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How should I tell Qing Yunfei about this?
I have already recalled a lot.
Specifically how to do it, it seems that there are methods in the book. It is a seven-week praise course, we can call it the seven-week praise method.
Closing her eyes, Chu Lihua carefully recalled the notes she took at that time.
This course is like this, from Monday to Friday, you can try to write an idea and a task every day, such as:
On Monday, write out a thought: I really love him. Write another task: list one of his cuteness;
On Tuesday, write out a thought: I can easily talk about the great times in our marriage. Write another task: choose a good time to make an evaluation;
Wednesday, Thought: I can easily think of romantic, special moments in our marriage. Task: Pick such a moment and recall it;
Thursday, thought: I'm attracted to him. Task: Which physical characteristics of him attract you;
Friday, Thoughts: He has special qualities that I'm proud of. Task: Write down one quality of the other person that you are proud of.
By analogy, write like this every day for seven consecutive weeks, from Monday to Friday. It is best for the husband and wife to write separately. After seven weeks, you will find that the feeling between you is different.
Chu Lihua has already started to think about it, but would Qing Yunfei be willing?
It seems that he particularly hates these things, right?
The goal of this exercise is to get couples into the habit of seeing each other in a positive light when you become distant.
Because if you're angry, stressed, or feel cold, you may be more likely to focus on the other person's flaws, which can lead to constant distress and make you feel more distant and isolated.
When people fall into a depressed state, their thoughts become confused and they look at everything in an extremely negative light, which exacerbates the sense of hopelessness.
This exercise can help you focus on the other person's strengths and counteract your tendency to focus on the weaknesses.
"Wow, meteor!"
The continuous yelling outside brought back Chu Lihua's thoughts.
She quickly climbed out.
The meteor streaked across the sky, leaving behind dazzling afterimages.
"Quickly make a wish!"
?I don’t know who said something, Chu Lihua put her hands together quickly, and said silently in her heart, may God bless me, my parents, family and children, happiness and well-being.
After reading, Chu Lihua found out, the family, who is the family?
Is it Meng Xianxiang, Lanzhi, or Qing Yunfei?
Or, they all are.
In other words, Qing Yunfei has already integrated into his life, even if
——"Xing Ting, I"
——"I understand what you want to say, but now, no one is forcing you to choose. It's still a long time, at least the time before Xiaoqi goes to school can be used for consideration.
As it is now, there is no problem in maintaining balance.
As for your ex-husband, he is also happy to stay with the children and does not have much influence on the children
Also, I often visit the children. They are also very friendly to me.
In fact, if you can't figure it out for the time being, leave it to time.
Even if it is your choice in the endbut I will always be by your side, no matter what identity you use.
Because, I don't care about these things. "
——"But your parents will definitely not agree with you to do this."
——"Chuchu, they all have their own families. With the baby in my heart, no one will care about me."
As soon as Liu Xingting finished speaking, Chu Lihua hugged him.
It was the momentary distress that couldn't be suppressed, Chu Lihua knew that feeling too well.
Liu Xingting needed a comforting hug, because that's what she was looking forward to.
Liu Xingting was stunned for a while before hugging Chu Lihua back.
At this moment, he even had the urge to never let go.
Chu Lihua felt Liu Xingting's heartbeat getting louder and louder in her ears, and her heart couldn't help but began to agitate.
The hot face was pressed against the hot chest. At this moment, the two hearts comforted each other.
That night, the two sat in the tent and talked all night long.
Bai Ye, the originally planned hike had to be cancelled.
The two found accommodation and had a good rest.
Didn't last night?Waiting for Chu Lihua's video, Xiaoqi and others, sent it again early this morning.
Chu Lihua was so sleepy that she fell asleep after saying a few perfunctory words.
Qing Yunfei turned his head and said to Xiaoqi, "Look, if you are disobedient, your mother won't want you anymore."
Just like that, Xiaoqi cried with a "wow". While crying, I wanted to call my mother again.
After this commotion, Chu Lihua was very worried when she heard Xiao Qi's cry.
Especially when Xiao Qi said that he didn't want her anymore, she would be obedient in the future.
This sentence woke up Chu Lihua's drowsiness.
? Cancel all plans and rush back as quickly as possible.
Children can't be frightened in this way at all!
Chu Lihua didn't even have the qualifications to complain about Qing Yunfei.
He is not Xiaoqi's father
Wait, it turns out that Qing Yunfei still doesn't regard Xiao Qi as his own child!
Chu Lihua silently gave him another "credit".
After returning home, you have to sit together and talk well. Speaking well also requires skills. You must persist in active and effective communication, which is also the second method taught in that book.
Do not underestimate this step, good communication will bring about earth-shaking changes in the marriage.
Now, Chu Lihua doesn't ask how her marriage with Qing Yunfei will be, but only asks that he can treat Xiaoqi fairly during the time he is at home.
Keep in touch, that is, communicate well. Compared with going on vacation, the interaction between husband and wife will make the marriage more stable and passionate.
How to talk about it in detail may really need to be carefully considered.
Xiaoqi must not leave a shadow in his heart when he was a child.
It is necessary to create more opportunities for Liu Xingting and Xiao Qi to get along.
Liu Xingting must be able to put himself in Xiaoqi's shoes, because they all had similar experiences.
After Chu Lihua whispered to Liu Xingting beside him, he was extremely happy.
——"Chuchu, I've been waiting for your words for a long time."
——"Actually, Xiaoqi is not the child of me and Qing Yunfei. However, I will treat her equally."
Liu Xingting was stunned, "Could it be that you got that rescue? You actually let the child settle in your home directly. How could Qing Yunfei agree to it?"
——"Keep your voice down, he can't let him do this! I didn't want to at the time either. This child should be called my aunt. She is my sister's child."
——"Auntie? I see! No wonder you look alike. Where is the child's father?"
—— "I don't know, my mother won't let me know, and said that my child must must be some bastard who is unwilling to admit it"
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