A little man who didn't know Chu Lihua very well and couldn't remember the names (the names of some people here are too difficult to remember) asked in a low voice, "What should I do if I'm naturally serious? I don't know how to tell jokes either. "
¡ª¡ª"This is not surprising, because you are used to thinking with the left brain. The left brain will control your logic, allowing you to think linearly in everything you encounter.
But humor just interrupts this linear thinking suddenly and turns a corner suddenly, which requires the right brain to think.
If you think that there must be such a thing before you can laugh, you are wrong. There is no reason to laugh.
You see a child laughing many times a day, does he want a reason? He didn't need it, he just laughed out of nowhere, as long as he laughed, the people next to him would also be amused.
The smile of Xiaoqi in our family is super healing. Laughter is contagious.
In the past, there was an organization in India, and its members practiced laughing every morning, but for no reason, they laughed for a while before talking.
Does it sound weird? But after laughing, they all said they were in a good mood and had a lot of energy throughout the day.
So this laughter has the same effect as yoga and meditation, which is to empty the head and reduce the pressure on the brain.
Speaking of these, I just hope to pay more attention to the sense of entertainment, stop treating it as a pastime outside of work, but integrate it into life, and regard it as a necessity to do a better job.
However, although there may be no reason to laugh, it cannot entertain the public and only please oneself. It is better to be happy alone than to be happy together.
Our Mr. Jiaqing is a negative teaching material who takes pleasure in laughter. His laughter is based on the pain of others. His philosophy is that it is better to be alone than to be happy together!
This kind of thinking is good for him, but it hurts the people around him! "
Qing Yunfei, who was still smiling and amusing Xiao Qi in front of him, changed his expression instantly when he heard this.
Meng Xianxiang hurriedly called for his best friend, "If it weren't for someone who has no bottom line to be used to it! This stinky problem would have been corrected long ago."
In a word, Qing Yunfei immediately turned the corner of his mouth up.
Feeling the atmosphere ease, Chu Lihua hurriedly continued, "Next, let me talk about the third sense of meaning. The concept of this sense of meaning sounds very empty, and it feels like a fake.
In fact, the sense of meaning is the highest level of the corresponding "Maslow's Need Theorem", self-realization. When the problem of food and clothing has not been solved, a person will not pay attention to the meaning.
Work is to make money, making money is the greatest meaning, how can there be time to think about meaning? But after reaching a certain level, meaning becomes very important.
At that time, what you do is not needed by others, is it worthwhile, can you connect what you do with a great thing?
In the future, the sense of meaning will become more important, and all talented people will pursue self-realization and the maximization of self-worth.
Meaning is defined by yourself. If you say yes, then it exists. Everything you do has meaning; "
¡ª¡ª"Hahaha, you are scaremongering! Then how can you find a sense of meaning?"
¡ª¡ª"In fact, Chinese culture is broad and profound, and the sense of meaning is generally speaking, it is to learn to graft what you do to a great goal.
For example, if I, in terms of work, am a storyteller who reads a book and relays it to everyone.
This work has been done by people throughout the ages, and there is nothing special about it. But if you think about it, it may bring you knowledge, help you learn quickly, save you time, and it may be a career that changes traditional learning habits. .
Even, in the future, each of us will read a book a week, yes, our reading speed will definitely not be fast; but, after reading it, we will share our experience together. Is it equivalent to everyone mastering the knowledge of seven books every week? It makes sense when you think about it!
Thinking about it this way, there really is such a day, I will have a steady stream of motivation. Therefore, meaning is what you find for yourself and needs to be given by yourself. "
¡ª¡ª"This sounds like a sense of meaning. In fact, isn't it just that Wang Po is selling melons and boasting, and she feels good about herself!"
Qing Yunfei immediately carried it.
¡ª¡ª"Look, what my Mr. Bar Jing explained is easier to understand than what I said. In fact, everyone should not underestimate themselves. Didn't Li Bai Da Niu say it??!
When he wrote this poem, it was the time when he was depressed. His life was really ups and downs, and finally he realized his self-realization. "
¡ª¡ª"Well, the life of Li Bai, a great writer, is indeed full of legend. When Chu Chu finishes talking about the last three of these six important abilities, I will also tell you about Li Bai."
Yaolivas agrees very much.
¡ª¡ª"Okay, just now we talked about the three senses, then let's talk about the three forces.
The first is story power, whether a person can tell a story, then what is a story?
A story is about putting information in a scene, giving it an emotional impact.
For example, if I say that the queen is dead and the king is also dead, this is not a story. But if I say, the queen dies, the king also dies with a broken heart.
This is a story, and a simple heartbreak is added to it. Heartbreak is an emotional state, and a story can attract people only by adding a lot of this emotional state.
This point is also getting more and more attention in business.
For example, if you have two wines in front of you, the price, taste and packaging of the two wines are similar, and the first bottle uses many adjectives to promote this wine. , said a lot of adjectives.
The second type tells a story that the brewer is a pair of two sisters in a remote village, and their family has been brewing for generations.
One day, their winery was caught in a fire, and their father rushed into the flames and took out a secret recipe. Unfortunately, their father was also seriously injured. Finally, before his death, his father entrusted the secret recipe to them. They carry on their ancestral business.
In order to commemorate their father, they plan to take a sum of money from every bottle of wine they sell and donate it to Hope Primary School in the name of their father; so far, they have donated more than one million yuan and helped more than 3,000 out-of-school children. When you buy this bottle, more kids will be helped.
Are such stories often used for marketing on WeChat announcements?
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