¡ª¡ª"In that case, will it be too complicated to learn, and none of them will be effective?
There has been a saying since ancient times that there are specializations in the art industry. Everything is half-baked, and nothing will be achieved in the end. "
Qing Yunfei did not agree with Chu Lihua's point of view.
¡ª¡ª"Well Let's put it this way, what I just said means that people always have two choices.
The first choice is that you practice one of your skills to the best in the world. This is very difficult and very few people can do it;
The second option is that you can choose two skills and practice each skill to the top 25% of the world, which is easier.
There are actually very few people who have two skills that can be ranked in the top 25% at the same time, and if you can combine these two skills to do one thing, you may achieve great achievements.
For example, Dilbert cartoonist Adams, he is not the best drawing skills in the world, but his drawing skills can reach the top 25% level.
His joke writing skills are not the best in the world, but his joke writing skills can also reach the top 25%.
Now he combines these two skills and draws "Dilbert comics", which is too few people to do it.
We didn't know what we were good at or what we were interested in at the beginning. So I can only find out two of them that I can practice to the top 25% under step-by-step screening. Of course, three or four are definitely better.
Just like what I just said about Adams, in addition to the above two top 25% skills, he also has a third skill, that is, he has been sitting in an office for many years, and he is very knowledgeable about office politics!
Office politics is precisely the theme of Dilbert's comics, which is the chemical reaction of three powerful skills put on one person.
So Adams' advice to young people is that no matter what field you really like, you have to work hard to reach the top 25% in this field. Then you better add another field or two. "
¡ª¡ª"Then if I don't like anything, don't I have to go through all of them like you said? Then I'm exhausted before I find it."
Qing Yunfei still failed to change his way of speaking.
¡ª¡ª"I think you have a good eloquence. In fact, you can try to learn speech. To be honest, the few I'm learning now are all fields that I am interested in, or I think I might learn well."
Chu Lihua felt that she had a great responsibility!
¡ª¡ª"Speech? Why do you study this? Go to the United States to run for president? Then I have to learn English. By the way, the most important thing is to become an American. Otherwise, there has never been a Chinese in history who has been the president of the United States."
¡ª¡ª"Hahaha, if you really think so, you can try it. Maybe I can also be the president's wife in the future. After all, before ***, there was no black president in the history of the United States!"
Chu Lihua teased Qing Yunfei with a smile.
¡ª¡ª"People say that *** can be the president, and his wife Michelle is indispensable. If you want to be the president's wife, then you should work hard first."¡ª¡ª
"Well, that makes sense! I've got to try to create a green Bama first. So, my Mr. Bama, shall we start with a speech?"
Chu Lihua tilted her head to look at Qing Yunfei.
The people next to the car burst out laughing.
¡ª¡ª"Can you go home and talk about it."
¡ª¡ª"What's the matter! There are only a dozen people in a car, and by then, you will have to face the whole of America."
¡ª¡ª"Okay, why are you getting more and more talkative, let's talk about your speech."
¡ª¡ª"I am also a husband and wife! Only in this way can I keep up with your rhythm! Didn't Shen Teng say that the Northeast people have their own comedy effect.
Well, well, I said this speech, speech. "
Chu Lihua felt that the surrounding temperature had dropped suddenly, so she quickly changed the subject.
¡ª¡ª"Adams said that as long as an individual is willing to practice hard, he will be able to practice well.
For example, if you are a top 25% programmer, and there are many top 25% programmers in your company, but you are also a top 25% speaker, then you are naturally the leader of those other programmers.
Regarding this method, a well-known writer, Mark Anderson, has similar suggestions. He said that it is best for young people to obtain degrees in two different disciplines in college, and the farther the distance between the two disciplines, the better. Such as engineering + MBA, law + MBA, or physics + economics. "
¡ª¡ª"I don't know any of the people you mentioned."
Qing Yunfei's answer is reallyIt made Chu Lihua want to vomit blood.
No wonder, Heinz Koner wrote in "Johannes": "In the depths of every human being there is this wish: to leave the swamp and live in the sun.
However, the fear of sunlight, freedom, and freedom makes us stick to the environment we are used to.
This environment makes us feel that it is acceptable to be stinky, dead, dark and decadent.
Meanwhile, everyone is sinking into the swamp day by day. Every day spent in the swamp makes it harder for us to get out of the swamp.
Yes, everyone is busy on how to better eliminate the stench, how to better endure the sticky and dirty mud, and how to spend this time of sinking in the most comfortable way.
However, everyone who knows the answers can take responsibility for themselves and find the best path to the sun. "
A person who doesn't want to get out of the swamp, the more you pull him, the more he struggles, but the faster he sinks.
"Once the distance between two people is getting farther and farther away, it will be like two intersecting lines, getting closer to intersecting from the beginning, then separating again, and finally"
Chu Lihua quickly shook her head to get rid of this thought.
Albatron fly! What should I do with you?
In this life, his mother is a hurdle that he can't get through, and he didn't expect Qing Yunfei to be the same.
Do you really want to separate?
However, there are really not many people who take such care of themselves in life.
However, if it wasn't for the accident that my mother had an accident and broke her arm, maybe she would have been divorced by now.
At that time, why did I feel that Qing Yunfei was very good over and over again, and even went so crazy that he often showed his love in the circle of friends; and then let myself have no way out
No, there is nothing to return. It's your own pride at work.
But, this time, divorce, how can I say it?
The three views do not match?
This kind of reason is probably only valid in film and television dramas and novels!
"Woman, you will be happy if you marry anyone!"
Perhaps, what should be changed is not Qing Yunfei, but himself.
He is such a person in the first place, there must be prerequisites for everything.
The idea of ??bringing Qing Yunfei to grow up together can only be shelved for now.
Let's grow up first.
After they returned to their rental house, Chu Lihua began to read books and study audio every day. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com