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Chapter 023

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    On this day, I was chatting in the customer group as usual, and suddenly the little penguin shook again, and a man who claimed to be exquisite wanted to add me.

    After adding, he asked me what kind of counseling does the emotional counselor do?  After I introduced him to the grooming program, he asked me about something I wanted to consult.

    I smiled and said to him, "Haha, what do you want to ask?"

    He typed a series of texts to me one after another. He said that he is now in love with his girlfriend, but every time he is with his girlfriend, he feels dirty, so he is under extra pressure.

    It seems that this is a man with a strong cleanliness obsession. I didn't want to continue with him, but he insisted on coming to my store. I had no choice but to make an appointment with him.

    Because his online name is Exquisite and Warm Man, let¡¯s use this name as his nickname for the time being, I don¡¯t know how exquisite he is.  Most of the names given on the Internet are very appropriate to my personality.

    When it was time to make an appointment with this man who claimed to be exquisite and warm, he came to me on time. I saw that he was wearing a pair of thin-rimmed glasses.  Connotation?  I think he's a warm guy at best.

    He first introduced himself. He is 28 years old and has a shy and introverted personality. His girlfriend works with him in a hospital. She is a lively and optimistic girl. According to him, his girlfriend is well-known in the work unit and has an aggressive attitude at work. Unlike him, he is indecisive.  .

    His girlfriend's job is a pharmacy doctor. At the beginning of the acquaintance, his wife took the initiative to pursue him. After they knew each other for 8 months, they became deeply attached to each other and began to talk about marriage.  But the delicate and warm man never agreed, citing that the house and the car were not resolved, and thought about reconciling after a while.

    In fact, the delicate and warm man told me that the reason why he postponed his marriage was because he felt depressed when he was with his girlfriend, and felt that his girlfriend was stronger than her. In addition, the delicate man was very conservative.  uneasy.

    I asked him why he felt this way. He said that his girlfriend had a best friend who was very open-minded. Her best friend also worked in the hospital. She had affairs with many men before marriage and had multiple miscarriages.

    And the girlfriend borrowed money to help her best friend to do the abortion when she was not financially well off. Now her girlfriend's best friend is married to a rich middle-aged man.  He said that his girlfriend and best friend are still in close contact, which makes him uncomfortable.

    nnd, this kid is too lenient. It is friendship for a girlfriend to help a best friend, and there is nothing wrong with it. This kid is still uncomfortable.  He is accompanied by beauties now, and labor and capital are only a man!

    I didn't interrupt him and continued to listen to him.  He believes that his girlfriend has been subtly influenced by his girlfriends, and he often talks with him about love between men and women, and sometimes he does not shy away from talking about excitement.

    For example, once his girlfriend actually told his colleagues that a certain man went to ***, not only one at a time, he was very angry when he heard it, but afterwards he told his girlfriend that he should not talk about these topics, but his girlfriend thought it didn¡¯t matter, it was just a joke among colleagues  , but his girlfriend's various behaviors made this delicate man helpless.

    Hey, I am really convinced by this person. It was something normal that made him fuss. I wanted to end this counseling quickly, so I asked him if he had a cleanliness habit?  He said it was a little bit, but not serious, mainly because he felt that his girlfriend had slept with other men, so every time they made out, he felt very dirty and had to go to the bathroom to wash constantly.

    nnd, this is not cleanliness!  Seriously, it is a disease.  Finding such a good girlfriend is not enough.  I heard what he said, and felt that his girlfriend was a very cheerful girl. This kid actually associated his girlfriend's actions with his girlfriend. I was really speechless.

    The delicate and warm man then said that he is very conflicted now, should he break up with his girlfriend or marry her.  If they were separated, he would not be willing to part with him. He said that his girlfriend sometimes fascinates him very much.

    I am confused now, and I don't know what he wants to explain. His ambivalence is really incomprehensible.

    Just as I was thinking about how to explain it to him, this kid actually described to me what happened in bed with his girlfriend, I quickly made a pause gesture, "Dude! Don't talk about this, this is your private matter, and I'm not a sex expert!  "

    The delicate man looked a little embarrassed when he saw me and asked him to stop talking about these things.  I thought to myself that if you go on talking, an unmarried man like me will react.

    I looked at the warm man sitting in front of me, I don't know how to start, after all, I am older than him, and I haven't experienced all the glory and beauty, I didn't expect him to be happier than me, not satisfied, I am really jealous  Boundless.

    In order to break this embarrassment, I advise delicate men to start a family early. If they have a child, it will become the emotional bond between them.  But he was afraid that if he didn't understand deeply, he would get divorced after marriage.

    Perhaps the readerWell, I think that delicate men are too lacking in courage, and they don¡¯t even know the details of their girlfriends. Some netizens think that delicate men should be content with such a beautiful girlfriend. Actually, I am not a sex expert, but I feel that he will continue to be so refined. Girlfriend  Must leave him.

    I told Nuannan that no matter if you live together or get married, if you live together, although it is not protected by law, it is still a de facto marriage.  People must have flaws of one kind or another, which are all due to their personality, and we should not magnify the shortcomings of others, so we can go further by accepting each other.

    I can only talk to him from a legal point of view, and I can't talk about it from a gender perspective. This is a matter of sexual life, and it is not a problem that I can solve.  Besides, the delicate man looks very quiet, he must be more knowledgeable than me, he will not understand the truth.

    I continued to explain to him how to overcome the shortcomings of both parties. After all, the personality flaws of men and women will be revealed after a long time, so if they can continue to maintain a fresh feeling at this time, then they will be able to move towards marriage smoothly.

    It is said that marriage is a grave, but why do so many people jump into it?  Those who say that marriage is a tomb are idealists. Most people still choose to get married. I don¡¯t agree with the practice of trial marriage and cohabitation. It is not protected by the law and both parties will be hurt.

    Some traditional concepts of our countrymen have long been broken by foreigners, and it cannot be reversed by just one or two people.

    I told Nuannan that you should treat your girlfriend like a wife and treat others well, if a big girl dares to live with him, that means you have him in your heart.  Don't put yourself in the other's shoes. Opening up your girlfriend's best friend doesn't mean that his girlfriend is open. Therefore, when you get along, you must be sincere and trust each other, and you can't think wildly.

    The delicate man nodded again and again. He thought what I said made sense, and he wanted to correct his problems when he went back.

    After the delicate man pushed the door and left, Zang Lin smiled and said to me, "Brother Cang! You seem to have been married for so many years, how do you know men and women so well? You are not divorced, are you?!"

    "Haha! I swear to God, I am a virgin!" I said to Zang Lin with a smile.

    "Ghosts would believe it! Look, you are said to be a pure man, who knows what you are doing behind your back?" Zang Lin teased me.

    I smiled and thought, believe it or not, anyway, I would not tell her about the awkward affair with An Ping.

    I asked Zang Lin to file the data of this delicate and warm man and the data of the red-faced man as one type and two different situations.

    Zang Lin didn't understand, "Why are you talking so much?"

    "People of different ages think different things, this warm man is at the same age, just like you and Xu Liang!" I said to Zang Lin with a smile.

    Zang Lin was so angry that she turned around and left.  I thought to myself that the relationship between her and Xu Liang was similar to that of a delicate and warm man, but Xu Liang went abroad, so they stopped, otherwise, my shop would really not be able to open.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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