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Chapter 870 Still Can't Help Worrying

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    Chu Lihua handed over the A4 paper she wrote on.

    Thinking about taking the handwriting by herself, Chu Lihua blushed a little, she knew that Meng Xianxiang would copy one copy, no, two copies would be fine.  He writes beautifully.

    When she was in school, Chu Lihua was particularly envious of Meng Xianxiang's handwriting.

    ——"Can't the courier be delivered here?"

    —— "Don't worry about this, many express delivery here in Xinjiang does not include postage, or even delivery. If you need anything, you can tell us. Or, if you buy it and send it to us, we will send you food at that time  bring it here.

    Actually, this is also for your own good.  Keep your privacy and confidentiality better, and there will be less trouble in the later stage.  "

    ——"Then I can just remember these, right?"

    Chu Lihua felt that the seriousness of the people just now played a role, "Yes, there is no rule without rules! Let me show you first, and I will officially sign in duplicate tomorrow.

    By the way, although you don't want to go out casually during the day, you should take a stroll around the house more.  That's good for the body.  I'm here.  "

    At first, Chu Lihua wanted to tell her more, but she didn't want to get too close, so she shut up.

    After saying two more irrelevant words, Chu Lihua and Lanzhi left.

    In fact, Chu Lihua also thought of one more thing. There are many people living in the rental house of Master Daolu, and they are not alone.

    And here, just the girl herself, isn't she a little lonely.

    How to fight loneliness?

    After Chu Lihua went back, she still couldn't help worrying, and went to look through related books.

    The previous self was still thinking about how to be alone in order to return to self and self-improvement.

    Chu Lihua remembers very clearly that there was a passage that said, "Humans are not born only for love, even if they live alone, they can still live out the meaning and splendor of life.

    Loneliness is not a disease. On the contrary, it is one of the inner needs of human beings. People who like to be alone have no problem as those who like to socialize.

    Not only that, being able to be alone is a sign of maturity, it represents a kind of ability.  Solitude can stimulate people's creativity, realize personal value, heal our hearts, and help us return to our true selves.  "

    For this girl, who is only seventeen or eighteen or nineteen years old, it is a great psychological trauma to encounter such a thing, right?

    As soon as she thought about it, Chu Lihua's heart became more sympathetic.

    He started searching for books about being alone and loneliness.

    Interestingly, she saw a passage that especially healed herself.  It can be said that it was unintentional.

    "Human beings are governed throughout their lives by two diametrically opposed drives, the desire for companionship, love, and all the other relationships that bring us closer to our own kind, and the longing for independence, solitude, and autonomy  .”

    Before that, Chu Lihua had been digging into the horns of "attachment", always trying every means to make up for her lack of parenting in infancy and childhood.

    At the same time, I completely attribute all the bad ways of getting along when I was growing up to the bad experiences in childhood.

    Previously, it was believed that "attachment" is a special emotional relationship that exists between an infant and his caregiver.  The quality of this relationship is not only related to the survival probability of the baby, but also has an important impact on the personality and psychology of the individual.

    But now, it seems that everything has two sides.  Even if it's about the psychological aspect?

    When Chu Lihua was watching, she couldn't help but bring her own character.

    The book I'm reading now tells the story of the outstanding British historian Edward Gibbon at the beginning. He created the influential historical masterpiece "The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire".

    Gibbon never married a wife or had children. Although he loved a girl when he was young, his father resolutely opposed it, so he cut off his love with a sword.

    However, his later life was not bleak at all. Not only did he enjoy being obsessed with historical research in solitude, but he also wrote an article lamenting that fortunately he was not dizzy enough to get married, otherwise how could he have such a free life?  ah.

    Can you live a good life without having an intimate relationship?

    Not only many celebrities, but ordinary people as well.  They are immersed in their hobbies, such as planting flowers, raising birds, playing stocks, doing design, making inventions, etc., and they don't insist on intimacy.

    Chu Lihua looked around her, and it seemed that Meng Xianxiang was like this before.

    And the colleague with the best performance in the company before, she is also thirty-five or sixteen years old, stillI am alone.

    However, the days are quite nourishing, and there is no need to accommodate anyone.

    What's more interesting is that the author of this book also pulled out Freud and Jung to stand up for his own views.  These two master psychoanalysts have spent their lives listening to others tell about their problems in intimate relationships, and both have written autobiographies.

    The author raised his own question: Why didn't the two of them talk about their intimate relationship in the autobiography?

    Is there nothing to say, or can't remember to say it?  Does this prove from the side that they have spent a lot of time and thought on research?

    If intimacy is the only source of happiness, shouldn't they accompany their lover to "look at the stars and the moon, from poetry to poetry to philosophy of life"?

    Therefore, the desire for intimacy is only one of the two driving forces in life. The other opposite driving force is the pursuit of solitude, because there are many life goals and interests that can only be realized in solitude.

    The author pointed out sharply that intimacy is only one of the axes around which life revolves, but it is not the "only" axis.

    Chu Lihua quickly wrote down the title of the book and brought it to the girl tomorrow.

    As soon as he finished writing, Meng Xianxiang sent over the two copied agreements.

    Chu Lihua took it over and took a look, her eyes lit up.

    With the expression of a little girl, "Brother, do you know which male god's word this is, it's so charming, my girlish heart is beating so fast!"

    Qing Yunfei just came over, "It seems that this daughter-in-law can't be taken anymore, a nice word can win my heart away."

    Meng Xianxiang hurriedly laughed and left, "It seems that I don't need to buy vinegar tomorrow!"

    Qing Yunfei flew over with a punch, but it was a pity that he touched a corner of his clothes.

    Chu Lihua hurried forward, showing what she thought was the sweetest smile, and calling in the sweetest voice, "Husband~"

    Qing Yunfei rubbed his arms with both hands, "Oh, don't use that trick against me just now. I won't take this trick."

    ——"Really? Then which one do you follow? I'll change the mode immediately?"

    ——"Don't be so loud, you wake up my precious girl."

    After Qing Yunfei finished speaking, he left.

    Chu Lihua didn't see the smile on the corner of his mouth.

    ? Chu Lihua looked at this guy's back, pouted, "When will you learn how to coax me?" (Remember this site's website: www.hlnovel.com
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