis, not all people are sick.
Nowadays, there are quite a lot of prejudiced people. Many people think that psychoanalysis treats patients, but even in Freud's time, this was not entirely the case.
In modern society, most of the people who can receive classic psychoanalytic treatment several times a week are high-functioning people.
Among Freud's visitors, there are many successful people, and at least a dozen of them have written books about their process of accepting Freud's analysis.
Reading their books, you will feel that they are very sick, but it is really impossible to diagnose that they haveWhat serious mental illness.
Similarly, if people like Lincoln, Jefferson, and Einstein are given in-depth psychoanalysis, they will have various problems.
It can be said that everyone who has not been enlightened like Wang Yangming must have various psychological problems, and if you study carefully, they are not serious.
Like a master of psychoanalysis in Japan, he always believed that psychoanalysis was for a few people, and he only accepted dozens of visitors in his life, many of whom followed him all his life.
Later, these visitors did not meet the diagnostic criteria for psychological problems, but continued to receive psychoanalysis, just to understand themselves more comprehensively and deeply. "——
"know yourself?"
——"Yes, it is to understand yourself, and then you can realize your self-prophecy. Let me tell you what self-realization is. Self-realization is those who become themselves.
However, this statement is still prone to misunderstanding. I think there can be a simpler understanding of this, that is, people with independent personalities decide themselves and are responsible for themselves.
Psychologically, people with independent personalities, because they have been living in reality, their vitality is fully seen, and this part of their vitality is therefore more mature.
This will bring some benefits, allowing them to understand the world deeply and see themselves sincerely, their selves are more harmonious, and their relationships with others and the world are more harmonious.
This was originally researched by the humanistic psychologist Maslow. People have a basis for that.
Unlike psychoanalysis who first came into contact with patients with psychological problems, Maslow directly studied 48 outstanding figures, such as Lincoln, Jefferson and Einstein, who Maslow believed were self-actualizing people.
His research subjects also include some ordinary people, but are regarded as self-actualizing people or possible self-actualizing people.
Maslow's specific research method is to analyze various materials such as their letters and works.
According to Maslow, truly autonomous people possess fourteen distinct personality traits.
First, understand reality accurately and fully.
Maslow divided people's cognitive abilities into two types: b cognition, that is, being cognition; d cognition, that is, lack of cognition (deficiency cognition).
People with b cognition know what is going on in reality, and they will not understand phenomena according to their own needs, imagination or desire.
Not self-deception is the most obvious characteristic of people with cognition b.
On the contrary, people with d cognition perceive the world according to their own needs, imaginations or desires. "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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