This morning, as soon as I woke up, I received a call from Lu Daan. He said that Zang Wan was about to force a marriage, and asked me to help him out.
I know this Lu Daan doesn't want to get married now, he once said that once he gets married, Zang Wan will be tied tightly, and the fat man will definitely lose his freedom.
Fatty wants to delay talking for a few years. I told him that in a few years, the seeds will be old, the land will be poor, and they will get married.
Just after washing up, someone knocked on the door. I opened the door and saw a young lady in her thirties standing at the door. He was very handsome, with a crew cut and a jacket.
"Hello, please come in!" I knew that the client was coming for counseling, so I hurriedly let him in.
"Are you Teacher Lin?" The man asked me very politely.
I brought him a cup of coffee, "Yes, just tell me if you have any confusion or questions."
The man looked at me and asked me how many years I had been in the counseling business. I laughed. It was the first time someone asked me this way when I met so many clients.
"It didn't take long to do it, but I got the support and help of many friends." I said to him with a smile.
The flat-headed man nodded, looking very good, I know he is assessing me, in my line of work, anyone may meet, but I must maintain a normal and humble attitude.
I handed him the grooming form, and the kid started filling it out without saying a word. Seeing him like this, he shouldn't look like a confused person. Could it be that he's here to find fault?
After filling out the basic information form, this kid asked me again, which made me dumbfounded, "Mr. Lin, are you married?"
The forest is really big, and there are all kinds of birds. The flat-headed man asked me to help him solve the problem, or he came to ask me about the situation. But it is their right to ask how they ask, and I cannot turn against them because of this.
"I'm married, how about you?" I seized the opportunity and started to ask him. Just now I knew about his basic information. roughly.
The crew-headed man (as I call him) smiled and said to me, "It's over, it's boring!"
"Yeah, a lot of times getting married means responsibility and obligation. Having a child and being busy with the child means that we don't have a lot of free time, especially at our age, where there are seniors and juniors, and our career is on the upswing. " I said to the crew-cut man while loading the materials.
Unexpectedly, the man with the crew cut stood up all at once, "Ms. Lin, you are a bosom friend!" He reached out to shake my hand as he spoke.
I smiled, "Brother, just tell me if you have any confusion! As men, it's not easy for us." I admire straight men like men with short hair. Play the pathos card.
"Mr. Lin, why do you think I always look at other people's wives beautiful?" The flat-headed man's words made me really dumbfounded, who doesn't look at other people's wives handsome? This is a common problem, and there is no need to explain it!
"This is a very normal thing. After all, the husband and wife have been together for a long time and have a sense of aesthetic fatigue, so they think that other people's wives are more beautiful than their own." I patiently explained to the flat-headed man.
"Does Teacher Lin feel this way too?" The flat-headed man suddenly threw the question at me again, which really made me helpless.
I smiled and said to the flat-headed man, "All normal men feel this way! Seeing that your eyes are full of expectations, you must have encountered setbacks in reality, right?" I answered the flat-headed man's question directly Let him express his inner confusion.
The crew-haired man sighed, and then began to speak. It turns out that after the flat-headed man married his wife, he always looked at his wife as old and pale, and looked at other people's wives as flowers.
I want to give birth to you, cook for you, and take care of the house, so that you will not grow old, then you will not be a goddess of immortality like Liu Xiaoqing.
The flat-headed man told me a secret, as long as he likes married women, he chats with married women in the work unit, and uses social software to chat with married women. I think he is a man who eats the bowl and looks at the pot. If he continues, it will seriously affect the harmony of the family.
I asked him, is it just talking about not doing anything out of line?
The flat-headed man actually said that he had an experience with his buddy's wife. He also said that his buddy's wife was so attractive to him that he couldn't resist the temptation and fell in love with her. .
When I heard this, I wish I could kick him away, nnd! A friend's wife can't be bullied, this kind of bird man, even his buddies' wives won't be spared, he's not as good as a beast!
This kid was still talking about those plots with joy, I asked him if he dared to attack his buddies and wives, did he not know the consequences before?
He said that he did think about it, but the desire was too strong and he couldn't control himself.
I'm really sad for this crew cut man, if I let my buddies knowHis things ranged from cutting off his friends, to cutting off his second child.
I asked him if he had had that kind of relationship with a familiar woman, and the boy actually said that he had had a relationship with a female colleague in the unit, and there was more than one.
It's over, this kid is too messy, he even eats the grass by the side of the nest, and it's about to get into trouble.
She said that his wife knew about her and insisted on divorcing her, but he didn't want to. Therefore, the husband and wife often quarrel in their lives, which annoys the flat-headed man. Therefore, he came to me and wanted to get an answer from me.
"How did your wife find out?" I asked him.
The flat-headed man said something that made me almost laugh out loud. He said that one day his wife washed his clothes and found a small condom from his pocket, so he asked him what the condom was for.
Of course the flat-headed man refused to admit it, but his wife insisted on divorcing him, so he was very distressed.
I smiled and said to him, let's get divorced, being together is also troublesome, why don't you choose to divorce? In fact, I said this to stimulate him. From the test form, this person just now belongs to the kind of person who repeatedly commits crimes and corrects himself.
But the flat-headed man saw that I was irritating him with words, and said to me with a wry smile, "Mr. Lin, stop teasing me and give me an idea. If we leave, my poor child will have to have a stepfather and a father." stepmother!"
It seems that the flat-headed man is still a bit ashamed and can be reformed. He is not an incurable person as I thought at the beginning.
I told the flat-headed man that as long as he is a normal man, he will have a feeling of looking at other people's wives, but he has to learn to control this complex. If he lets himself go, he will not only hurt his own family, but also hurt other people's families.
The flat-headed man kept nodding, and he said that he would never talk nonsense again. I thought to myself that this way of playing around is too dangerous, no matter how beautiful someone else's wife is, it belongs to someone else, and you can't get it, even if you get it, you will keep looking for it.
I asked the flat-headed man to go home and admit his mistakes to his wife, and just explain the problems and contradictions. At the same time, he had to communicate with his wife more to train his relationship. If he became alienated, the relationship would gradually fade away.
In a man's mind, his wife should be like a noble lady during the day, a prostitute at night, and a qualified housewife at ordinary times.
In fact, many things between husband and wife can be resolved. It is not as difficult as imagined. Be considerate of each other and think more about each other. It does not mean keeping freshness, but at least many barriers can be resolved in time.
The flat-headed man stood up excitedly again, "As expected of a teacher, you are better than a fortune teller! I listen to everything!"
nnd, this kid must have gone to fortune-telling before, no wonder, many people now classify our profession as fortune-telling.
I was about to explain some reasoning to this kid when the door opened and Zang Lin came in with a big belly.
The kid immediately turned his head and looked at Zang Lin intently. I thought to myself that a man with a flat head is really a dog who can't change his shit, so he wouldn't be interested in Zang Lin.
Let this kid see, Zang Lin is not my real wife anyway. Thinking of this, I suddenly felt a sense of sadness. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com