"Have you boiled water? If you haven't boiled water, go to boil some water. We need boiled water later."
"Help Dad cook some food."
"Hurry up and drink, let Ren Yin scoop up the soup after drinking."
"Ren Yin, pass the paper over."
From the moment Ren Yin brought the dishes to the table, she was like a spinning top that was constantly busy and never stopped.
Or one person asks her to do this, and later one person asks her to do that
Everyone at the table was motionless, except her.
Obviously, the rice is next to her father, but her father insists on making her go around in a big circle to cook rice.
Ren Yin has never eaten a bowl of rice, it is so hot.
At this time, his father Ren Shifu wants to eat the second bowl of rice.
Ren Yin: "Dad, hit it yourself. The rice is next to you, and you can hit it as soon as you turn around."
Why do you have to tell her to cook?
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She just stands up at noon, and then stands up again to do what, but no one on the table has left food for her?
It seems that everyone takes her for granted, and if he retorts, he will feel that she is not filial.
Master Ren looked disappointed: "Oh, my son has been raised for nothing, and I can't even ask her to cook for me."
This made Ren Yin angry when he heard it.
This is the case at home, only the younger generation can cook for the older generation, but the older generation will not cook for the younger one, except for Wang Xiaohong.
Alas, they felt that it was good for their son to cook for their parents and even gave Ren Yin face, but if they asked them to cook for Ren Yin, they felt that it was very shameless and cheap.
Housework What is housework is that everyone does it together.
Don't always let others do for you what you can do.
Considerate?
Family members need to be considerate of each other.
Parents give their children a meal, what's wrong?
Just wait for her to finish everything by herself.
She hasn't eaten much hot food in a bowl of rice.
Master Ren: "I raised a son, and he raised him so big, he is not obedient at all. He is not as good as other children."
"If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have raised it. Change it with someone else."
Yes, mom and dad want a good son, a good daughter.
Ren Yin: "You want a good daughter, a good son, so I said I want to change my father."
So Master Ren began to talk about how unfilial Ren Yin was and how disobedient he was.
Respect and equality?
Ren Yin is over 20 years old this year, yes, if she doesn't obey the orders of his family members, then she is disobedient.
disobedient?
Obedient?
Do you want Ren Yin to be a marionette like the person opposite her?
No, at least that person's parents were able to make the right decision.
It is also possible to ask her to be a marionette, but it is a pity that Ren Yin's parents often make wrong decisions.
Oh, so far, they have made these wrong decisions, for them, this is just a mistake, it doesn't take much time, space.
But for Ren Yin, she had to take many detours and wrong paths in her life.
In the end, her parents accused her of not being assertive.
All successes belong to them, and all failures are caused by her alone.
Ren Yin thought her life was ridiculous.
It would be great if she could have no opinion and listen to her parents all the time.
Just like Wang Xiaolong on the opposite side.
Wang Xiaolong has always been an obedient and good boy, no matter before he grows up or after he grows up.
When he was young, he ate a grain of rice and dropped it on the chicken manure on the ground.
His mother told her to pick up the grain of rice and eat it.
He picked it up and ate it.
The rest of us feel disgusted and don't feel the need to do that!
His mother said: "What do you know, I am just cultivating him a good habit of not wasting food."
Wang Xiaohong: ""
Ren Yin: ""
In fact, Wang Xiaolong had his own idea at first, so he also refuted it.??, but the consequence of disobedience is that he will be beaten.
Children who are disobedient will be beaten and scolded.
So, he gradually became very obedient, became a good boy in the hearts of his parents, and became the capital for his parents to show off to others.
In his life, he hardly has to make any big decisions.
Once the nine-year compulsory education is over, you will have to pay tuition fees.
His mother's tuition fees are quite expensive, so stop studying.
His father was against it at the beginning, no matter what, he must go to high school.
So his mother scolded his father, and the family reached a consensus.
?Wang Xiaolong did not study in junior high school, but what did he do after he did not study?
Of course it is to make money!
Since it is to make money, of course the higher the salary, the better.
With the help of his mother, Wang Xiaolong changed many, many jobs.
He has to give his mother his monthly salary, and my mother will give him pocket money.
Wang Xiaolong: "Mom, I'm a little tired today, I don't want to go to work."
Wang Xiaolong's mother: "Now you are an adult, you don't want to go to work, what do you want to do? Go to work soon."
Wang Xiaolong didn't refute, but he was obedient and obedient habitually, and then continued to go to work.
Finally, Wang Xiaolong's mother called Wang Xiaolong to the construction site.
Working on a construction site is hard work, but the pay is good.
Wang Xiaolong went.
Wait until many people of the same age around you are already married.
Wang Xiaolong's mother: "Now that you are old and young, you should find someone to date and get married."
Wang Xiaolong: "Okay. Then just make arrangements for me."
Just like that, Wang Xiaolong got married.
The current wife and mother-in-law get along very well.
The mother-in-law is particularly diligent, helping with cooking, washing clothes and taking care of the children.
The wife helps to do it together at home.
All the money of the two of them was handed over to his mother for distribution.
Any important decisions in the family are also made by her mother.
The family is also living happily.
Ren Yin: "Anyway, I won't get used to this kind of life."
Do you need a long head?
Everything is listened to by others.
So what's the point of living like this?
But the only thing that makes Ren Yin feel relieved is that.
Under his mother's continuous education, Wang Xiaolong has become an obedient and good boy.
Although Wang Xiaolong has no idea about what to do, he behaved well and did not make any major mistakes in general.
Ren Yin thought for a while worryingly: "What if his mother dies?"
"Then who will he listen to in the future?"
This is not to curse who will die, but it is normal for people to be born, old, sick and die.
Maybe this is an opportunity. When his mother dies, he will make his own decision.
Ren Yin's colleague said: "Doesn't he still have a father and a wife? He can listen to whoever he wants."
Ren Yin: "His father has always listened to his mother."
There is no detergent in Wang Xiaolong's house.
Wang Xiaolong's father washes dishes and pots with washing powder.
As a result, a big man was fined to kneel in the living room.
Wang Xiaolong's mother didn't say anything, and his father didn't even dare to move.
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Will this kind of person still make his own decisions?
Ren Yin felt that the time was too long, and he probably got used to it, isn't it difficult?
The only person who feels hopeful is his wife. After all, the first thing he listens to at home is his mother's words, and the second is his wife's words.
Colleague Ren Yin: "Then he will listen to his wife. If his wife dies, he will listen to his own son and daughter!"
Ren Yin: "Won't he feel uncomfortable?"
Colleague Ren Yin: "Who knows about this kind of thing? Maybe he is still happy and at ease. After all, he doesn't have to use his brain to follow others. How comfortable it is."
"You see, we make our own decisions, and how many people live comfortably?"
Ren Yin: What's going on? She actually thought it made sense.
If your brain tells you it's painful, then abandoning your brain won't be painful, and you'll be happy all the time.
After all, blind happiness is also a kind of happiness.
A life of happiness without an opinion and suffering with an opinion? (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com)?Blind happiness is also a kind of happiness.
A life of happiness without an opinion and suffering with an opinion? (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com