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This is also a child who doesn't get an attachment from his mother.
Chu Lihua lay on the bunk and listened to the crying of the child. She always had the illusion that she had been so helpless before.
How much she wanted to see that child again.
Chu Lihua tried hard to recall in her mind what she should do now to help that child.
What to do if an attachment does not form?
First of all, we must see through our many psychological defenses. Through these complex defenses, we can see our original intention, which is what we have said many times: "I" is always looking for "you".
You can go and see children and small animals, and you will see life as it is: on the one hand, they will try to accomplish something independently; on the other hand, they are all looking for emotional attachment. When there is attachment, a sense of satisfaction will arise spontaneously.
At the same time, time accumulation and space transformation are particularly important. If a relationship breaks your heart, and after careful consideration, you know that this relationship is hopeless, then you can change the space and find someone else.
What is also important is that when you basically conclude that a relationship is ok, then please keep the relationship basically stable for a long time, and gradually realize the completion of attachment in this relationship.
Finally, she couldn't bear it anymore.
——"Hello, this child's mother, I know that now, your child is crying and uncomfortable, and you are also feeling uncomfortable.
I am in the lower berth on the right next door, and now the tickets are all real-named. I don't mean any harm, can you let me try? In this way, you may still have a feeling of sleep, and you will have more energy to take care of your child tomorrow. "
This time, Chu Lihua tried to speak in a low and gentle tone.
As she spoke, she patted the crying child gently with kindness.
A strange thing happened, the child's crying suddenly weakened.
The child's mother dubiously handed the child to Chu Lihua.
However, she also came over with Chu Lihua and sat on the side of the lower bunk watching Chu Lihua.
Because her side is the middle berth.
——"Baby, we are now on a thing called a train, which will take you to where you want to go.
Because at dawn, we have to be full of energy to do things we like, such as playing and so on.
So now we need to close our eyes and sleep well.
Your mother will always be by your side, she loves you very much, and she will always protect you. "
——"He is so young, is it useful for you to talk so much nonsense to him?"
The child's mother said impatiently that she was sleepy now.
——"Shh the more irritable you are, the more restless the child will be. You are her greatest attachment, and the child is very sensitive. You obviously laughed a lot when you heard the child cry.
Moreover, children can actually understand what adults say. It's just that she may not be able to understand it temporarily, but she can get the sense of security she wants from the tone, and then she will gradually calm down. "
Although Chu Lihua said so, she didn't know what to do in her heart.
After all, this kind of professional stuff, in fact, she has only a half-knowledge. However, it seemed that because Chu Lihua understood her with empathy, the child gradually calmed down.
Gently put the child into her mother's arms, Chu Lihua asked her mother to sleep with the child here, and she went to the middle bunk next door.
The child who was finally coaxed down.
But the child's mother disagreed and insisted on going back by herself.
——"The lower berth is more expensive than the middle berth. I don't have any money to pay you."
Chu Lihua looked at the figure from behind, not knowing what to say.
Alas~ No one will understand this kind of help that comes together.
Chu Lihua remembered what Qing Yunfei said to herself before.
Later Qing Yunfei also fell asleep in frustration.
Later, the child cried several times, but none of them seemed to be too big.
Chu Lihua was in this state of sleeping for a while and waking up for a while, waiting for dawn.
Qing Yunfei came over early in the morning.
The hard seat has been playing cards and yelling at night, but no one cares.
Qing Yunfei didn't sleep much all night, and his mental state was particularly bad when he came here.
Although Chu Lihua didn't sleep well, she fell asleep intermittently, so she asked Qing Yunfei to lie down quickly to catch up on sleep.
After getting off the train, Chu Lihua really??I feel what is called "cold in the northeast".
Whether the biting cold wind hangs on the face or pours into the neck, it feels like a knife.
She quickly retracted, took out the scarf that Qing Yunfei had prepared before from the suitcase, wrapped her face and neck tightly, and then put on the hat of the down jacket.
Qing Yunfei held the suitcase with one hand and Chu Lihua with the other.
It seemed that she was worried that the strong wind would blow her into the crowd and not find her.
Because Qing Yunfei bought some violin accessories for his elder sister's children.
So, after getting off the train, I didn't wait long standing in the snow outside the train station.
His eldest brother-in-law drove to pick him up.
Sitting alone in the back row, looking at the snow-covered scenery outside the window, he quickly backed away.
Chu Lihua became even more apprehensive.
When Qing Yunfei in the front row was chatting with his elder brother-in-law, he would turn around and ask her a question from time to time, which could barely ease his and her anxiety.
It's just that as the scenery outside the window becomes more and more "desolate", yes, except for the thinner trees that can be seen occasionally, it is basically an endless expanse of white snow.
Finally arrived, Qing Yunfei and his eldest brother-in-law got out of the car to get things from the trunk, Chu Lihua got out of the car slowly and followed behind.
When it was time to enter the door, I was still a little hesitant.
But to my surprise, everything went smoothly unexpectedly.
There are no unruly in-laws. On the contrary, the uncles and aunts are quite open-minded and warm to her. They prepared a large table of delicious food in advance and stuffed her with a thick red envelope
The heart that had been hanging for a long time finally fell.
After dinner, under Qing Yunfei's hint, Chu Lihua helped clear the table and wash the dishes.
She actually felt a little uncomfortable. How can a girl be asked to do housework for the first time? But, forget it, maybe the customs here are like this.
Just as she was about to propose to stay in a hotel, her boyfriend took the lead: "I've opened a room for you, I'll take you there later!"
Thousands of words, all in silence.
In this regard, Qing Yunfei is also intentional.
He later quietly told Chu Lihua: "Originally, my mother said that the old couple lived in the living room and we lived in the small bedroom.
However, I told her that southern girls are more reserved. So it will be more comfortable for you to open a room outside. It's just that I am a little worried that you will be scared at night. "
——"It's okay, if I'm scared, I'll tell you, as long as I tell you this, I'm sure I won't be so scared."
Chu Lihua felt warm again. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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