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Chapter 974 How to Cultivate Intimate Parent-child Relationship

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    Lanzhi hurriedly took care of her, "Is it because you have too little clothes? Let's go, let's go shopping. It's time for a change of season."

    Meng Xianxiang rubbed his nose, "No, no, it's usually men who bring their girlfriends to buy things. I'm still not used to it."

    Lanzhi raised her eyebrows, "Why don't I take care of you?"

    Meng Xianxiang fled in despair.

    Lanzhi's "haha" laugh came from far behind.

    Brother Liu Xingting and Chu Lihua are still discussing Xiaoqi's life experience.

    Xiaoqi in the family cried a lot, the child's heart is always sensitive and fragile.

    Qing Yunfei was tired of crying, "If you cry again, I will throw you out."

    Scared, Xiao Qi immediately stopped crying.  But still sobbing softly.

    Qing Yunfei hated Xiao Qi even more when there was no one at home.

    Because, he couldn't explain the origin of this child to his mother.

    So, take your anger out on her.

    Hearing the sound of the door, Xiao Qi staggered and ran over, "Mom¡ª"

    Meng Xianxiang quickly picked her up, "Xiaoqi misses her mother? Mom will be back soon, daddy will hug her."

    But Xiao Qi struggled to get off the ground, and walked away silently.

    She knew that her father was not her father, only her parents and her were the real family.

    Meng Xianxiang turned his head and asked Lanzhi, "What happened to this child today?"

    Lanzhi shook her head, "Maybe she misses her mother. Seeing that it's us, I'm disappointed."

    Meng Xianxiang sighed, "Chuchu doesn't know how long it will take to come back."

    As soon as the voice fell, the door rang.

    It was Chu Lihua and Liu Xingting who came back together.

    Meng Xianxiang took the things and luggage from Chu Lihua's hands, "Hurry up, Xiao Qi ran over to find her mother just now."

    Just as he was talking, Xiaoqi ran over again, "Mom¡ª"

    Chu Lihua hugged Xiaoqi up, "Xiaoqi, mom is back. Do you miss mom? Oh, the little guy is getting heavier again, she's a big girl now."

    Chu Lihua carried Xiao Qi to the sofa and sat down.

    After Liu Xingting greeted everyone, he also followed.

    ¡ª¡ª"Xiaoqi, look at the toy uncle bought for you, do you like it?"

    Xiao Qi, who buried her head in Chu Lihua's arms, said sullenly, "I don't want toys anymore, I just want my mother."

    Chu Lihua was very sad, and hugged Xiaoqi tightly, "Mom is wrong, mom will go out and take you with you in the future, okay?"

    Just as he was talking, Qing Yunfei brought the twins over

    Little Apple and Little Orange can already crawl, how time flies!

    I don't know what the reason is, although Chu Lihua loves them very much, she still hugs Xiaoqi and just reaches out to hold the twins' little hands.

    Little Apple was very clingy and climbed onto Chu Lihua's lap. Little Orange was very arrogant. After looking at her mother, she crawled aside to play.

    Liu Xingting said softly to Xiao Qi, "Come on, Xiao Qi, can uncle hug me for a while? Mom is very tired to hurry back."

    After Xiaoqi hesitated for a while, "Mom, don't go."

    Chu Lihua had tears in her eyes, "Mom won't leave, won't leave."

    She seemed to see herself crying for her mother when she was a child.

    pity¡­¡­

    No, it's all over.

    After interacting with the children for a while, Chu Lihua couldn't hold on anymore, and fell asleep on the sofa after a while.

    Xiaoqi found that this uncle was as gentle as his father and treated him well.

    Chu Lihua didn't sleep well. She knew from reading that there is no obvious innate difference in emotional intelligence between people, and more depends on the cultivation of the day after tomorrow.

    My own EQ may be a little low. It seems that it is time to start "emotion-guided education". It can help parents teach children to learn to recognize and control emotions, thereby enhancing the ability to understand and get along with others.

    In this kind of caring education, children can also feel the tolerance and acceptance of their parents.

    If you can't learn this, once Xiaoqi leaves herself, she will become insecure.

    After Chu Lihua woke up and comforted Xiao Qi again, she began to prepare materials.

    Some things I don't know how to do, I have to follow the book step by step.

    The person who first proposed the concept of "emotional-guided education" was Kimberly BrayWell, he is an expert in children's education in the United States.

    And she herself educated her two children in this way.  Bryan said that she has a very good relationship with her children, and the two children also know how to be considerate of their mothers.

    However, when she was a child, she did not receive this kind of education.  Because her parents are often busy with work and some other reasons, she has never received extra attention from her parents.

    In other words, apart from providing her with the most basic upbringing, her parents did not teach her how to develop her emotional intelligence.  This caused her to not know how to express her emotions and vent her sadness, anger and anxiety when she was growing up.  This also led to the lack of close parent-child relationship between her and her parents.

    Think about your own situation with Brian!

    Later, she became a psychological counselor. In the process of contacting many traumatized children, she found that many of these traumatized children lived in an environment that lacked a sense of belonging and had few opportunities to express their emotions.

    This made her realize the importance of emotional guidance as an educational method for children's growth and the establishment of intimate relationships between parents and children.

    Therefore, she shifted the focus of her career to promoting the healthy growth of children, hoping that more parents, or those engaged in education, can learn to use emotional guidance, an effective and humane way to educate children.

    This is the path I want to develop!

    Pediatric Trauma Counselor.

    Hope, there will be many Brians in the future, and there will be no more Chu Lihua.

    Chu Lihua watched a bear kid on TV, his mother was on the phone with a friend, and the kid ran around the house, screaming as he ran.

    Under normal circumstances, when a mother can't take it anymore, she will yell at her child: "Be quiet, it's so noisy!"

    The child was stunned by the yelling, and seeing the anger on his mother's face, he was dumbfounded.

    This approach can indeed calm the child down, and it can indeed let the child know that the mother is angry; but if you ask the child why the mother is angry, he has no idea at all.

    He didn't know that he disturbed his mother and called his friends, and he didn't know that at home, he shouldn't be like in the park, where he can run as he wants.

    It was introduced in Bryan's book that at this time, her "emotional guidance education" should be used.

    To be honest, I told Xiao Qi just now, if "emotional guidance education" can be used, will it make her stop crying soon?

    So what should be done with the method of emotionally guided education?  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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