Chu Lihua's cautiousness towards Qing Yunfei is actually understandable. It's just that he couldn't find the right words to comfort him for a while.
¡ª¡ª"I'm just afraid that you will feel uncomfortable when the time comes, thinking that our family doesn't value you."
Having said that, Qing Yunfei felt more at ease in his heart. After all, the family should also be prepared.
The atmosphere of going back to celebrate the New Year is getting stronger and stronger, and Chu Lihua was also very lucky to buy a ticket for the lower berth of the sleeper berth, but unfortunately, Qing Yunfei only got a seat ticket.
As the day of going back drew closer, Chu Lihua felt a little uneasy.
She kept rehearsing in her heart, how to answer Qing Yunfei's parents' questions, what to do when the conversation was cold, how to deal with the conflict of ideas between the two generations
The most important thing is that she has known the situation of Qing Yunfei's house, it is an ordinary two-bedroom house, and there is no extra room for her to stay overnight.
In this way, you can only stay in a hotel at night.
But she was a little apprehensive, wondering what attitude her boyfriend's parents had
All in all, Chu Lihua embarked on the train to Qing Yunfei's house with the mood of going to the battlefield.
Qing Yunfei followed Chu Lihua to the sleeper car first. Chu Lihua's plan was that no matter what, the sleeper side is much more comfortable than the hard seat side, and it doesn't matter even if the two of them squeeze together.
Just in time, if the hard seat over there pops out, it can give those who urgently need to go home and buy a standing ticket because they can't buy a ticket, a chance to take a break temporarily.
But wishes are always good, because they can only be wishes.
They boarded the train in the afternoon, and everything went smoothly at first, and the conductor didn't say much when checking the tickets.
When eating, Qing Yunfei went to make instant noodles by himself and brought them back. After putting in all kinds of sausages and eggs that Chu Lihua likes, he began to prepare his own food.
The night was slowly getting dark, and Chu Lihua was already beginning to rejoice that the night would pass by like this, anyway, it would be noon the next day.
What I didn't expect was that the conductor came to check the tickets again, and this time the people in the hard-seat carriages who were left behind could not stay anyway.
Chu Lihua's extravagant hope that maybe someone got off the car halfway, and the idea of ??making up a sleeper berth also fell through.
Qing Yunfei could only go back to his own hard-seat car.
¡ª¡ª"I don't know if there will be someone sitting in your seat after you go back? Will you encounter the kind of scoundrel who is unwilling to give up your seat."
Chu Lihua was a little worried, because he had met such a person before, and even the conductor couldn't do anything about him.
¡ª¡ª"It's okay, depending on my body and mind, not many people dare to bully my seat like this. The main thing is that you should be careful when you are alone here at night, after all, there are people who are mixed with good and bad people."
¡ª¡ª"I see, then go back quickly and come back early tomorrow morning."
Chu Lihua said rather reluctantly.
After Qing Yunfei left, he was bored lying on the bunk and playing with his mobile phone.
However, because the train is moving at any time, and there are occasional signals such as caves, it is often cut off again before the connection is stable.
Chu Lihua also lost interest in playing with her mobile phone, and planned to have a good sleep.
She fell asleep after pressing the mobile phone under her buttocks.
The lights in the sleeper car were also turned off.
The voices of those chatting gradually became quieter.
Except for the collision of train tracks and the clang of train wheels, it seems that this environment is quite suitable for sleeping.
It's a pity that this thought didn't last for half an hour.
There seemed to be a child in my bunk next door. After turning off the lights, it was better at first, but then she began to cry loudly.
Although the child's parents seemed to be coaxing her a little bit, the effect was obviously not very great.
In the end, the father of the irritable child beat the child up and then threw it to the child's mother
Although there were many complaints in each compartment, there was no way.
After all, a child has nothing to do with her.
Inexplicably, Chu Lihua remembered what her mother once said, that she was so afraid of the dark when she was a child.
Once it's night, as long as the lights in the house are turned off, the crying can't be stopped.
It is because of the fear and insecurity of unfamiliar environments.
Chu Lihua remembered the psychological lectures she had attended.
If, I used to compare this with that child's mother.?Say, will it be better?
However, Chu Lihua remembered that it seemed that children were afraid of the dark because they were afraid of "bad mothers".
Psychologically speaking, babies have always divided their mothers into two types of mothers.
The so-called two kinds of mothers are that when they can respond well to their children, they are "good mothers"; when they cannot respond to their children, they are "bad mothers".
Correspondingly, when facing a "good mother", the child will be a "good child", and when facing a "bad mother", the child will be a "bad child".
The formation of attachment requires the child to have such a basic feeling: Mom is basically "good" and sometimes "bad", but "bad" will not overwhelm "good"; I am basically a "good" child , Sometimes it is "bad", but "bad" can be accepted, and it can also be accepted by oneself.
If their real mother is not good enough, then the child will tend to give up expressing attachment to his mother to a certain extent, and go to the outside world to find a "good mother".
And the "good mother" that each child finds is different.
According to psychological analysis, it is obvious that I am so attached to the lights. That is the "good mother" I found for myself when I was a child.
The crying child now is probably the same as myself when I was a child.
Find a light source to be a "good mother". Once the "good mother" disappears, fear will occupy her little heart. And crying is the only way for babies to express all their bad emotions.
Having figured it out, Chu Lihua had the urge to tell the crying child's mother, but she was also afraid that people would think she had something ulterior motives.
Don't go, Chu Lihua couldn't bear it.
I tossed and turned and baked pancakes on the bunk many times.
Chu Lihua finally decided to find the child's mother.
Because, he and she were a little hoarse when they heard the child's voice.
Following the sound, Chu Lihua told the crying child's mother what she had pondered over in her heart for many times.
However, the result was as bad as Chu Lihua expected.
¡ª¡ª"Have you ever taken care of children? Children are like this. The people in the same cubicle as me didn't say anything. What do you know about a little girl?"
Chu Lihua was ruthlessly rejected.
Seems to feel the line of sight cast from several places.
Chu Lihua left in embarrassment.
It seems that I can't always think about the bad side in my heart.
Otherwise, in the dark, things will develop in that direction. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com