The night my father was discharged from the hospital, I took a good night's sleep without thinking about it. The next day, already refreshed, I started the long-lost regular life again.
Under normal circumstances, my daily life consists of going to work, doing housework, spending time with my children, writing and writing, and occasionally playing games. At this time, it was not long before the wife's exam (a special certificate exam). In order to save her more time for reading, I had to take the initiative to undertake almost all the housework. This restored regular life can no longer be described as fulfilling, because it is simply "busy". However, even in such a busy situation, I still insist on updating "Returning Souls to Save the World" every day. This persistence lasted for nearly two months, except of course the special circumstances where I couldn't touch the computer.
Compared with my busyness, my sister is much more relaxed. Therefore, my sister has enough time to worry about my father's postoperative recovery. At this point, compared with my sister, I really have not done enough.
After returning to his hometown, perhaps his mood improved greatly. In the first period of time, his father's physical recovery speed was significantly faster than that during the hospitalization period. This may be the most important reason for my negligence at that time. Through at least one phone call a day, my sister and I kept abreast of my father's situation in a timely manner. Regarding the gratifying changes in my father, when my sister and I were together, I once commented like this: "Now it seems that the attending physician is a bold and careful type!" Let me talk about my wife's cousin's point of view. As mentioned before, my wife's cousin is a well-known attending physician in the Department of Cardiothoracic Surgery of a well-known hospital in Nanjing. Once, I mentioned to him that my father's attending physician had said that his father's tumor had compressed the heart. The wife's cousin immediately said in puzzlement: "The heart is already oppressed, why do we still need an operation? Isn't this a typical reckless move!" His evaluation has always been the source of our doubts about the level and ability of our father's attending physician. However, when we mistakenly believed that father's operation was considered a success, we began to tend to trust father's attending physician again. At that time, we even had the idea of ??asking the attending physician to have a meal to show our gratitude.
Ever since my father was discharged from the hospital, my sister has always had this idea: to find a well-known Chinese medicine doctor for my father to prescribe some traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning. But firstly, we have been hesitant to find an old Chinese doctor in Shanghai or Nanjing; secondly, we feel that our father has been recovering well after being discharged from the hospital, and my wife¡¯s exam is coming soon, so subconsciously, we are busy with our own affairs. I don't think it's urgent. It is precisely because of these factors that the matter of prescribing traditional Chinese medicine for my father has been delayed again and again.
In addition to the idea of ??prescribing traditional Chinese medicine, my sister also inquired in many ways, trying to learn some valuable experience from other people who recovered better after esophageal cancer surgery. It just so happened that the father-in-law of one of my sister's high school classmates had undergone surgery for esophageal cancer, and it has been several years, and he is still in excellent health. Originally, there are different opinions on the Internet about the precautions after esophageal cancer surgery, and it is very difficult for us to decide when we are dazzled. Well now, there is a living successful case of others! No need to worry anymore, just learn from others with an open mind.
According to my sister's classmates, after esophageal cancer surgery, the most important thing is to control diet. She said that her father-in-law has been abstaining from meat after the operation, and this insistence lasted for a whole year. She also said that the surgery at the same time as her father-in-law was due to not controlling his diet, so he is basically gone now. She believes that if the diet is too good, it will not only nourish the patient's body, but also the latent cancer cells. Therefore, eating too well may create opportunities for cancer cells to break out again.
My sister's classmate also enthusiastically introduced a little secret recipe. She said that in addition to insisting on not eating meat, his father-in-law also drank "wheat juice" for a long time. Some people may ask, they have only heard that wheat can be ground into flour, is it possible that juice can be squeezed from flour at any time? There is no doubt that so far, there should be no such technology that can extract juice from flour. The "wheat juice" I'm talking about here refers to the juice squeezed from the green wheat seedlings that have just been unearthed for a long time. It is said that such juice has the effects of reducing inflammation and heat, detoxifying and anti-cancer, invigorating the stomach and eliminating food, and dredging the stomach. We never imagined that the commonplace wheat could be so powerful. It's hard to tell the truth from the fake on the Internet. However, there are living examples of my sister's classmate's father-in-law! Can there be a fake? For a while, we, especially my sister, regarded "wheat juice" as the magic medicine for my father to successfully eliminate the recurrence crisis.
Before my wife took the exam, even on weekends, we hardly ever went back to our hometown. Because, on Saturdays and Sundays, my wife also has to race against time to review Chong?, and I was solely in charge of the logistics and childcare for the two days. Thinking about it now, I still regret it immensely. I was too careless, and was blinded by the so-called "90%" success rate of the attending physician. Therefore, he made the wrong decision to return to his hometown to accompany his father wholeheartedly after his wife's exams were over.
We didn't go home, but every weekend, my sister's family almost took the time to go back and see my father. Since my sister gained valuable experience from her classmates, every time I go back, my sister will tell this living example to my father. On the one hand, it is to build up confidence for my father. He has lived for many years, and you should be able to do the same esophageal cancer surgery. On the other hand, and more importantly, he wants to subtly change his father's eating concepts and habits. The doctor's order from the attending physician is very simple, just one word: "replenishing". Except for a few foods that cannot be eaten, everything else can be eaten, and must be eaten. Because the attending physician believes that such a major operation for esophageal cancer does not cause little damage to the human body, and in order to recover, it is necessary to have sufficient nutrition supply. Only a comprehensive and reasonable menu with meat and vegetables can provide sufficient nutrition for the recovery of postoperative patients.
Father's temper has always been very stubborn. During the more than one month of hospitalization, my father has fully accepted the nutrition concept of the attending physician. It is not so difficult to convince father. For two or three weeks in a row, the effect of my sister's exhausted rhetoric was almost zero. In the words of my father: Don't doctors understand you? The attending physician did not tell me to be a vegetarian every day. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com