Although it was extremely difficult, my uncle was not single. I don't know if it was introduced by someone else, or he talked about it himself, anyway, my aunt finally found one, and it was the kind you love and I want. Although the woman agreed, the uncle's parents quit. The reason is simple, that woman is not only married, but also carries a bottle of oil. There is actually a difference in this oil bottle. If there is only one child, then my aunt and uncle may consider it. After all, my brother-in-law at that time was not too young, and now I have finally met someone who is willing It's just that the woman's oil bottle is too much. Three children! There are actually three children!
After my aunt and uncle learned of this situation, of course they resolutely opposed it. No matter how stupid my uncle was before, he was also their son! As a parent, who would like to see their children go to help others raise their children? It's a pity that when I was young, my aunt and uncle couldn't control their eldest son. Although the current uncle has been greatly restrained, when it comes to his life's major events, he is still solid and cute, and has become extremely stubborn. Therefore, the earnest persuasion of my aunt and uncle did not have the slightest effect at all.
Only when they realized that they could no longer change the wrong decision made by the elder son did the aunt and uncle think of their father. Because, in their view, the only person in this world who can make their disobedient eldest son resist is his father. After my father heard about this, as a relative, he naturally promised to try his best. But my father also emphasized that he will be able to succeed without guaranteeing it.
Facing his father's call, although my uncle was apprehensive, he went resolutely because of his respect for his master.
However, to my aunt's surprise, my father's attitude was very gentle this time. My father is a man of seeking truth from facts, and he did not believe in the words of his aunt and uncle, but first asked his aunt about the specific situation.
Combining the information from the two parties, my father has been able to determine many, many things.
"I can tell that you're like a bastard eating the weights now¡ªyou've made up your mind!" The father first sighed helplessly.
Although my uncle was a little ashamed, he nodded firmly.
"Actually, logically speaking, you have already made up your mind, so I shouldn't say anything more. But, as your uncle, I have to mention you a few words."
After hearing what my father said, my uncle hurriedly said with trepidation: "You are not only my uncle, but also my master. If you need anything, just tell me."
"First, have you fully prepared yourself to raise children for others?"
Obviously, my uncle had thought about such a question a long time ago, so he replied without any hesitation: "Uncle, if I didn't have such mental preparation, then I wouldn't make up my mind to marry her."
"Don't answer me so quickly. I hope you don't make such a decision on the spur of the moment. You have to understand that this is not a matter of a day or two, it may be a lifetime. There is a saying that goes well, 'The child is your own good. '. After all, those children have no blood relationship with you. If you keep raising them like this, can you bear it in the end? I think you'd better think carefully about this issue. "
"Uncle, I have thought about it very clearly. I will always treat them as my own children."
After hearing this sentence, my father couldn't help shaking his head. It seems that this kid is very poisoned! "Okay, now that you have thought clearly, then you will face the second problem. Raising children is not an easy task, let alone three at once. Want to have all three children The cost of raising an adult is not small. Now, are you mentally prepared to work hard for a lifetime?"
"Uncle, I know this. After marrying her, I am willing to give everything for her. Isn't it just raising three children! With my current income, I can fully afford it."
After listening to my aunt's swearing words, my father knew that there was no need to dwell on this second issue. "Okay, since you have made up your mind to raise those children, then I don't want to say anything more. But, have you ever thought about such a question. She already has three children, so with After you get married, is it possible to have another child for you?"
After hearing this, my aunt was obviously stunned for a moment. Obviously, he himself had not thought of such a problem in advance.
The father sighed secretly, and continued to remind him kindly: "I think, under such circumstances, it is unlikely that she will give birth to you. In other words, if you insist on being with her, then You have to give up the chance to have children.To put it bluntly, it is no longer possible for you to have your own flesh and blood in this life! Have you ever thought about whether such a price can be afforded by yourself? "
The sensitive and sharp question raised by my father had a very strong impact on my uncle's thoughts. Therefore, after a long time, my uncle did not say a word. This kind of psychological struggle had long been expected by my father, so my father did not make any urging.
After a long silence, my uncle finally made up his mind. "Uncle, I have decided! For her sake, I am willing to give up this opportunity (to own my own flesh and blood)!"
Not to mention the father at that time, even I, who knew about it afterwards, was a little surprised at the charm of that woman. It's just that I haven't had the chance to see that woman's demeanor. It was also at the funeral home that I saw the woman for the first time. In my feeling, that is a very ordinary rural woman. Maybe, what happened between my aunt and her is the real "love". The so-called, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". It was precisely because he fell in love with that woman that my uncle was so desperate.
What else can father do besides sighing? In desperation, my father had to take out the last trump card. "Do you know why I came to you because of this?"
"It must be my parents who asked you to put pressure on me and try to break up the marriage between me and her!"
Father nodded, and then said: "Not bad! However, they are also for your own good. Don't blame them."
"I know. It's just that I know what kind of person I am. I'm very content to find such a lifelong partner. Uncle, I really don't want to miss this opportunity!" Uncle said helplessly, but also firmly .
"I'm not persuading you to give up this opportunity. I just want to remind you that if you insist on getting together with her, you will inevitably be opposed by your parents and almost all relatives and friends. Even, you will be with all your friends because of this." Family members have fallen out. That is to say, for her, you will probably lose all your relatives. You have to think carefully, is such a price you can afford?" (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel .com