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086 Mother's Grievance and Anger

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    His father has a straight temper, and his complaints are often in front of his mother.  So, my sister was naturally aware of this new problem.  As a last resort, my sister and I had to persuade my mother from time to time.  Remind her to run as little as possible in the field and spend more time and energy taking care of her father.

    However, it's okay if we don't persuade, once we persuade, it's like lighting a gun barrel, and my mother completely exploded.  "You all say that I only care about the work in the field, but these days, I hardly go to the field. Even if I go, I will settle your father first. When you say that you want to strengthen  Nutrition, to improve food, I immediately bought fish, bought bones, and stewed soup to adjust. This meal is noodles, the next meal is porridge, and the next meal is soup I am changing the way! But your father  Fortunately, I have never given me a good face. Even in front of you, you have said that I am worthless. I am suffering and tired. But I have to keep quiet, okay? If it is not because of your father's poor health  ,I¡­¡­"

    Mother's words were full of grievances and unwillingness.  In fact, since my father was discharged from the hospital, my mother has basically been taking care of my father at home alone.  As my mother said, these days, she has been suffering and tired enough.  Here we can completely apply such a common saying: "There is no credit, but hard work"!  But the ruthless father, "every time" would angrily accuse his mother of recipes that he didn't know how to adapt.  The mother who always felt "worthless" by her father had accumulated a lot of resentment over time.  Our persuasion from the standpoint of the father just became the channel for the mother to vent her dissatisfaction.

    We sensed a hint of sexuality from our mother's words. Both my sister and I were afraid that my mother would quarrel with my father if she couldn't help it.  So when I heard this, I had no choice but to persuade me again: "Mom, in fact, Dad told us more than once that you have worked hard for him these days!"

    When my mother heard this, her face looked much better.

    "You know Dad's temper. He basically speaks with a cold face, but that doesn't mean he's blaming you. From what Dad said, we can all hear that he wants you to give him  When cooking, you can be a little flexible. Maybe, you feel that you are already very flexible. First rice porridge, then noodles, and then soup. Everything is different, so is it considered that you don¡¯t know how to be flexible?"

    "That's right, I'm already thinking of ways to change things. However, your father doesn't appreciate it at all!" The mother immediately felt that she had gained a psychological resonance, so she said a little angrily.  We know that this is the mother venting her dissatisfaction.

    "But, mom, you cook the porridge with fish soup, and the bottom is also fish soup, and the soup for father is still fish soup. Doesn't it taste like fish soup in the end after eating and drinking? You have changed so much.  tricks, and it takes two or three days to change, so who can stand it?"

    "I don't always use fish soup, don't I sometimes replace it with bone soup? I usually use fish soup and bone soup alternately." The mother realized that something was wrong.  Those who are on their side.

    After hearing my mother's sophistry, we replied unhurriedly: "Mom, we know that you use it alternately. But, you alternate it every two or three days. It is calculated based on the fact that father eats seven meals a day, two days  That¡¯s fourteen meals. Think about it, all fourteen meals a day have the same taste, who can bear it?¡±

    "Who can bear it? I can bear it. When we were young, we drank very thin and thin porridge every day, for years and months. Didn't we survive? What's more, I made fish soup and bone soup for your dad  These are many times more fragrant than porridge, why can't I stand it?" Mother retorted quite dissatisfied.

    "Momtimes are different. How can it be compared to before? What we mean is that you should pay attention to the changes in taste and variety when you adjust. This time eight-treasure porridge, next time bone soup noodles, then fish soup, and then again  Vegetable porridge Dad hasn't fully recovered yet, so it's inevitable that he won't have a good appetite, only by changing ways like this can he continue to whet Dad's appetite."

    "It's easy for you to say. Your father only eats a small amount at a time. If every meal is completely different, then I may not be able to make time if I am only busy cooking for your father all day long. Don't forget, you  Dad has to eat seven or eight meals a day? Don't 'stand and talk without back pain', come if you have the ability!" Mother angrily turned us into an army.

    The mother's move is quite effective.  Immediately, my sister and I became speechless.  Because, in fact, we really can't stay in our hometown all the time, so it's impossible to make different kinds of food for father every day.  Of course, the more important thing is because I love my mother.  Regardless of whether the work is satisfactory or not, after all, these days, my mother is working at home alone.  We have all seen the mother's hard work these days.  how can we bearHow about blaming my mother for some of her mistakes?  In fact, we did not mean to blame before.  After hearing that my mother remembered to say "Come if you have the ability", my sister and I realized that it was not appropriate to say anything more to my mother at this time.

    In the process of communicating with the mother because of the father's meal, the mother's emotional transformation from grievance to anger actually has extremely deep-seated factors.  On the face of it, the change in mother's mood was due to us helping father to say how bad her cooking was.  But when I think about it carefully, I feel that this kind of understanding is a little superficial.  As a great mother, I think she will never be angry because her children say a few words about the shortcomings of the meals she cooks.  The real reason for mother's anger is actually because she didn't feel our concern.  Instead of being relieved by our mother's hard work these days, we "blamed" for some flaws in the fruits of hard work.  Compared with the extreme concern for the father, it is no wonder that the mother will be angry because of this!

    Since my father's operation, our family's attention has been almost entirely on him.  Even so, we still regret that we didn't pay enough attention to our father at that time.  But after this exchange with my mother, my sister and I are strongly aware that these days, our attention to mother has been so lacking to the point of almost ignoring it.  At that time, my sister and I inevitably felt an apology in our hearts.  It is understandable that the father in special circumstances has become the focus of our family, but because of this, it is very inappropriate to ignore the mother who also has the kindness of nurturing him.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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