When Chu Lihua thought about it, she really felt a little creepy after empathizing.
At this time, you don't know what he wants to do, and you don't know what his motivation is. Do you feel a little flustered and start to feel that there is something wrong with this person.
Then I would instinctively want to leave him, feeling that he was a bit dangerous. And when this person only pays to his friends but does not accept anything in return, this is actually rejecting others in a disguised form, which is tantamount to preventing others from enjoying the pleasure and pleasure of rewarding you.
This will put others in a very embarrassing situation. Maybe this person really wants to share wealth with others; Feeling indebted to others.
Each of us is like this, especially don't like to owe others, the feeling of owing others is particularly uncomfortable. Just like you owe money to a friend, you will always think about it.
If you go to pay back the money to this friend after you have a lot of money, but he still doesn't want it, no matter what you give him, at this time, the relationship will become very strange, and you may even develop a kind of resentment.
Why? Because your friend is manipulating you in a disguised form, meaning to make you remember; you owe me money all the time, and I don¡¯t want it now, maybe one day you have to help me with other things, you have to remember.
Is this manipulating you in a disguised form and putting you in an awkward and uncomfortable situation? Thinking about it from another angle is the same. When a person just gives blindly without asking for anything in return, it will embarrass others.
Therefore, no one likes a selfless giver, and no one likes an excessive giver. When the time is right, allow others to reciprocate your kindness; giving others the opportunity to repay your efforts will make them like you even more.
Let others repay No wonder the parents of the child I saved before insisted on repaying, and even built a house for him.
At that time, I always felt ashamed, but I still thought it was because I didn't enjoy it.
And in the same way, why the girl who asked for help called the police was not because such free help made her feel that she had no idea.
Isn't there such a saying, there is no free lunch in the world.
So how can I eliminate the girl's worries?
She must be full of anxiety now, right?
I don't know how the people at Master Daolu's place
By the way, Master Daolu has many restrictions on rescuers.
At first, the pregnant women's attitude towards Daolu was "a little bit of disbelief".
A strange man who offered to provide round-trip fares, hospital delivery and all expenses for child support¡ªon the premise that as long as you don¡¯t want to have an abortion and are willing to give birth to the child¡ªis a bit of a liar in the news.
He arranged them in a rented room where the address could not be disclosed to the public. From the beginning of the year alone, more than 25 pregnant women have come and gone.
But Daolu rarely visits them in these rental houses, and only pays money on a monthly basis and provides daily necessities on time. He is more like a CEO who manages a company and sets many rules.
As for Chu Lihua, let Meng Xianxiang deliver the meals.
It seems that I should go with Lanzhi by myself in the future. Think of it as a walk, and by the way, it can also make Lanzhi feel at ease.
As for playing money, they don't have this condition yet. It's a rough imitation.
On Master Daolu's side, as soon as the pregnant women arrived in Nantong, the first restriction came into effect: pregnant women would be sent to the hospital for physical examination. One is to ensure the health of the fetus, and the other is to avoid cross-infection of infectious diseases.
Some women hide their condition. A few cases of syphilis and hepatitis B were detected, and they needed to be sent to the obstetrics and gynecology department of the infectious disease hospital for blocking therapy. There are also people who have rare rh-negative blood, and doctors have to prepare it in advance when giving birth.
After moving in, they have to abide by the "coexistence principle", and the most important thing is not to cause trouble. There are even more privacy requirements: contact information cannot be left privately, online shopping cannot be delivered directly to the place of residence, but can be delivered through temples, location cannot be sent to the outside world, and photos of pregnant women and children cannot be disclosed.
These unkind rules may be caused by previous troubles.
Once, a pregnant woman bought a package online and delivered it to the door of the house. The courier brother saw several pregnant women through the crack of the door, and there was a cry of a newborn in the house; he turned around and went downstairs and called the police. He suspected that there was a baby reselling interest groups.
Although the facts were clarified later, the location of the rescue was also exposed, so we had to change to a new location.
It seems that these are all that Chu Lihua needs to learn and regulate well.of.
None of these were implemented.
Chu Lihua began to write down the relevant clauses on her side one by one according to Master Daolu's regulations.
The content is similar to that of Master Daolu.
After writing it, I took it with me when I went to deliver meals with Lanzhi at night, and had a heart-to-heart talk with the girl.
To save her from having a bad time and calling the police again
When Chu Lihua told Lanzhi about this idea, she was still a little embarrassed, "Chuchu, did you come up with it specifically because of my lunch?"
¡ª¡ª"Haha, yes! You are our God of Wealth. If you are not happy, maybe this rescue operation will be aborted It's over."
Miscarriage and stillbirth are not suitable for comparison at this time, Chu Lihua almost couldn't say it.
¡ª¡ª"Chuchu, with you pampering me so much, I think it's really worth doing. And, to be honest, it happened to me, so I will feel more empathy. Our project must not stop."
¡ª¡ª"Yeah, so, we have to avoid unnecessary troubles in the early stage; to save troubles later."
While talking, the two walked slowly towards the rental house.
Meng Xianxiang followed behind.
Because both Qing Yunfei and he felt that it was not safe for the two women to come out like this.
However, no one could persuade the two women, so one could only stay at home to look after the children, while the other followed.
Chu Lihua felt that things had become more complicated, so three people would come out at one time.
It's still as convenient as Master Daolu to make money.
Just, now
What a parody!
This time, the girl was slightly frightened when she saw Chu Lihua and Lanzhi.
¡ª¡ª "Why did you come instead?"
¡ª¡ª"I'm afraid you are worried, my brother is a man after all. We are two, one has just given birth, and the other is also pregnant. This will give you more sense of security."
¡ª¡ª"I'm sorry, I couldn't do anything before."
¡ª¡ª"It's nothing. It's the first time we imitated Daolu, and there are many clauses that are lacking. I came this time and rewritten ours here according to his rules. Look, I hope we can cooperate happily, Do not cause trouble to the other party." (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com