I don¡¯t know if it¡¯s because Niu Meng was too lazy and took too long to write the chapter on cardiovascular medicine, so until now, I feel that I have nothing to write
But just when I wanted to start a new chapter¡ªjoint surgery, I suddenly thought of a disabled grandfather I had seen in the Department of Cardiovascular Medicine.
And the biggest impression that the old man left on me was that he smelled like urine.
I don't know when the old man was admitted to the hospital. Anyway, when I was on day shift and needed to change bed sheets in the ward in the morning for morning care, I noticed him because of the unpleasant smell of urine coming out of the ward.
To be honest, I was a little disgusted at the beginning. After all, there are so many patients in the department, and even the patients who are bedridden and need to be taken care of are not as smelly as him.
So when I was on day shift and needed to go into his ward to help patients change their dressings, I would hold my breath for a while, because even though I was wearing a mask, I could still smell the unpleasant smell very clearly.
At that time, when I got out of the ward, I always thought: How can the patients in the same ward bear it?
But there is no way, there are only so many beds in the ward, even if other patients dislike the old man's smelly body, there is no place to move, because there are many people queuing up to be hospitalized, so how can there be extra beds for you to change?
Bear with it!
I think that the other two or three patients who were in the same ward as the old man at that time may have this mentality. (I forgot whether that ward accommodated three patients or four)
However, when I was walking around in the ward, I saw the old man walking with difficulty on crutches, and I felt a little pitiful for him.
Because looking at his clothes, one can tell that his family is not rich.
In other words, if his family is rich and his family is not around, he should also be hired as an escort.
But during that time, he was alone, even if he only had one leg, even if he had to use a cane to move, he was still alone
Perhaps it is understandable for the old man to smell like urine, after all, his own mobility is inconvenient
After all, he has no one to take care of him, so it is not convenient for him to take a bath in the hospital
In other words, because of his limited mobility, even if his body was stained with feces when he went to the toilet, he couldn't clean it up by himself
However, I didn't pay attention to whether the old man brought a change of clothes, but I vaguely remembered that he had to walk with a cane on the day he was discharged from the hospital, and he had to carry his own army green bag
Later, it might be because I was on night shift, and I was on vacation, or maybe I was a little busy and didn't pay attention to him, so when I noticed the old man again, it was the day he was about to be discharged from the hospital.
That morning, I remember that he had been on the phone in a remote place in the corridor, and the tone of the conversation with the person on the other side of the phone was not right, it was like arguing, but I was just an intern nursing student, and I had nothing to do with him, so there was nothing Care too much.
And that morning I didn't know that he was going to be discharged from the hospital until I was on the way back to the nursing station from the ward when I overheard the head of our responsible group tell other teachers how many sons the disabled old man had. , but when I didn't want to bother him, I finally understood why he had such a tone and expression when he called in the morning.
At that time, I felt sympathy for him in my heart.
Not to mention how many sons the disabled old man had, and why the old man's legs became disabled, but he must have worried a lot about how many children he had over the years, right?
But when he was old, when he was sick and hospitalized, but no child came to accompany him
Before being discharged from the hospital, you can still quarrel over the phone
At that time, I became afraid of marriage and having children again.
What is marriage for?
If it is said that getting married is to have someone to accompany you for the rest of your life.
What is the purpose of having a child?
Is having a child to have someone to rely on when I get old, or is it for the reproduction of the human population?
Judging from the experience of this disabled old man, I reckon that it is not very reliable to regard children as the biggest support in my old age.
And when I was young, my grandma had three sons and two daughters, but when she got sick, because my grandpa passed away early, she had no one to take care of her where she lived, and she just took turns to take care of each child. Live at home for several months.
Yes, living in each child's house for a few months on a rotating basis
But every place is just a place where you will take turns to go, but it is not your home
In this way, it makes me feel that it is not worthwhile to spend a lot of time and money to raise children.
Because when they have their own home, if you go to them, you will become a guest.
And when you get old, you may still be like that disabled old man, who has no children to pick you up when you leave the hospital
I thought about the reasons, and there were only a few points.
One: There are too many things at home, and I can't leave
But this is not without grounds for refutation, because if you knew that the old man was going to be discharged from the hospital, shouldn't you have arranged the time earlier?
Two: go out to work, not at home.
I feel forgivable for this.
Three: Afraid of medical expenses, I don't want to come.
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In fact, I feel that this may be the biggest reason why elderly people with many children do not want to pick them up, because it is convenient for money, and no one seems to want to suffer
Later, it was about eleven o'clock, and the old man was holding his salute and leaning on crutches to walk a little bit to the elevator.
Because the old man still had an applicator on his hand after the indwelling needle was pulled out in the morning, and there was a lot of blood on it, the teacher asked me to replace it with a new one.
? At that time, I was changing the applicator for the old man who was already holding a salute and was about to leave in the corridor. I still smelled the smell on his body, but at that time I didn't feel disgusted in my heart, and patiently told him to pay attention to the wound after going back.
Because I heard the teacher say that the grandpa's children don't care about him, so I asked him how to get there later.
Hearing the old man say that his family is waiting for him downstairs (due to the epidemic, he can't go upstairs because he doesn't do nucleic acid.), I was relieved.
Because no matter what, someone took him home after all
Later, the old man walked away on crutches, and I watched his back in the corridor for a while.
I was a little afraid that I would be as pitiful as him when I was old
However, in the future, I will not have as many children as he did, nor will I leave a way out for my old self
? I also hope that I will not be as pitiful as him in the end (Remember this website URL: www.hlnovel.com