? Although they still failed after trying hard, the parents did not give up because of this. If the front is not good, then change it to a curve. This time, the parents are going to use the relatives around Yaomei as a breakthrough point.
My little uncle and aunt are cousins. In the past, there was a saying that relatives increase relatives, so it is relatively normal for cousins ??to marry. But it was precisely because of the close blood relationship that the first few children had some problems and eventually died. Fortunately, I finally had a healthy son who was not only successfully brought up, but also very smart, and was admitted to graduate school. Now, this cousin of mine has settled down in Suzhou, established a family and established a business. On the whole, the ending is quite satisfactory.
Just because the little aunt and the little uncle are cousins, the relationship between the little aunt and the mother's cousin is even closer. Therefore, the father decided to pay the cousin to accompany the little aunt to Hengyang, in the name of visiting relatives (the little aunt's participation can greatly reduce the vigilance and resistance in Hengyang), and inquire about Yaomei's current situation by the way. Of course, if you can get one or two photos of Yaomei, that would be even better. At the same time, inadvertently, you can test out what the mother's cousin's brothers and sisters think about Yaomei's confession of relatives. If one or two of them can gain sympathy and support, then this trip to Hengyang will be perfect.
The little aunt is of course happy to do this. First, my aunt has a relatively close relationship with our family, and it is of course my duty to help my relatives; second, my aunt and everyone in Hengyang are relatives, and since I haven¡¯t seen them all year round, I miss them a little. Funding yourself to go, of course, is why not do it. For the little aunt, this is definitely the best of both worlds. Therefore, soon, this matter was finalized.
At that time, my cousin was still a graduate student. It can be said that my aunt's trip to Hengyang went very smoothly, and she received warm hospitality from everyone except her mother and cousin. From the perspective of my aunt's own visits, this should be considered a relatively successful trip. I don't know if Yaomei's relatives deliberately concealed it, or if my mother's cousin was also wary of her closest relatives. Anyway, when my aunt and cousin came back, they couldn't bring out even a photo of Yaomei. , not even in childhood.
The little aunt's relatives just took them on a tour, and never took the initiative to involve the topic of the mother's cousin's family. When the little aunt asked about it, they just skimmed over it. In their words, because the mother's cousin gave birth to a very good daughter, they can be said to be dismissive of their relatives. They had very little contact with their mother's cousin's family. Maybe it's because I don't want to mention it, maybe it's because I don't know much about my mother's cousin's family, or maybe it's because I don't want to cause unnecessary disputes and deliberately avoids it. Anyway, no matter what the reason is, the little aunt brought back from Hengyang Information about Yaomei is scarce.
Such a result will inevitably make parents a little disappointed. However, it is not entirely without exciting news. According to the little aunt, the daughter of one of Yaomei's aunts (we call mother's sisters aunts here, which means aunts with blood relationship) has a daughter who works in Shanghai, and this aunt of Yaomei will come to visit me recently daughter, so I will go back to my hometown to have a look. From the words of my aunt since I was a child, we can feel that Yaomei's aunt seems to want to help us recognize our relatives.
Undoubtedly, this exciting news gave disappointed parents another hope of success. Just on the phone, I can feel the excitement in my parents' words. At that time, my father was working in other places, otherwise he would have rushed to the city at the fastest speed like my mother.
Sure enough, Yaomei's aunt arrived as scheduled. We received her very warmly. Of course, this is not entirely because she wants to help us recognize our relatives. Don't forget, we are relatives with her. Even if she can't do anything, we will still give her such a warm reception for her who stopped by her hometown to have a look. Have friends come from afar! This is the traditional mentality of the Chinese nation.
The so-called "every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite", Yaomei's aunt also has her own troubles. Her daughter is far less outstanding than Yaomei. Therefore, after graduating from junior high school, I lived a life of idleness. It's just that I haven't been deeply involved in the world, and I don't know the dangers of the world. She was simply deceived by a female junior high school classmate. That female classmate, together with some unscrupulous young men, drugged her drink. When she was unconscious, they took her to a hotel and took some unsightly photos. Then use it to blackmail. Yaomei's aunt also called the police, but from her words, I could feel that she seemed dissatisfied with the police's handling. I didn't ask, I don't know if there is some kind of powerful umbrella behind these black apples. This incident cast a deep psychological shadow on a simple girl. It is said that at the beginning, thisPoor girls get nervous and scared whenever they hear the phone ring. For their daughter, they had to give up all their careers in Hengyang and move their family again. They came to Suzhou, where people were unfamiliar. After changing the environment, without constant harassment, the girl's mentality gradually returned to normal. Now, she herself has found a job selling clothes in Shanghai, and it is said that she is doing quite well. However, Yaomei's aunt is still not at ease, so this time she came to Shanghai from Hengyang specially, and decided to stay with her traumatized daughter for a long time in the future. I really feel sorry for the parents of the world.
This aunt's attitude is very clear, she thinks it should be a good thing for Yaomei to recognize her relatives. She said, after recognizing relatives, there is an additional father, an additional mother, an additional sister, and an additional brother. What's wrong with that? After getting acquainted with each other in the future, it might not be a good thing to walk around more with each other. She believes that we (referring to my sister and I) are all reasonable. After admitting relatives, Yaomei can still take care of her adoptive mother wholeheartedly, and the parents here will be taken care of by us, and there is nothing wrong with her. . This will not have much impact on the mother's cousin at all. Therefore, she felt that Yaomei's adoptive mother and Yaomei should have no reason to object to the recognition of relatives.
After Aunt Yaomei confidently promised that she would try her best to help, her mother became more enthusiastic about her relative, whom she had almost never met. It's just that my sister and I are far less optimistic than they are. In fact, the biggest problem of recognizing relatives is entangled in Yaomei herself. Therefore, I told Yaomei's aunt in private: "Even if I don't want to admit it, this is her (Yaomei's) relative after all. I hope she can take time to come and see my parents during their lifetime, and she doesn't need to be called 'Dad 'Call 'Mom', just come back and look at it is enough." (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com