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Hearing what Qing Yunfei said, Chu Lihua felt very uncomfortable.
She was indeed a little sorry for Qing Yunfei's husband.
——"I'm sorry as a novice mother, I was flustered before. I was afraid that I would not be able to give Xiaoqi complete love; I was afraid that she would have regrets in her life.
My fear made me focus on taking care of Xiaoqi and ignore you. The days you left let me understand that I have multiple identities now. I am not only Xiaoqi's mother, but also your wife.
However, when I am overwhelmed, these will be left behind.
Hellinger said, "In a family, the relationship between husband and wife has priority", and parents must not ignore their spouses in order to "love their children".
In fact, children are happy to see their parents love each other, instead of all coming to him to compete for love. If the parents love each other, the child will feel at ease to be a happy child, instead of fantasizing himself as an adult spouse of opposite-sex parents, doing things that are very inconsistent with his age group.
So, in fact, I am not a qualified mother.
However, you must understand that the two of us are the ones who will join hands for a lifetime. When Xiaoqi grows up, she will still leave home to create her own happiness.
Moreover, we have to take advantage of this time to learn how to be parents. Only then can we give me and your child the best parental love. "
Chu Lihua told Qing Yunfei the last paragraph. In fact, she always hoped that Qing Yunfei could accept Xiao Qi, so that Xiao Qi could grow up under the complete love of his parents.
For a very young child, as long as there is someone who loves her, she is satisfied. But when they are three years old, they will long to have the complete love of their parents at the same time.
That is to say, she desires the love of both same-sex parents and opposite-sex parents. The famous psychologist Hu Shenzhi said, "If one is missing, he will create another image."
At that time, the child's psychology will be unhealthy.
This is why children who grow up in single-parent families have some incomprehensible personalities.
On the other end of the phone, Qing Yunfei, who had been silent for a long time, only said one word.
——"You open the door."
Chu Lihua was startled, thinking that she had heard wrong.
——"You open the door."
Qing Yunfei said it again, this time, Chu Lihua was convinced,
She quickly ran to the door, opened the door, and Qing Yunfei was standing at the door with something in her hand——
"You're back."
After a long time, Chu Lihua said such a sentence.
——"Get out of the way quickly, the thing is heavy, hold back."
Chu Lihua hurriedly moved away foolishly.
Qingyun quickly stepped into the house, put down his things and only waved his hands.
——"It turns out that you have already planned to come back today."
After reacting, Chu Lihua was very pleasantly surprised.
——"I can't, let you celebrate the New Year alone. Today is New Year's Eve."
Qing Yunfei sat on the bed.
Are you thirty years old today? Really did not notice.
——"Thank you, big baby."
Chu Lihua walked over with a lot of emotion.
——"Go, go, don't mess with me like this."
Qing Yunfei pushed Chu Lihua away to pack up and prepare to cook
This guy, how could he be someone else on the phone when he met him?
Duplicity guy.
Thinking of this, Chu Lihua smiled.
As long as his heart is at home, what else does he care about.
It doesn't matter what he says, mainly depends on what he does.
Chu Lihua walked over and followed her to watch.
No, Qing Yunfei is preparing to make egg custard.
——"Do you want egg custard?"
——"It's Chinese New Year, what kind of egg custard do I eat, go and go, go on the side. You can't help much, don't get in the way of me (Northeast dialect, meaning to hinder)."
Chu Lihua walked away with a smile, she suddenly understood that Qing Yunfei was making supplementary food for Xiaoqi. Xiaoqi is almost four months old and can eat egg custard.
During this New Year's Eve dinner, Chu Lihua felt an unprecedented sense of relaxation.
Although, there is no time when the whole family is togetherThere are many products. But none of that matters.
This year, many people did not have time to go home for the New Year.
In the past two days, almost all the news headlines have been related to the pneumonia epidemic caused by the new coronavirus in Wuhan, and the Spring Festival travel has obviously added complexity to the prevention and control.
This kind of complexity is not limited to the huge number of people flowing during the Spring Festival travel season. In terms of the direction and trend of the flow, there have also been some new phenomena in the past two years.
Some time ago, Chu Lihua saw two articles analyzing the trend of Spring Festival travel on the official account City War and the "Beijing News".
These two articles pointed out that two "great changes" are brewing in the migration mode of Chinese people.
Traditionally, the Spring Festival travel is when people return home from big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to celebrate the new year. However, a new trend has emerged in the past two years:
During the Spring Festival, many people who work outside the home do not return to their hometowns for the New Year, but let their parents come to their working cities for reunion. This trend is called "Reverse Spring Festival Transport".
In the past, we usually used "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" as a joke.
For example, someone chooses "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" because they can't grab tickets. It's cheaper to have your parents come than to go home.
? When Chu Lihua spent the New Year alone in Beijing, I heard some people who worked in Beijing say that because everyone went home for the New Year, it felt quite different to go shopping in the streets during the Spring Festival. ?
But in the past few years, "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" is no longer a joke, it has become a trend that cannot be ignored.
The data shows that the passenger flow of the "Reverse Spring Festival Transport" is growing at an annual rate of about 9%. Until last year, the Ministry of Transport directly used the four words "obvious features" to describe the nationwide "reverse Spring Festival travel".
In the face of this trend, relevant departments in our country have also begun to take relevant actions.
In the Spring Festival of 2019, Li Wenxin, deputy general manager of the National Railway Group, once said: "The railway department will offer a discount on the fare of some non-traditional trains in popular directions, up to 35% off, to help more people reunite."
Chu Lihua can actually understand such a change.
In the past, Chinese people paid attention to "falling leaves return to their roots" during the Chinese New Year, that is, they had to go back to their hometown before the year was over.
But now, the family is actually getting smaller and smaller. Many young people around Chu Lihua will go back to their grandparents and grandparents at most during the New Year, and they will not be so keen on visiting relatives.
Under such a trend, it is emotionally acceptable for both parties to bring the elders to their own city for the New Year.
This year, taking advantage of the epidemic, let the small family celebrate the Spring Festival together.
In the future, Chu Lihua also plans to try to persuade her parents to "reverse the spring festival travel".
In my own home, it is my home field, so I won't be so restrained. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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