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Chapter 977 Let's learn to raise children together

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    The whole room was filled with the cries of children one after another.

    Now, Chu Lihua didn't know how to comfort that even more.

    Just like a child, we have to cry together.

    Fortunately, at this time, Qing Yunfei and Liu Xingting coaxed the twins one by one, and they finally calmed down slowly.

    After the children were all put to sleep, Chu Lihua felt that she should have a good talk with Meng Xianxiang.

    However, Meng Xianxiang was still hesitating. If he didn't speak, Chu Lihua couldn't force him.

    Liu Xingting sat down beside Chu Lihua, "Can you teach me some skills in getting along with children? In the future, if the child cries, I won't be so at a loss."

    Chu Lihua nodded. At this moment, she couldn't calm down. She found out the book she had read part of before, and discussed it with him.

    ¡ª¡ª"When communicating with children, let them know that parents love them, and then guide them to understand and express their emotions. Don't directly put your own feelings and opinions on children and ignore their needs.  .¡±

    Chu Lihua made a summary of what she had read before.

    Liu Xingting listened very carefully, "Chuchu, I think you are quite tired. Why don't I read the book and share it with you after reading it?"

    Chu Lihua nodded hurriedly, at this time she really couldn't calm down while reading.

    If someone sums it up for her Liu Xingting really understands himself very well.

    Looking at the profile of Liu Xingting's serious reading, Chu Lihua felt that the soft light shining on his face was like giving him a layer of golden light.

    After a long time, Liu Xingting raised his head and looked at Chu Lihua, "If you look at me so unscrupulously, I will feel that you are attracted to me."

    Chu Lihua smiled, "In those years when you 'disappeared', I really missed you very much and regretted it, I even"

    Liu Xingting lightly pressed Chu Lihua's lips with one finger, "Shh~"

    ¡ª¡ª"Let's talk about what I just watched.

    If you want to guide children emotionally, this book summarizes five key points for us to follow.  Let's talk about them one by one.

    The first one is to give the child an advance reminder, that is, to let the child know in advance what you are going to do in the next environment and what are your requirements for him.

    For example, going out to eat, which is always a headache for parents, can be done in this way.  Parents can tell their children in advance in the morning that the family will go out for dinner in the evening.

    By the way, you can ask the children if they know what to pay attention to when going out to eat; then, the parents will briefly explain to the children what it means to go out to eat?

    This question sounds a bit strange, but the child may really not know what it means to "go out to eat"; therefore, parents should explain to the child that going out to eat means that the family sits in a restaurant and eats;

    And there will be other unknown guests in the restaurant, so children are not allowed to yell and run around in the restaurant, and can only bring a few toys that can be played on the dining table.

    The purpose is to let children know what things can and cannot be done when eating in a restaurant.

    If you explain it to the child in this way, the child will feel that the parents are not ordering him, but telling him something he doesn't know.

    On the way to the restaurant, parents can remind the child again like this, or ask the child if he still remembers what he said to him in the morning.  "

    Liu Xingting paused for a while, letting Chu Lihua reflect and think, and after seeing her nodding, he continued:

    "The second key point is to pay attention to the needs of the child, figure out what kind of personality your child has, when is he irritable, and when is he prone to crying.

    Knowing your child can prepare you in advance for some of the emotional reactions your child may display.

    For example, if your child is stubborn and also finds jigsaw puzzles difficult, then you need to play jigsaw puzzles with him and guide him to master the method of doing jigsaw puzzles.

    Because a stubborn child is likely to fiddle with himself for a long time and is unwilling to ask others for help, but he will feel very frustrated if he cannot complete the jigsaw puzzle.  Therefore, it is very important to figure out what kind of personality your child has.  "

    After Chu Lihua nodded, Liu Xingting continued:

    "The third key point is listening. If parents are willing to listen patiently and understand their children, the children are actually very willing to tell you their needs.

    Moreover, don't underestimate your child's observation skills, if there is one time you don't??If a listener is distracted, the child knows it, and he may remind you and tell you: 'I don't think you are listening to me carefully.  '

    When listening to a younger child, it is not enough to just concentrate. You also need to sit where you can be at eye level with the child, look at him seriously, and make eye contact with him so that he thinks you are  Listening carefully to his speech.

    In addition, it is also necessary to pay attention to children's body language, because children's expressive ability is very limited, and they will use body language to express their emotions and needs.  "

    Just as he was about to say the fifth point, Xiao Qi turned over and frightened Liu Xingting to shut up instantly.

    After a while, seeing that Xiaoqi hadn't woken up, he continued: "I thought I woke up."

    Chu Lihua looked at Xiao Qi's sleeping face tenderly, and shook her head, "No, Xiao Qi is very similar to her mother, my sister, who likes to move back and forth when she sleeps. When I was a child, my sister kicked me out of bed a lot.  .often sleeping on the ground all night, only to be discovered by my parents the next morning.¡±

    Having said that, Chu Lihua stopped laughing spontaneously.  He didn't get along well with his sister, but got along better with his daughter¡ª¡ª

    "What about Article 5?"

    Liu Xingting was not surprised by Chu Lihua's jumping thinking, and said, "Fourth, I haven't said anything yet. Don't worry! You are still that impatient."

    Chu Lihua also punched Liu Xingting in the same way she used to get along.

    If it wasn't for fear of waking Xiao Qi up, Liu Xingting would have laughed out loud.

    Chu Lihua likes to do things, and not many people can accept it.  Every boyfriend of mine, including Qing Yunfei, would say, "Are you going to beat me to death with such vigor?"

    To be honest, Chu Lihua always felt that this was a way of showing intimacy.

    Getting along too "respecting each other as guests" always feels like there is something separated.  There is a feeling of "respect each other like ice".

    Seeing Liu Xingting's smiling face, she was really stunned, this is the unity of the three views!

    He knows everything!  !  !

    Chu Lihua fell again

    Looking at Chu Lihua who was staring at him obsessively, Liu Xingting's heart was full of enthusiasm, and he even had the urge to hold her in his arms again.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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