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Chapter 657 Marriage is a blasphemy against love

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    ——"Listen, this is the consciousness of college students!"

    Qing Yunfei, who didn't know when he came over, suddenly said this.

    ——"What? Is there something wrong with my words?"

    Chu Lihua said calmly.

    ——"Since you despise marriage so much, what are you doing here?"

    Qing Yunfei didn't breathe out.

    ——"Look, some people are always like this, judging others by themselves, and always feel that what they think is what others think. Don't you know how hurtful it is to talk like this."

    Although he already thought that Qing Yunfei was just explaining to his family, he still felt very blocked.

    ——"Really? If that's the case, then I'll be all ears."

    Qing Yunfei felt that he couldn't hold back his face. The person he brought back actually blatantly talked about being single in front of his relatives.

    ——"Then you have to clean up, listen up!"

    Chu Lihua took a deep breath.

    ——"Yunfei, what are you talking about, Chu Lihua, don't listen to his nonsense."

    It was Qing Yunfei's mother who came to sit as a peacemaker again.

    Chu Lihua actually liked this elder.

    ——"Auntie, don't worry."

    After Chu Lihua gave Qing Yunfei's mother a reassuring look, she continued.

    ——"What I just said is singleness and living alone. Singleness is something that each of us has experienced for a long or short time, but many times, we just regard it as a transitional state or an unstable state, lacking understanding of single life.  A deeper understanding of value.

    In fact, the development of industrialization and urbanization has enabled women to have a more independent economic status and self-awareness. They are often free, independent, and self-seeking, which is far from the traditional prejudice against older leftover women.

    More and more single women bring more challenges to the society. How to make women willing to give birth, how to create better reproductive technology and nurturing environment are all problems that the future society needs to face and work hard to solve.

    Now, most of China uses forced marriages.  However, foreign countries have introduced relevant policies to encourage independent choices.

    After entering the 21st century, the whole world seems to be ushering in an era of singles: In Japan, a traditional "big single country", about 35% of the adult population is single.

    In recent years, South Korea has also shown great signs of overtaking, and 90% of young people under the age of 30 are unmarried.  In Europe and the United States, the changes in women's marital status are particularly noticeable. The proportion of single women in Britain and the United States surpassed that of married women for the first time.

    This is enough to show that this is the current trend.  "

    ——"Then you mean that it's normal not to get married?"

    ——"I have never really said that. What I mean is obviously that everyone can freely choose to be married or single. It should not be criticized for this.

    It is not possible to get married for various unreasonable reasons.

    In life, can't you enjoy true love?

    Many people say that the essence of marriage is love.  Of course not, love does not require marriage, and love that needs to be guaranteed by institutions and laws is definitely not love.

    ?Pure love does not require promises and guarantees of legal provisions, certificates and lawyers, and no property distribution plan.

    Whether you love me or not, I love you; if you beat me and scold me, I love you; if you betray me, let me down, I love you;

    ? Even if you let me deceive my teachers and destroy my ancestors, bring disaster to the country and the people, and violate all morals and laws in the world, I will love you relentlessly.  "

    ——"This is just a fairy tale world!"

    ——"This kind of love did exist, it happened in the medieval University of Paris, the love legend of Abelard and Heloise.

    This is a teacher-student relationship. The aristocratic girl Heloise fell in love with the popular teacher Abelard.  Heloise cherished this pure love very much, and from the very beginning, she didn't want to tarnish it with such a mundane thing as marriage, not to mention that their marriage would really bring a lot of trouble to both parties.

    It's just that this is a tragedy. Heloise's guardian led people to castrate Abelard in anger, and Heloise was sent to a women's convent, where she died all her life.

    Legend has it that Heloise said a famous saying to the nuns when she was dying: "As God bears witness, I would rather be Abelard's mistress than the wife of the king of the universe."

    But in fact, love is a very abstract concept, and various disciplines define it in different ways. For example, in biology, love is?A series of individual actions induced by hormones.

    Psychologists say that love is the ups and downs of emotions.  Economists say: love is a contest between investment and return.

    But marriage is by no means an old age, it should be married.  Such a large family persecutes an unmarried woman, so I will say a few more words, what's wrong?

    If you don't meet the right person and rush to complete the so-called task due to pressure, who will bear the consequences?  "——

    "you!"

    Qing Yunfei didn't know what to say.

    In fact, Chu Lihua said such a lot of words not because she suddenly became nervous, but because she figured out something.

    She wants to tell Qing Yunfei clearly what love is.

    For him to Li Hongyang, that's not at all.

    Although it is very rebellious to say these words later today, if Qing Yunfei can let go of his knots, it will be worth it.

    As for what these relatives will think of themselves, that is not something that can be considered now.

    When Chu Lihua thought of this, an indescribable sense of comfort arose in her heart.

    On the return train, Qing Yunfei asked Chu Lihua why he said that, but Chu Lihua smiled and said nothing, letting him experience it for himself.

    Only then did Qing Yunfei realize that he didn't seem to understand the woman in front of him.

    But I can't say why, but I want to get closer and understand more and more.

    After meeting the man's parents, Qing Yunfei proposed to visit Chu Lihua's house as well.

    Chu Lihua readily agreed.

    However, the only requirement is to look at the air ticket and go when the discount is on.

    Because there were still two more months to go, the two of them were free again for a while.

    Chu Lihua writes something every day, and her life is not plagued or hot.

    However, within a few days of such days, Chu Lihua found another good part-time job.

    It is also similar to the previous promotion, but this one is obviously much easier, but the price is the same.

    For the first three days, everything went well.

    After that, I was always idle for a long time because the gifts were not available.

    Chu Lihua wasn't annoyed either. For the rest of the day, she wandered around the neighborhood and lived comfortably.

    Psychologist Dr. Dorothy Tenno has made a long-term study on the phenomenon of love and found that: the average life span of a fascinating romantic relationship is two years.

    If it is a secret love affair, it may survive a little longer.  But the cruel fact is that when we fall in love to a certain extent, we will return to the real world and descend from the cloud of love to the flat land of reality.

    Enjoy it while it is still in this period.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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