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Wang Xiaohong made a major decision: "I will never quarrel with your father again."
This sounds like a good thing, but why would her mother do this?
Ren Yin frowned: "What's wrong? Did something irritate you?"
In fact, Ren Yin is also very annoying all day long, watching her father and mother quarrel every day, and the number of quarrels is more than eating.
Sometimes Ren Yin doesn't even know what is the meaning of such a marriage?
Anyway, Ren Yin doesn't like this kind of marriage that quarrels every day, and even fears that she will meet such a person and such a marriage in the future.
Her father was very nice to Wang Xiaohong at the beginning, but then gradually the two became so affectionate that they quarreled every day.
Wang Xiaohong: "If I continue to quarrel with your father, I'm afraid that you will find someone to marry on impulse in the future."
"Impossible." Ren Yin denied it outright.
She watched her parents quarrel so many times, no matter how fierce the quarrel was, Ren Yin never thought that she would just find someone to marry in order to escape from this family.
Marriage is no child's play.
I would rather not exist than be casual.
If Ren Yin's parents continue to quarrel like this, if the quarrel continues, Ren Yin may move out as long as financial conditions permit.
After all, there are lessons learned from the past.
Ren Yin saw that silly boy with her own eyes.
The guilty thing is that when they were young, Ren Yin and the others didn't know that there was a slight problem with their heads, and they even bullied others.
The boy's mother is very beautiful, very capable, and very smart.
But that boy followed his father.
His father is just stupid and can't do anything well.
You said that his mother is such an excellent person, how could she fall in love with his father?
The reason is only two words - impulse.
The boy's father died before his mother revealed the truth.
Back then, her grandparents did not agree with this marriage.
His mother also disagreed.
Everyone knows about this.
How could a good girl marry a dull person?
As long as there is no brain problem or other reasons, most people probably won't do this.
Even at that time, there were many boys queuing up, waiting to go on a blind date with her mother.
They also naturally didn't pay attention to that dull person at all.
Not as good as their family's economic conditions, not as good-looking as them, and not as clever as them?
Do you think such a person has any competitiveness with them?
But who knew that the boy's mother suddenly agreed to marry his father to the person who said he would marry him!
This happened quite suddenly to everyone.
Then came the decades-long marriage.
Dumb husband, she gave birth to a dull son
She has regretted it countless times, but she is married and resigned to her fate, and it will be for the rest of her life.
At least, they won't argue with her endlessly.
At that time, as soon as she went out after eating, she rejected the person who said she would marry her.
But when she got home, she saw her father and mother arguing and fighting again.
After being married for more than 30 years, they still haven't changed much, and they will never get tired of quarreling and fighting like this.
She has long been tired of such a bad marriage.
In order to leave this terrible home as quickly as possible.
In a fit of anger, she turned her head and agreed to the person who said she would love her.
Getting married is the fastest way to escape here.
But who knew that this marriage was actually just jumping from one pit to another.
Even though she regretted it, she never said how her husband was in front of outsiders, and she kept a polite smile in the face of disgust or pity from her surroundings.
Later, her father and mother died, and they stopped quarreling and fighting.
Originally, she was already used to this kind of life, but who knew that one day after being married for more than ten to twenty years, her husband died suddenly.
Obviously they were still lying on the same shop last night. Her husband had a sudden illness and was waiting to be sent for emergency treatment.
Rescue is invalid.
The way of life she was accustomed to was broken overnight.
Except for her stupid son, she has nothingWhat a loved one.
Her older siblings all started their own families, and because of her husband's stupidity, they haven't had much contact with her for many years.
Wang Xiaohong also said at the time: "It's so miserable, she is left alone now, how can she raise the child?"
But then those people around began to say that it was a good death for her husband.
She would never have met her second husband if her first husband hadn't died.
Perhaps her second husband was not a very good person, but he was a very normal looking person compared to her first husband.
Ren Yin doesn't think so: "Actually, it can't be said that it was a good death. It can only be said that fate has come and gone. God closed a door for you and opened a window for you."
Although her first husband was stupid, he was her husband after all. He didn't give her much emotional and financial support, but he didn't do anything to apologize to her either.
It makes people feel that there are some things that are hard to explain.
She and her second husband conceived a child, and this boy grew up to be as beautiful as she was, and very smart.
So after comparing his first husband with his second husband, everyone compared her first child with her second child.
The first child was stupid and not good-looking. And the second child is very good-looking and very smart.
At this time, everyone felt that her first husband died really well.
Her first husband was very poor. After his death, others said that he died very well. Her first child was also pathetic and compared to her other son.
At that time, because of the marriage she chose on impulse, she remarried to cover up the past, but her first son was a real reminder of the mistakes she had made.
Ren Yin felt that her mother Wang Xiaohong's worry was completely unnecessary: ??"Anyway, I wouldn't do this. This marriage is not a child's play."
Wang Xiaohong: "Then you mean, I can quarrel with your father?"
Ren Yin: "You can say that, but I also hate that you keep arguing."
? If you can pass it, you can pass it. If you can¡¯t pass it, everyone will work hard to solve the problem. If you can¡¯t solve the problem, then leave.
Ren Yin envied her parents' marriage back then, and now she fears and hates her parents' marriage.
If marriage is to find someone and always fight against yourself, then what's the point?
At least for Ren Yin, it is meaningless.
It is normal for two people to disagree, because the family environment in which everyone grew up, the education they received, and the development of character lead to a different way of thinking and behavior.
But this is not impossible to change. Marriage is a process of mutual tolerance, mutual correction, and then strive to become better and more adaptable to each other.
And the quarrel is not to fight for the dominant position in the marriage, but to solve the problem of the quarrel itself.
If you make a mistake, and then know that you are wrong, you have to apologize when you should apologize, and you have to find a way to make up for it.
It is not only your face that is valuable.
It's not that the other party is the only one who can put down face.
No one likes to bow their heads forever.
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