It seemed that she was really heartbroken, and the woman began to choke up.
Chu Lihua didn't know what to do for a while, so she handed her the tissue silently without saying a word. Chu Lihua thought of Tang Tingting, she told her story at that time, and then there was no more.
In fact, most of the time, when a person chooses to talk to others, he does not need much comfort or advice. All she wanted was a quiet listener¡ª¡ª
"Thanks."
Then, after a while, the woman seemed to have adjusted her mood, and then she continued.
¡ª¡ª"We all know that blunt knives hurt people, but we are just ordinary people. It takes a long time to take a shower in winter, let alone such a traumatic thing as divorce!
Like an ostrich, I curled up in my mother's house for refuge.
The circle of friends has seen some news about him, and he lives a very chic life, and like a bachelor, he went to participate in the hiking circle.
I went back once halfway to get my documents, and my woman's intuition told me that another woman had come at home¡ªyes, my habitual offender husband cheated on me again
Man, a naive and pure heart is always being tempered and disappointed, getting stronger bit by bit, and it doesn't matter bit by bit. I don't mind the word "loyalty" anymore. I'm terribly disappointed in marriage. All the things I held on to when I was a girl have disintegrated a little bit
Just like this, another year passed, the child turned one year old, and weaned off breastfeeding. I have a little freedom and my condition is better.
A few months ago, I got acquainted with a pottery teacher who was very knowledgeable, gentle, and very patient with me. Half is loneliness, half is revenge, all in all, we had a relationship.
This incident once made me very regretful. Not because of a betrayal of marriage, but as a mother, I am inherently ashamed of my children. The loss of the bottom line made me feel sad. I was also a believer in love and loyalty. Why did I become what I am today
On the one hand, I was in pain, and on the other hand, I couldn't help irritating my husband with this incident-I confessed to him.
His performance was extremely interesting. At first he didn't believe it, but he used his usual rhetoric, saying that I must have worked too hard to take care of the baby, so he started to think wildly.
He also said that he would take me back when I was in a better mood. He also said how much he loves me, and he has been reflecting on it for the past year
These words gave me a thrill of victory, and I decided to pursue the victory.
Yes, I am completely insane. The desire to win that would rather hurt both sides drove me to never give up until I reached my goal. I sent all the chat conversations to my husband
He actually collapsed!
Oh My God! Even if he knelt in front of me and slapped himself before, he never lost control like that. He made dozens of calls in a row to question me, asking me if it was true, and asking me why I did this!
Not long after, he came to the door of his mother's house in person, slammed the door frantically, and asked me to give him an explanation.
How ridiculous, separated for a year, he never came to visit me and the children, and now, in just a few hours, he drove hundreds of kilometers to our door to ask for an explanation
This incident was ridiculously ridiculous - I treated him the way he treated me, and he broke down!
He was so angry that the circles of his eyes were red, he smashed things crazily at my house, and scolded my parents for raising a morally corrupt daughter. Apologies are completely different.
People, indeed, are more lenient than self-discipline, and stricter than others.
I always thought that the word "loyalty" did not exist in my husband's dictionary, but now I know that he just doesn't demand it from himself.
I remember when I was pregnant, he once discussed the topic of physical betrayal with me.
At that time, he was so brazen, saying that it is inevitable for men to have needs. Even if they cheat physically, it will not affect the status of family in their hearts.
Later, I caught him cheating. He also said similar things, saying that he was just playing with women outside, and only I was his wife, his family
I really thought he was so magnanimous. It turned out that he said it so nicely, but it was because he was the one who made the mistake, not me!
I taunted him coldly: "You cheated so many times, what happened to me once?"
He almost came to strangle me: "How can it be the same? I am a man! You are a woman!"
Hehe, seeing his despondent look, I feel really sad and happy in my heart.
theHowever, men and women are different after all-I can forgive him, but he can never forgive me!
We were soon divorced. There is hardly any wiggle room.
After he returned from my home, he found a lawyer and sent me a divorce agreement. I really didn't expect that he could do it so easily after I had done so long to prepare for it
Mom and Dad are very supportive of me signing the agreement. We have almost no property disputes. The house and car were bought by his family. I brought back the jewelry for dowry. , finally came to a full stop.
And the reason why I chose to share this experience is to tell my female friends a truth:
You can't bear to divorce, you think family is very important, you think that he cried bitterly and knelt down to repent, because he cares about you, attaches importance to marriage, and saves love. Actually not at all.
He is reluctant to divorce, maybe just because he is the one who cheated, not you.
How unfair this world is to women.
After my divorce, I have been staying at home. My parents persuaded me to go out and walk, saying that travel can heal everything. However, I have walked through Lijiang and Dali, and I still don't feel that the pain in my heart is a little less.
However, I found that after I said it now, I felt a sense of relief.
Now, tell your story too. Perhaps, you will have a different new experience? . "
After the woman finished speaking, she let out a long breath of relief.
¡ª¡ª"Actually, my stories all have endings without endings. I agreed with you just now because my friend has cheated mentally. However, she felt that she was forced to do nothing.
Although I respected her choice before, I have never been able to understand her. After all, her marriage was a romance from school uniform to wedding dress, and it was also a successful case of women chasing men. But after hearing your story, I think maybe she's hiding something from me. Maybe, only when you can't find the sense of existence at home, will you go outside to look for it.
However, although I can understand this kind of behavior, I really don't recommend it, because I think that sooner or later, the woman will become the injured party again. "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com