In the past two days, Anping's business has also decreased, and I happened to be at home to organize and guide customers. I first made a few preliminary classifications according to gender, age and occupation, and then stored these materials one by one. These materials are the first-hand materials for future research on emotions, which are very precious.
At this time, the little penguin started to shake, and I quickly opened it, and a female netizen named "Jingxin" (if you have the same name, please don't check the number, after all, there are many duplicate names on the Internet) came to add me, and I added it.
After the addition, this person called Jingxin asked me, she had a lot of confusion and needed my help. I asked her whether it was a face-to-face or an online chat, and she chose the face-to-face.
After we agreed on a time, I briefly asked her about the situation. Some basic work that can be done online can be solved directly online. Otherwise, if you extend the customer's time, they will be very annoying.
Jingxin works as an English teacher in a middle school in a county town. According to my information, she is 26 years old. She probably went to teach in a middle school a few years after she graduated from university.
?Because Jingxin was working in another county, I waited for her in the shop ahead of time when the appointed time came.
Zang Lin asked me when I would be free to accompany her to the hospital for an examination, and I said that I would accompany her to the hospital after counseling the client.
Zang Lin glared at me, "You have violated the agreement!" So she went back to her mother with a big belly full of displeasure.
? The agreement stipulates that when there is a conflict in the work of the two parties, it shall be resolved through negotiation. I cursed secretly, nnd, it¡¯s not my seed!
After Jingxin arrived, she was surprised by the environment in my store. She first looked at the settings of each room, and then she asked me if I was here alone?
I looked at Jing Xin, she had a shoulder-length hairstyle, a chubby little face, and a pair of charming big eyes.
I quickly told her that my wife had returned to her mother's house. I didn't want the client to think that I was a single man. If that was the case, it would be very troublesome.
After sitting down quietly, I still let her read some guidance instructions as usual, including filling out the basic situation form and agreement. So after the pre-work is done, we enter the grooming process.
Jingxin took a sip of coffee, looked at me, and blushed before saying anything. I think she must have something unspeakable in her heart.
I turned on the light music, and as the beautiful music sounded, the meditation seemed to relax my mind.
She said that she is very troubled now. She doesn't know why, but she is upset when she looks at everything, and sometimes it affects her work and life.
My heart tightened, and I thought it might be depression. If so, I can't solve it, so I should go to a professional doctor.
I asked Jingxin if she had ever been in a relationship, Jingxin nodded and said that she had a relationship a year ago, but it is over now.
I asked her if her mood changed after the relationship ended?
She said it had something to do with that relationship, but not quite.
Jingxin told me that her boyfriend was working in a southern city. Due to the distance, they could only choose to communicate online. Her boyfriend was five years older than herself, and later her boyfriend came to the county.
It is said that distance produces beauty, but there is still a rift between them. Later, Jingxin and her boyfriend had conflicts because of the lock, so they broke up.
I interjected: Can you tell me about the lock between you two?
Jingxin sighed and said, it's not a big deal, it's just that she heard that her boyfriend was in contact with other women in the south, so she didn't want to be with him anymore.
Jingxin also said that she was also chased by someone in school, and it was the principal of her school. She felt that the principal was very kind and treated her very well.
I thought to myself, meditation must have experienced the temptation of a mature man, and at the same time faced with a boyfriend and couldn't bear the loneliness.
Sure enough, Jingxin said that the principal who pursued her was a family man, so she didn't want to associate with the family man anymore, but the principal pursued her relentlessly, and she was very contradictory.
I told Jing Xin that men with families must resolutely stay away, otherwise she will be the one who gets hurt in the end.
Jingxin nodded, her face immediately flushed. I think maybe I was a bit shy when I mentioned one of her. Of course, I can't ask about her privacy. Wherever she talks, I will solve it.
Jingxin told me softly that she is single now, and she always feels like something is missing, she is absent-minded every day, and has no passion for doing anything.
In fact, I don't quite understand the thoughts of girls of this age, but as the saying goes, the first love, the young girl is pregnant, will she be in this state?
"Ms. Lin, I talked too much just now, don't mind." Jingxin said to me.
"It's okay, everyone has the most private side, you are very sincere, and you can see yourself correctly." I took a sip of tea.
Jingxin said that she is in a mess now, and always wants to have a man by her side, but the men I meet are always unable to realize it because of one or another difficulty.
I am in admiration for Jingxin's ability to express my inner feelings so sincerely. I also admire this woman for being able to see her own weaknesses clearly.
In fact, it is not difficult to find that Jing Xin, as a teacher, can stick to her duty when dealing with emotional problems, and she is determined not to be a mistress, which shows that she is very rational.
Now there are fewer rational women, and more emphasis is on money and material things. Of course, it cannot be said that it is wrong. Who would oppose money? Every girl wants to live a happy life.
Jingxin also said that she sometimes chooses the Internet to find excitement, flirting with men on the Internet, and she thinks she is the happiest that way. But once she returned to reality, she felt very bored and had no interest in doing anything.
I asked Jing Xin, what would she do if a man who liked her appeared in front of her now.
Jing Xin said without hesitation that she would choose to be with this man. But she also said, how come she has never met such a suitable man.
In the past, the old people said that men should get married when they go to college, girls should get married when they go to college, and women should also be pregnant, which seems to make sense. I can only say that when Jingxin reaches the age of marriage, she should find a suitable man, only then will she get out of this period of depression.
Jingxin asked me after drinking coffee, "Mr. Lin, the principal also said that he would divorce and marry me. Do you think it is true?"
I really didn't expect Jing Xin, as a teacher, to ask such childish questions at such an age. In turn, I think that some people's brains are sometimes very naive when they are going through the emotional stage, which also explains why some people take extreme measures when they fall in love.
I told Jingxin, never believe such words, even if the principal is divorced, don't choose, since he can abandon his first wife, he may abandon her in the future.
Jingxin couldn't help nodding, she said that her colleagues also advised her not to get close to this principal, saying that this person used to be a very perverted person, but in a school, he bowed his head and looked up, and there were many things that he couldn't get around. .
It seems that Jingxin has caught the attention of the principal, and I think they may have already had a relationship. But I still advise Jingxin to stay away from this principal, otherwise I will suffer even more in the future.
After Jingxin left, I suddenly felt that people nowadays are really incomprehensible, but I can see from the other side, since ancient times, the topic of men and women can never be finished. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com