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    This time, the ideological impact that my father brought to my uncle was even stronger.  My uncle stood there in a daze, his expression constantly changing sharply.  It is conceivable that he must have fallen into a fierce ideological struggle at that time.  This is actually quite a difficult decision. On the one hand, it is my parents and relatives, and on the other hand, it is my beloved.  Either way, you can't give up.  Sadly, at the time, the contradictions between these two aspects were difficult to reconcile.  Uncle's heart is full of contradictions.  If you choose your parents and relatives, you will have to give up your lover; if you choose your beloved, you will probably fall out with your parents and relatives.  This is a dilemma.  From an emotional point of view, it is impossible for my aunt to give up on these two aspects.

    After struggling for a long time, my aunt finally made the final decision with heartache: "I must be with her!"

    Hearing my aunt's answer, my father knew that there was nothing he could do.

    Perhaps some people will be moved by my uncle's courage to go all out for love.  But it is not ruled out that some people will slander because of this: "This guy is too ruthless! He even gave up his parents for a woman!"

    In fact, in reality, there are definitely not a few people who slander my aunt.  It's just that if you say that he is "too ruthless" and that he "abandoned his parents", then it is indeed a bit wronged.  Such a choice is painful, otherwise, my uncle would not have made a decision after a long period of psychological struggle.  Uncle's decision is also after careful consideration.  My aunt's decision is actually to not give up on both aspects.

    With the firm opposition of my aunt and uncle at the time, it is obvious that you cannot have your cake and eat it too.  If my aunt chooses to obey her parents, then the final result can only be to give up her lover.  At that time, my uncle's feelings for that woman were undoubtedly so deep that he couldn't extricate himself.  Giving up that woman was absolutely unacceptable to my uncle at that time.  Therefore, my aunt had no choice but to make a difficult choice to temporarily abandon her parents and relatives.  Why is the choice so difficult?  It's because my aunt could predict how heartbroken my parents would be if I made such a decision!  But, after all, blood is thicker than water, no matter how angry my parents were at the time, as long as the raw rice is cooked, as long as my union with that woman becomes a fait accompli, then my parents will forgive me one day.  Although such a choice is painful, my cousin can foresee that there will always be a day when he and his parents will reconcile.  If you obey your parents, you have to give up your lover forever; if you choose your lover, there is still the possibility of reconciling with your parents.  Therefore, between the two, my uncle finally chose the latter.

    Perhaps, you will think that I am deliberately speaking good words for my uncle.  Maybe, you will ask this question: Even if he doesn't intend to give up his parents, once they fall out, what will the old couple do?  Who will take care of them?  Is it worthy of forgiveness to cruelly abandon one's parents for the sake of a woman, even temporarily?

    I guess, my uncle at that time should have thought of such a problem.  However, the big reason why he decided to be with that woman in the end was that he was not the only child.  Below him, there is a younger brother.  Moreover, at that time, his younger brother had already married and started a business.  When he thought about it, even if he left temporarily, his younger brother would still be at home to take care of his parents.  If there is no brother, then maybe his decision will change.

    Anyway, from not much communication with my uncle, I can clearly feel his filial piety to my parents.  According to him, now, every year, he pays filial piety to his parents.  Although my aunt was prone to be messy when she was young, and even opposed her parents, but one thing is good, that is, she will never disobey.

    Of course, the final result was no different from what my father had predicted.  My uncle completely fell out with his family because of the woman with three oil bottles.  The aunt and uncle acted unprecedentedly tough for the happiness of their son in the rest of his life.  The aunt and uncle agreed: "You unfilial son, if you dare to marry that woman, then you will no longer be our son." Even so, the uncle still insisted stubbornly.  So, my aunt and uncle kicked my uncle out of the house when they couldn't bear it anymore.

    Other people's weddings are joyful and bustling, but my uncle's, and the only one in his life, was held in gloom.  My uncle came to the woman's house alone.  Without the company and blessings of relatives, there is only him.  Although my aunt was married for the first time and the woman was remarried, my aunt had no status at this wedding.  In our words, this kind of behavior by my aunt is considered a marriage.  A married man has no family status, and at the same time will be looked down upon.  ??? is a stubborn concept formed by the feudal society for more than two thousand years, which cannot be changed in a short period of time.  For love, my uncle temporarily gave up his relatives; for love, uncle gave up his dignity as a man; for love, uncle gave up his reputation; for love, uncle really gave up too many things!  Isn't this behavior of giving up everything and being desperate for love not enough to move people?  Could it be that such an affectionate and sexual man is not enough to impress a woman's heart?

    It is undeniable that my aunt's behavior is a bit extreme, but I can be sure that in the eyes of girls who yearn for love, a man who is desperate like my aunt is definitely the cutest.

    However, in the eyes of all relatives and friends (including me at first), my aunt was unfilial and stupid.  For a woman, he can disregard his parents' feelings and stay away from his parents. Isn't such a person unfilial?  Perhaps it is understandable for people to be desperate for love.  However, the object of this love is a married woman, and a woman with three children.  Is it worth it to be so desperate?  Once you choose such a woman, then you have to give up the opportunity to have your own flesh and blood; once you choose such a woman, then you have to help others raise three children without complaint or regret.  Under the extremely realistic market economy environment, how many people would choose like my uncle?  Therefore, almost all relatives and friends felt that my aunt's choice was stupid!

    Combining the concepts of girls and relatives and friends, the conclusion is that the uncle at that time was "stupid and cute".  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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