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Now, Chu Lihua suddenly understood that her mother was diverting her own fear.
It can only "strike" Chu Lihua, who is relatively young and not very capable of resisting.
After thinking about this, Chu Lihua didn't know whether to forgive, they were all poor people.
?The reason why I pull everyone to treat together, is it really for the recovery of other people's eyesight, or is there another reason?
Chu Lihua tortured her soul.
It is because I want others to recognize me that I feel that I have the meaning of existence.
Once the difference between reality and imagination is too far, the whole person will fall into a total denial of himself.
Your success and happiness has nothing to do with anyone else, everything depends on yourself.
Chu Lihua remembered Adler's words deeply in her mind, but she didn't actually try to sublimate them or achieve them.
No matter how you hear this, it sounds like chicken soup for the soul. But it's really not. But any chicken soup sounds reasonable when it sounds, but when you think about it carefully, it is actually not logical, let alone useful.
Adler's thought is not chicken soup, because it is deduced based on a set of strict logic. The deduced conclusions not only make sense after people listen to them, but also can withstand careful scrutiny and debate with other people.
Perhaps it should be
Take advantage of this time, calm down and take good care of
No, it's better for children not to be separated from their mother for a long time.
In the end, Chu Lihua compromised, she was very that person.
She tried to find a way to be responsible for helping to raise money, but he withdrew the complaint.
Chu Lihua didn't understand that she was locked up.
I don't know if it's because the TV series are too old. I always feel that things are still inconclusive, and I shouldn't treat myself like this.
? Chu Lihua had the idea of ??leaving Xinjiang.
A foreigner is always a foreigner.
It's just that the nursing home
What an ideal I had at the beginning, and what an apology now.
Is it hot in three minutes?
Or is it because there are not as many people in need of help as imagined?
Or, he is just a poor imitator.
The sorcerer is a successful businessman, and he has a lot of ability to maintain the development of the small courtyard.
And what about here?
The house was donated by the parents of the previous child, and the foundation belonged to Kang Xuming's family.
The funding supply is still Laneige's for the time being.
For the first time, Chu Lihua wanted to quit.
I want to leave all this behind and run to the deep mountains and old forests, plant flowers, be self-sufficient, and live happily and peacefully with my family.
family?
Parents have specified that they don't want to accompany themselves to live in such a place.
The children didn't say anything, but what about other people?
Liu Xingting is a doctor, so it is definitely impossible. Meng Xianxiang had to marry Lanzhi, and Lanzhi's family would not agree with them living like that.
Moreover, what Meng Xianxiang is doing is the Internet, which cannot be isolated from the world.
Qing Yunfei and Wu Ming
Qing Yunfei himself had no position to speak.
As for Wu Ming, he didn't want to speak.
It turns out that evasion is not the way.
It's fine if I'm alone.
One wrong step, one wrong step.
The original marriage had more or less something to do with being older.
But in fact, Qing Yunfei was cheated too.
Looking at Qing Yunfei these days, I feel that his temperament is different.
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What on earth do I take others for?
If you say you get married, you get married, and if you say you get divorced, you get divorced?
And now
? I thought I had finally reached a place where happiness was on the verge, but I found that everything was in a mess!
Even that club is no longer the club where we used to relax and work hard together.
Ever since I "instilled" them over and over again, I started to be self-righteous, and gradually became a little "in control".
Once "uncontrollable" appears, the whole person will become restless.
I need to find more ideas to "assimilate" everyone, just to force everyone to go on the road together.
One of Adler's core ideas is that you can make your own choices. Specifically, your life is notIt is given by others, but chosen by you. Your choices have nothing to do with anyone else or what happened in the past. This is the most fundamental difference between Adler and Freud.
And I want to choose freely, but I don't give others the opportunity to choose freely.
The children were playing around, and Chu Lihua sat quietly among them, lost in thought.
The children were very relieved when they saw their mother was there, and they didn't bother them.
Just play for a while, look up at your mother, and continue playing as long as your mother is still there.
Looking at Chu Lihua sitting on the floor covered with crawling mats through the door, Qing Yunfei felt for the first time that "you never cared about my feelings" that Chu Lihua said.
I really don't understand her at all!
It used to be too self righteous.
Chu Lihua must be very happy to know Qing Yunfei's thoughts at this time.
But she is immersed in her own world: In the book "The Courage to Be Disliked", its author mentioned a female student. Her distress was that she was afraid of seeing people, and she blushed when she was in front of people. I want to cure this blush phobia.
The philosopher asked her: "If this phobia of blushing is cured, what would you like to do?"
The girl replied that there was a boy she liked very much and wanted to associate with, but because of this blushing problem, she has been afraid to express her affection. The girl also said that once the blush phobia is cured, she will confess to him immediately.
Thinking of this, Chu Lihua's first reaction might be, how could this girl have such misfortune, and who caused it?
Maybe it's because you were humiliated by your parents when you were young, which made you afraid when you see strangers; or you were seriously hurt in love?
No no, if you think so, it is clearly Freud's point of view. It is also a psychological point of view that I have already planned to abandon.
It seems plausible to explain present unhappiness in terms of past experiences, especially childhood trauma.
However, Adler didn't think so. Adler said that if we blindly rely on past reasons to explain things, we will fall into an absolute judgment: our present and even the future are all determined by past experiences and cannot be changed at all.
This view is called "causalism". Contrary to causality, what Adler advocates is a "teleology".
"Teleology" will say that the reason why girls suffer from blushing syndrome, but it is always incurable, is not because no suitable treatment has been found;
Rather, it was because her misfortune was her own choice.
In Adler's view, the thing that girls are most afraid of and want to avoid the most is being rejected by the person they like, which is the blow and self-denial that may be brought about by falling out of love.
But as long as there is blushing syndrome, she will think "the reason why I can't date him is because of this blushing syndrome". (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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