After Susu came back at night, she came back alone, and Zhan Ying didn't come. As soon as she entered the door, she first said modestly to me, "Honey, I'm sorry for making you suffer"
I have received a call from Xiaohong a long time ago, and she said that the negotiation with Susu was successful, so that I don't have to do this in the future, and everything will come up according to the counseling contract. That's why Susu took the initiative to admit his mistake to me, and I pretended to be surprised and said, "Susu, what's wrong?"
Then Susu apologized for the disrespect and mistreatment of me during this period. I smiled and waved to her, "It's okay, I know it's right for a woman to be wary."
?I called Susu over for dinner, and Susu said modestly, "I won't let you cook in the future, to be honest, I don't know how to cook myself, why don't we go out to eat!"
"Haha, what a great atmosphere to eat at home! Why go out to eat? It's unhygienic and a waste of money!" After I finished speaking, I served the rice, and then asked why Zhan Ying didn't come.
Susu told me that she had already told Zhan Ying that she would not come here again, and that if I behaved badly at night, she already had a self-defense weapon. After speaking, she took something out of her bag, and I was dumbfounded , It¡¯s a very long fruit knife, this girl is really cruel, I have to be careful, if I get sick, I don¡¯t know how I will die.
We ate and chatted, Susu didn't change her domineering style in the past, and she spoke softly as before. Hey, if this woman is like this every day, even a man will not be tired no matter how painful he is.
After dinner, Susu took the initiative to wash the dishes. I smiled and said, "If you haven't done housework before, don't reach out, but within this month, I promise to teach you how to do it."
After tidying up, the two of us sat on the sofa and watched TV, and then I asked Susu, did she dream that the husband she was looking for was called "Lin Yucang"?
Seeing me asking this, Susu looked at me and smiled, "Can you stop asking this topic, it makes people feel embarrassed"
When I thought about it, why was she embarrassed? She went to the company many times because of me, why did she suddenly not admit it now? Under my questioning, Susu finally told the truth. She said that she had never had such a dream, and she did not ask a fortune teller to calculate it. Everything was Zhan Ying's idea.
Susu said that she did have psychological confusion, but she didn't want others to know her inner world. At Zhan Ying's suggestion, she decided to go to me. She also heard Zhan Ying talk about me, saying that I am very good at emotional counseling, and I have a good temper. People like her who have never been in a relationship can try to get in touch with me in this way, not with me. Marriage is just the feeling of finding a good husband first.
I heard it in a mess, but I still understand that Susu has never been in a relationship. In her eyes, a good husband must be as handsome as the man in an idol drama, but also follow her standards, because she She was about to be in her thirties, which made her suddenly feel anxious about starting a family.
I think every single woman will have this feeling. When she was young, she thought that she was beautiful and noble, and that her husband was definitely the first-class man, so she missed the good time in the search. When she was older, she had no choice but to Just looking for one to spend the rest of my life with. But there are also older girls who swear that they will never find a man for the rest of their lives. This is not normal. Maybe this is a way for them to escape from life. Through the failure of other people's love and the hard work of raising children, they realize that this is a cowardly woman.
Susu, who was sitting in front of me, was in a different situation, because she lost her father since she was a child, and her mother lived with her eldest sister in other places.
?Because she had no father since she was a child, in her mind, there has never been a man's standard for what kind of man to look for. After graduating from university and working, my family urged me, and I also came into contact with many idol dramas, so I had the psychology of imitation and fantasy, dreaming that my husband should be like this, or should be like that.
But whatever it is, no matter how rich you are, you're not complete without a home. But thinking about it the other way around, many things belong to personal privacy and personal rights, and no one has the right to interfere with other people's freedom.
In Susu's eyes, her husband's appearance should be obedient, and her husband has to listen to what she says. Although it is not a morbid psychology, it is just like a woman likes a man's favor.
Therefore, Susu followed Zhan Ying's idea and tricked me into coming here. In fact, this contract is also a complete emotional counseling contract, using my "manservant" behavior to satisfy Susu's psychology of being a domineering woman.
Susu thinks that my emotional counselor is very qualified, and I have met her psychological needs with my practical actions. She said that she will find a husband like me in the future.
I hurriedly persuaded Susu, don't set her husband's standard on someone's standard.?If you don¡¯t, you will never find the man in your heart. Because people are different and each has its own merits, but responsibility and responsibility must be the premise.
Susu sighed and said that if she didn't meet someone like me, she would rather be alone.
At that time, I advised Susu not to think like this. Many people choose to be single for the rest of their lives, not because of what they thought at the beginning, but because they encountered many difficult things.
But Susu said that she saw that her mother raised her and her elder sister alone, and they lived well. It was only then that I felt that Susu's inner life was greatly influenced by her mother, because her father passed away before she was born, so her husband's father was vague in Susu's heart.
I told Susu that her mother chose to be alone because of her responsibility and for the growth of her and her sister. In fact, Su Su's mother was in her heart, and she never thought of having a man to help her.
Susu nodded after hearing what I said. She said that through this practical counseling, she saw how to treat a man and how to find a husband.
The anxiety of single women wanting to start a family is reflected in Susu a lot. In fact, she said just now that she doesn't want to find a husband, and that she won't look for a husband who can't find a standard like mine. That's not what she said in her heart. Deep in her heart, she has always longed for a home.
I have three suggestions for Susu: one is to learn to be a gentle woman, such as cooking at home and doing laundry. These things should be learned, and you should not rely on eating out or spending money on laundry. If you don't know these basic things after you get married in the future, it will also affect your image as a woman.
Second, I suggest Susu not to think that the relationship between husband and wife in the future is who leads the other, and husband and wife are equal. Third, don't set a standard for future spouse selection. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Learn to tolerate.
Susu fully accepted my three suggestions. She said that she has been living in a woman's world, and she has never contacted other men except her mother and sister. Especially at work, my mother kept reminding me not to play with those boys. If I suffer a loss, I will regret it for the rest of my life.
Susu's mother's views influenced Susu, so that Susu never dared to talk to someone. Sometimes a good colleague in the unit introduced her, but she refused immediately after just one glance. This may also be her psychological shadow.
After Susu finished talking, she suddenly asked me, "I heard that you got divorced? How did you get married so quickly?" (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com