However, this place Suppressing his excitement, Liu Xingting planned to continue the topic just now.
¡ª¡ª"The fourth key point is to understand the child's emotions and respond to the child's feelings.
If a child's emotions fluctuate, it is usually because something has happened. At this time, what they need most is the understanding and response of their parents. This is often the best time for parents to teach their children to recognize their emotions.
For example, if a child is crying because someone is bullying him, you can say to the child: 'I know someone is bullying you and you are very angry, do you need Mom and Dad to help you? '
Saying this can let the child know that this feeling in the heart is called anger, and it is like this when you are angry. Gradually, he can not only recognize his own emotions, but also know how to judge other people's emotions.
The last key point is to guide children to solve problems. Guiding children to solve problems is to let children learn how to do it, rather than telling them directly or instructing them how to do it.
For example, a child comes to the house as a guest, but his own child is unwilling to give up toys to other children;
At this time, parents can guide their children to think and ask their children: 'Have you ever thought about how other children will feel when they come to the house as guests, but they can't play with toys? '
¡®Then how do you think we can solve this problem? ¡¯ That is to guide children to know how to share toys with others, because they will be unhappy when they don¡¯t have toys to play with, so other children will also be unhappy without toys.
When necessary, you can provide children with choices, but never directly instruct children to give toys to other children"
Xiao Qi's crying interrupted all this.
Chu Lihua quickly picked her up and coaxed her, but this time, no matter how she tried to coax Xiao Qi, she kept crying.
This time, both Chu Lihua and Liu Xingting were at a loss
Especially when Xiao Qi started to vomit while crying.
This frightened Chu Lihua.
¡ª¡ª"Go and take it to the hospital. It may be that the child is sick and uncomfortable. He can't speak, so he keeps crying."
Only then did Chu Lihua realize it, yes! it should be possible
The children in her family have been extremely healthy since they were born, except for occasional vaccinations, and have basically never been to the hospital, so Chu Lihua basically didn't react to this.
After rushing to the hospital, Xiaoqi passed out before the results of various examinations came out.
Chu Lihua suddenly felt dizzy. Fortunately, Liu Xingting was still calm, so he quickly called Meng Xianxiang and others, and Xiao Qi was quickly admitted to the ICU.
Because of the unexplained coma and difficulty in breathing, the only way to rescue him was first.
The "operation in progress" light was always on, and the hearts of everyone waiting outside were in suspense.
Chu Lihua blamed herself immensely. If it wasn't for her ignorance, maybe she could have been sent to the hospital earlier, and it wouldn't be so dangerous.
Finally, when Chu Lihua wanted to slap herself twice, the doctor came out.
¡ª¡ª "Who are Chu Hanxi's parents? She has neuropathy Hurry up and get a type match and prepare for surgery."
Chu Lihua didn't hear clearly what the disease was, but the words matching and preparing for surgery made her legs go weak and she fell to the ground in an instant.
At this time, Meng Xianxiang could no longer choose.
He followed the nurse to do the matching.
The result this time came out very quickly, there was no match, and Xiao Qi was not Meng Xianxiang's child at all.
¡ª¡ª "Hurry up and call Chu Lifang and ask her and that man to come over."
As soon as Meng Xianxiang said these words, Chu Lihua was busy on the phone, and didn't even notice the "that man" in Meng Xianxiang's mouth.
However, the phone is always busy and I can't get through.
Chu Lihua, who was sweating profusely in anxiety, hurriedly called her father again. At this time, only his phone must be loaded.
It took a while for the phone to connect, "Father, hurry up and contact Xiaofang, her child is sick, and she needs her biological parents to come over for surgery and make a match."
¡ª¡ª"I gave you a good child, why did you get sick? Are you only caring about your own child?"
Chu Lihua was scolded by her mother. Unexpectedly, my mother picked up the phone.
¡ª¡ª"Mom, can you stop saying that at this time? I ask myself that I care more about her than my own child. This is a genetic disease. What can I do?"
Chu Lihua really wanted to throw away her phone.
but?She can't, Xiaoqi is still waiting for her biological parents.
Over there, they cursed and muttered a few more words, to the effect that Xiaofang is in very good health, so why would there be a genetic disease? Why Xiaofang is in class now, so she can't be disturbed or something like that.
¡ª¡ª"Mom, I beg you, time is life! I can't afford to delay it!"
Finally, an hour later, Chu Lihua got in touch with Chu Lifang.
Unexpectedly, the reply was "Chu Hanxi should be Meng Xianxiang's child, go find him."
¡ª¡ª"Xiangzi has already done a paternity test, no."
Chu Lifang immediately became furious, "How is it possible, he still wants to deny it, this child belongs to him. I didn't bring the child to him to take responsibility, but he dared to lie!"
¡ª¡ª"It's true, we are in the hospital now, Xiangzi followed the doctor to have a DNA test, it's really not."
At this moment, Meng Xianxiang finally understood from the sidelines, and answered the phone, "Fangfang, this is not the time to be angry, the child should be you and that man, I have seen it.
I have always treated Xiaoqi as my own child, but she is really not by blood. You should contact that man and come with him.
Your children can't afford to wait! I'll send you the address in a moment. "
After Meng Xianxiang finished speaking, he hung up.
¡ª¡ª "Did she agree?"
¡ª¡ª"If she still doesn't agree at this time, I really don't know what to do"
Meng Xianxiang couldn't go on.
At this time, Chu Lihua's mobile phone received a message, "Sister, what happened to the child? Do I have to go? To be honest, I don't know who the child is. Because I also secretly did it to the man Meng Xianxiang mentioned. After a paternity test, the child is not his."¡ª¡ª
"What?!!"
Now, both Meng Xianxiang and Chu Lihua were dumbfounded.
¡ª¡ª "What about Xiao Qi?"
Meng Xianxiang took the phone and called again.
¡ª¡ª "No matter who the child belongs to, she must be yours, right? Come here quickly! When the mother is born and refuses to raise her, you can't just let her die, right? Have you received the address?"
Chu Lihua was really trembling this time.
Chu Lifang, you don't even know who the child is?
Xiaoqi, you must hold on!
Be sure to match with Chu Lifang!
Chu Lihua put her palms together and prayed very devoutly.
¡ª¡ª"The Heart Mantra of the Medicine Master Buddha, as long as Xiaoqi can get through this time safely, I will definitely copy the scriptures ninety-nine and eighty-one times every day. No, I will copy it now!" (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel. com