Although my sister and I were not very active, they are the flesh and blood of our parents, so how could they not be in a hurry? Father has been working hard to find relatives. After many inquiries, I finally found someone from our village working in Beijing. That person started in a large real estate company, and his position is not low, he is the general manager with real power or something.
Coincidentally, when the parents contacted that person, their company happened to have business dealings with the large multinational retail mall where Yaomei was located. The parents told all about Yaomei's situation after adoption, of course the most important thing was her name. The two large companies have business contacts, and as senior executives of their respective companies, the man and Yaomei really had contact.
That person inadvertently asked for Yaomei's contact number, and then slowly revealed Yaomei's real life experience. I don't know the exact process, but I think that after suddenly knowing the truth, Yaomei must have experienced very violent mood swings. I don't know what Yaomei thought after knowing the truth, but she seemed to believe what our Murakami said. Of course, she couldn't tolerate her disbelief, after all, it was impossible for an outsider to know so clearly about her situation in her hometown in Hengyang. From the man's mouth, Yaomei also knew the strong desire of her biological parents to recognize her. However, Yaomei's reaction was very cold, and she just replied that she needed time to think about it. Yaomei did not say at the time whether she wanted to recognize her relatives or not.
Although that person is in a high position, his father and my father grew up together, and they were classmates, so the relationship is quite deep. Therefore, he did his best to do what his father told him. In order to recognize relatives, I also specially invited the senior management of my unit and Yaomei's unit to have dinner several times. It is precisely because of continuous efforts and slow disclosure that Yaomei gradually knows and accepts her true life experience. The man said to Yaomei, whether you want to recognize each other or not, there should be nothing wrong with communicating with them (referring to our family). After obtaining Yaomei's consent, the man just sent Yaomei's mobile phone number to her sister.
We have never seen Yaomei, nor have we seen her photos, but according to the person, Yaomei looks very similar to her sister. Until the end, my father's knowledge of Yaomei's appearance may be limited to this.
After the elder sister learned of Yaomei's mobile phone number, the emotional excitement of the parents can be imagined. At that moment, the parents seemed to vaguely see the happy scene of themselves embracing and crying with their long-lost daughter. Under the urging of her parents, the elder sister began to contact her younger sister with some trepidation. Although related by blood, they have never lived together. It can be said that we don't know anything about Yaomei's situation (living habits, preferences, etc.). The most important thing is that we are very afraid that after contacting, the results we get will disappoint and sadden the eager and excited parents.
Sure enough, after making contact, Yaomei's reaction was very cold. She just passively responded to one or two messages for a long time. Moreover, emotional issues are never involved in the discourse, and of course, the sensitive topic of whether to admit or not is avoided. At first, the parents helped Yaomei to talk, saying that as a senior executive of such a large company, she must have many important things to deal with every day, and she might have to go abroad, so how could she have so much free time to send messages and chat?
The contact has always been so painless, and gradually the parents lost their patience. Therefore, the parents asked the elder sister to ask Yaomei directly and clearly, what do you think about recognizing relatives? Immediately afterwards, Yaomei poured out a lot of bitterness. Talk about how "Dad and Mom" ??(mother's cousin and cousin-in-law) have been kind to her. She has worked so hard to bring her up, so she doesn't want them to be hurt even a little bit. Especially after "father" passed away, her "mother" was even more lonely. Now, "mother" is the only one left to rely on. She didn't want her "mother" to be stimulated in any way.
Although Yaomei didn't say it clearly, the meaning was already very obvious. My sister said, even if you don't recognize it, it's okay to let your parents take a look through video chat, right? Yaomei resolutely refused. Yaomei begged her sister not to contact her again. Yaomei said that her "mother" would often check her cell phone and QQ chat records, and she didn't want to make her "mother" sad because of her mistakes. Since then, Yaomei has never responded to even a single message.
Hearing such a result, the parents were full of disappointment. I know my parents must be even more regretful at that time. After remorse comes hatred, hatred for my cousin's treachery, and of course I hate my original wrong decision even more. My sister and I hurried to persuade. It is not easy to say that it is not easy for people to pull Yaomei so hard, and she is now a widow (referring to losing her husband), of course she can only rely on her adopted daughter. We should understand her mood. Besides, they are really good to Yaomei, we should thank them for raising Yaomei so well. The most important thing is that you still have us, and we will treat you even better in the future. After my sister and I exhausted?With all the consolation they could, the parents finally came out of the shadow of remorse and hatred.
After learning Yaomei's true thoughts, my sister and I were both guessing the reason. We all think that the statement that Yaomei refuses to recognize relatives for the sake of her adoptive mother is nothing more than a high-sounding excuse. My sister has already made it very clear that recognizing relatives does not mean severing the relationship with the adoptive mother. On the side of the biological parents, with my sister and me, there is no need for Yaomei to do anything. She just needs to find time to come back, let her biological parents take a look, and fulfill her parents' long-cherished wish for many years. You can continue to regard your adoptive mother as your "real mother" and be filial to your adoptive mother as always. If you take into account the psychological bearing problems of the adoptive mother, then you don't have to tell her about the recognition of relatives. As for the excuse of checking chat records, it is even more ridiculous. As a high-level leader and a talent in the new century, as long as you don't want people to find out, will an old lady who is nearly 60 years old see your chat records? Acknowledging relatives does not mean serving, it is nothing more than meeting one's own biological parents. The request is as simple as that. Not to mention her adoptive mother, even if she is her own husband, as long as Yaomei doesn't want to talk about it, he can't possibly know about it.
So why did Yaomei refuse to recognize her relative? My sister and I guessed that there should be only one reason, and that is "hate". At that time, Yaomei, after learning of her own life experience, only had "hate" for her biological parents. "Hate" them for abandoning themselves mercilessly. When you needed someone to take care of you the most, you ruthlessly abandoned me; now that you have achieved fame, you try to recognize me again, is there such a beautiful thing in this world? At that time, Yaomei might have thought that she had done us a favor by not expressing her "hate". Of course, we must never tell our parents such a guess. Otherwise, parents will be even more sad. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com