In fact, I have always believed that emotional counselors can take care of everything, but in practice, I feel that emotional counselors only play the role of counseling, but to really solve problems and confusion, you need to prescribe the right medicine. Just like Li encountered this situation, Maybe you advised her not to divorce, she thought you were right at the time, and if she went back to her life again, she would think of divorce again.
No one can tell what is going on between a husband and wife. There is an old Chinese saying, "Persuade peace rather than persuasion", "It is better to tear down a temple than to tear down a bridge". It is different from the past. Human psychology and temptation are too great, and there are too many things to choose from.
In the matter of operating Li, I also only provide conditions. As for whether to reconcile or leave, it has to be decided by her and her ex-boyfriend. I can't just give people any opinions.
In fact, some people are like this. They don¡¯t give up until they reach the Yellow River, but they don¡¯t give up until they witness it. Li is such a woman, but after Lu Daan came back and told me, and after I met her ex-boyfriend, I felt that there was no way.
I informed Li that her ex-boyfriend was here. Li was very excited when she heard that, and immediately drove to my place. I asked Li's ex-boyfriend to go to another room to drink tea by himself in advance.
Li asked me as soon as she entered the door, "Ms. Lin, where is he?" I saw that she couldn't wait, so I smiled and said, "Mr. Li, don't worry, I want to ask you a question."
Li asked me puzzled, "What's the problem?"
"These issues are all signed by our contract. Let me tell you again. If he agrees, he must not hurt his children or his ex-husband. If he does not agree, go back and live a good life, and find out more about your own problems , treat your husband well!" I reiterated this matter again, otherwise I was afraid what would happen if this excited woman couldn't bear the blow?
I pointed to that room, "He's waiting for you in that room! Go there!"
Li walked gently to the door of the room and stood there for a long time without knocking on the door. I could see it clearly on the surveillance camera. I think this woman is very excited, much more excited than her ex-boyfriend. Not excited.
Li finally mustered up her courage, knocked on the door and went in. After entering, Li's ex-boyfriend stood up quickly, "You are here!"
Li nodded. Her ex-boyfriend asked her to sit down and poured her a cup of tea. Li just stared at her ex-boyfriend intently and didn't speak for a long time.
It was Li's ex-boyfriend who said, "Are you okay now?" After the ex-boyfriend said this, Li burst into tears, and I heard her choking.
Seeing Li crying, Li's ex-boyfriend was at a loss for a while, and finally picked up a napkin from the table and handed it to Li, "Stop crying, let's talk!"
But Li still couldn't stop, and cried louder. Li's boyfriend lost his mind for a moment. I watched him light a cigarette, but he didn't look at Li.
After a while, Li finally stopped crying. She wiped her eyes with a tissue and asked her boyfriend, "I heard you got divorced?"
The ex-boyfriend was taken aback, "I'm not divorced? Who did you hear from?"
Li also asked in surprise, "Are you not divorced?" The ex-boyfriend nodded. Then the two talked about their lives after the breakup, but when they talked about the quarrel when they broke up, the ex-boyfriend said what was in his heart. He said that Li's family was very opposed to him dating with Li at the time, and he always asked someone to come. Looking for him, and someone threatened him, but he didn't talk to Li about it.
Li was very surprised, she asked, "Is this really the case?" Li's boyfriend nodded, and said that Li's parents made trouble for her failure to stay in the provincial capital after graduation.
Li began to comfort her boyfriend. She said that things had passed for so many years. She should forget or forget.
The boyfriend persuaded Li to get married. In fact, the breakup at that time was due to fate. Don't remember too many things. Let her treat her husband well and communicate with him well.
When Li heard her boyfriend say these words, she began to cry again. But Li's boyfriend is a very sensible person, and his words are also very rational. I admire him for having such a mind.
But Li is not the kind of willing person, she also asked her boyfriend, "Can I divorce and marry you?"
Li's boyfriend seemed to be taken aback by her question, "Now we all have families, wouldn't it be a bit too selfish to abandon other people's happiness for our own happiness!"
I gave a thumbs up to the monitor, as expected of a teacher, he speaks well. But Li is also a teacher, so I don't think she is very rational, and there are too many emotional things.
"Then I really don't want to live with him now, I feel that life is at the end, and there is no happiness at all!" Li was still talking about her misfortune.
Lee's boyfriend?Lighting a cigarette, "The relationship between husband and wife lies in communication. If you blindly follow your own way, it is also selfish!"
"But when I was in love with you before, I always wanted to be happy with you" Li couldn't stop talking, and I felt that she was really going too far.
"You can't think like this. You should communicate. If you always think like this, it will become a knot in your life. Forget about me! We are all for our own lives! Okay?" Li's boyfriend said this to Li very clearly In other words, I admire him very much.
Li nodded, but I felt that she seemed to want to say something, but the ex-boyfriend stood up and said to her, "Li, live a good life for your family and children! I'm going back to school, I wish you happiness!" The bag went out.
There was only Li sitting there blankly in the room, I hurriedly opened the door of that room, sat opposite Li, poured a cup of tea, and said, "Miss Li, life is like this, nothing is perfect, but We have to go on, right? If you think it's perfect, it's because you didn't live with him, and if you do, there will still be conflicts of one kind or another!"
Lili nodded after hearing what I said, and shed tears again. In fact, in Li's heart, her boyfriend is a hurdle that she will never be able to overcome. Only when they meet and Li dies completely, will she re-examine herself.
Li may naively think that as long as she gets divorced and remarries her ex-boyfriend, life must be happy. But that was her perceptual knowledge. In fact, it is like this between people. When they broke up regretfully at that time, they would look forward to the days when they were together. Now how many childhood sweethearts between husband and wife have come to an end in the end, and how many classmate couples have also divorced.
It is said that marriage is a tomb, which is the height of ideal love. I think marriage is a destination, a destination of responsibility and responsibility.
No more emotion. It will be a while before Li immediately steps out of her own fantasy. She asked me, "What if I go back and I don't want to bow to my husband?"
I am really speechless. It seems that she is a very strong woman at home, and her personality follows a person's life, and it is not static. Don't many people give up a lot for their families?
"I feel that husband and wife are equal. You should be nicer to your husband, but you should communicate more. Maybe it's better!" That's all I can say.
When Li was about to leave, I told her that we could communicate with each other at any time. She nodded and drove off. Watching her drive away, I was thinking that if I can save a family, I can also accumulate virtue. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com