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Just about to leave, Qing Yunfei's mother followed the old saying of "get on the car dumplings and get off the car noodles" and prepared dumplings for them.
Other relatives will come over to eat together in a while, so I have wrapped up several curtains and haven't stopped yet.
First, Miss Qing Yunfei came, followed by his cousin.
Qing Yunfei's mother asked Chu Lihua to chat with them.
Cousin Qing Yunfei is a talker, but Miss Qing Yunfei is a talker, but for some reason, the scene is still not lively,
After a while, Qing Yunfei's third aunt came. Chu Lihua, who finally breathed a sigh of relief, once again expressed deep sympathy for Qing Yunfei's cousin because of the topic she brought up.
The last time it was at the big dinner table, I couldn't express it too much, this time, maybe I helped her instead. Chu Lihua muttered in her heart.
¡ª¡ª"Actually, I have some personal views on the topic of marriage.
Nowadays, there are many young people in their thirties. They have their own careers and hobbies, and they are not in a hurry to get married, and they still live happily.
Although they often laugh at themselves as "single dogs", the fun in it is indeed only a single can experience.
How many people like this are there in our country? The latest statistics show that the number of such single men and women is close to 200 million. So many people are enough to show that such groups have already become a common phenomenon in society.
In fact, throughout the world, the phenomenon of living alone has become a major trend. It can be said that human beings have entered the age of being single.
In the United States, 1 in 7 adults chooses to live alone, and in Manhattan, more than half of the people choose to live alone.
In Northern Europe, the proportion of single people is higher. Sweden is the country with the highest proportion of living alone in the world, and the proportion of living alone in the capital Stockholm is as high as 60%.
In Japan, more than 74% of young people in their 20s are not in a relationship, and 40% of singles say they "don't want to find a partner at all" because "dating is troublesome" or "prefer to spend time in their own Hobbies."
This is already a social trend.
The single society is becoming an unprecedentedly powerful and inevitable social change. We need to make changes so that future society and urban planning can adapt to this change.
It is the relatives and friends around the so-called older youth who should change their minds, not them.
Originally, our society has a variety of family combinations, and families can be roughly divided into six forms.
The first type is the most common, and it is called the nuclear family.
It is a family based on marriage, where parents and unmarried children live and live together.
Most of us lived with our parents in the nuclear family until we left home to go to school.
The second type is called a multi-generation compound family, which refers to a family where more than two generations live and live together, such as a family where grandparents, parents and children live together.
The third type is a couple with no children.
The fourth type is the cohabitation family with roommates, which includes the cohabitation of male and female friends, homosexual cohabitation and other forms.
The fifth type is living alone, which is what I call a trending phenomenon.
The sixth is the form of a home for the elderly or living in a nursing home.
With so many forms of lifestyle, why is it only right to be married?
The famous American writer Thoreau wrote "Walden Pond", which is very famous. He built a log cabin by the side of Walden Pond. He is self-sufficient, does not need the company of neighbors, and resists paying taxes. What did he explain with his actions? It's called "Independence".
He has become a role model for Americans, especially young people, who pursue self-independence and do not want to be restrained.
It's not that I worship foreigners, but that China is in such a state now. Otherwise, where did the 200 million single people come from?
Moreover, there is another very important point. Now that women's status has improved, they don't need to rely so much on men. Even, with a man, additional troubles will be added.
?As women have greater access to education and equal employment opportunities, their economic power and sense of independence have grown, and they have become more empowered to determine their own family life, sexual rights, and reproductive choices.
Since the 1960s, women in the United States have been unwilling to become dependents of their husbands and families. The feminist movement has directly promoted delayed marriage and childbearing, prolonged adult transition, and increased separation and divorce rates.
Although China is not so early, but now this trend is inevitable.
Today, young people are more willing toEnjoy living away from home supervision and enjoy the "age of autonomy".
In the past, people mostly believed that "marriage is a guarantee for women in their worst years". It may be better after the founding of New China, but it is also because it conforms to social trends.
Now, "In the best years of life, a woman does not need the role of a husband. The biggest trouble for a single woman is precisely - how to solve the troubles caused by the men who are eager to marry her!"
Now, large-scale urbanization has made it possible to live alone.
The city's subculture attracts those who don't stick to the rules, and the city's colorful inclusiveness makes them find people like themselves wherever they go.
A lifestyle revolving around bars, restaurants, gyms, civic organizations, apartment-style housing and a freer sense of sexuality makes up a unique culture of singles whose every need is catered for.
All kinds of people living alone with different values ??can also find their own team and belonging.
Isn't this kind of life comfortable and comfortable?
Furthermore, even if you want to get married, there is no rule that you must complete this rule according to how old you must be.
Everyone's life trajectory is different. Just like the President of the United States, ***, who was in his seventies before running for the presidency of the United States. In China, this is already the age of retirement.
Tingting could choose slowly, but if the urging is too much, she will get married casually as soon as she is in a hurry. At that time, the person who bears all this will only be herself. "
I don't know whether it was Chu Lihua talking so much all of a sudden, or her theory was too shocking to the world, anyway, after talking for a long time, the third aunt who loved talking about others didn't interrupt her.
After Chu Lihua stopped in the room, it was eerily quiet all of a sudden. After thinking about it, Chu Lihua went on to say a few limericks¡ª¡ª
"Be your own master,
in charge of the body,
Also takes over the soul.
Be your own master,
make a choice,
Also bear the consequences.
Be your own master,
On my behalf,
Be accountable to God.
Be your own master,
In the hustle and bustle,
Listen to your inner voice. "
The last words were mainly for Qing Yunfei's cousin, Tingting. I dare to think or not to do it, and hope that others can obtain real happiness and freedom. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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