? The soul is lost and the river is still in the river;
When drunk, I don't know the smoke and waves,
In the dream, the lights are faintly cold.
The flowers and leaves have not seen each other for thousands of years,
? Destiny and dance;
Hua Puzzled Hua nodded,
The Buddha crosses my heart and the Buddha sighs in emptiness.
Wan Sheng and others searched for Meipan's body on the east bank of the Sushui River.
Although the East Bank is led by Wansheng, how can there be any energy for Wansheng's current situation? He still needs to be supported by two monks to walk!
Seeing Wan Sheng who was devastated, the Great Monk Huiming persuaded him, "Who has never died in life since ancient times? Mr. Wan must take care of himself!"
Wan Sheng said weakly: "My junior sister is gone, she died for me! How can I live alone in the world?"
"When a person has an afterlife, there is a future. But the 'going' is not the end of everything, but a new beginning. For all living beings, death is actually a kind of relief. Therefore, there is no need for Mr. I blamed myself too much for Miss's death"
Wan Sheng cried: "Junior Sister has been timid since she was a child, and she is terrified when she mentions death. Now that she has embarked on this path, how can she not be terrified"
"Death is not terrible¡ªdeath is like moving house, body is like a house, after years of destruction and even dilapidated, death is like moving from an old house to a new one, not only not fearful, but also gratifying; death is like changing clothes, like taking off Replace the shabby clothes with new ones."
"But now, let Junior Sister go to a strange place alone, how can she not be afraid?"
"Death, for all living beings, is not going to a strange land. It is just giving up this body and accepting another kind of body"
Monk Huiming's persuasion was completely incomprehensible to Wan Sheng, who believed in "Shamanism". Wan Sheng was still choking up tears.
Huiming continued to persuade: "And like you, it's a big mistake to keep crying! This will delay Miss Yu's 'death'! Everything the poor monk said just now means that the lady has not gone away. , and right beside us"
[2] "Flowers from the Other Shore" Lin Xi. Lyrics Faye Wong. Music/Song
As soon as he heard that his junior sister was by his side, Wan Sheng hurriedly looked around.
I saw that on the shore in the distance, the stars were dotted, like the flowers on the other shore on the wedding dress of the junior sisters, flying in rows with the wind. The beautiful Bana flowers are constantly changing colors - red, blue, yellow, white
[Song] "What you see is extinguished; what disappears is remembered. I stand at the end of the world, hear the soil sprout, wait for the epiphyllum to bloom again, and leave the fragrance to the years."
Wan Sheng immediately became excited and said: "Master, I saw it, I seem to see my junior sister!"
Huiming said: "Just see it! Maybe she is leading us to find her old body So, you can't be sad. If you show compassion to her, or even cry, it will make her involuntarily produce Let her Buddha heart stop and go with love, which will cause her to be reincarnated in the six realms life after life, without liberation"
"Master, what should I do?"
"At this time, the most beneficial thing for her is - don't cry, and devote yourself to the Buddha."
"To the Buddha?"
"Yes! Now, her soul is still erratic. When we find her body, the most harmful thing to her is to touch her body indiscriminately, or cry for her In this way, she is If you want to be reborn in the West, there will not be one person in 10,000"
Hearing what Huiming said, although he didn't quite understand it, as long as it was not good for his junior sister, he would not do it, so he asked, "How should I pray to the Buddha?"
Huiming said: "You should recite 'Amitabha Buddha' silently in your heart."
According to what the great monk said, Wansheng kept recitation of the Buddha's words in his heart.
[Song] "On the other side, there is no lighthouse, I am still looking around; it is dark, with white hair, holding my torch tightly; he comes, I say to myself, I am not afraid, I love him very much"
On the fourth watch, the moon climbed up from Dongshan.
The crooked moon outlines the little junior sister's thin body. I saw her in a trance, her figure was illusory, her thin and small waist was like the waning moon in the sky, moving forward in a hurry.
Although it is illusory, Wansheng may feel much better in his heart. He feels that Junior Sister is not dead, she is still alive, forever alive
[3] "Tang Duoling. Farewell" by Wu Wenying.
&nbsThe odds of a child will also increase.
Then a real problem arises, where will the divorced woman be buried after death?
In ancient times, there was no concept of divorce. We can only say "divorce", and of course the number is very small. When encountering such a situation, most of them will plead with the original husband's family for joint burial.
If you are not allowed, you will find a relative in the door, and you will be buried in the tomb of your husband's family after marriage. If none of this works, find a random grave and bury it, and get it done hastily.
The discrimination against women in ancient times is not only limited to this, married daughters are never treated well during their lifetime. Some local customs even prevent married daughters from going to the graves of their ancestors (especially those with brothers), and they cannot share the graves of their parents. Sweeping and adding soil, the daughter's name cannot be left on the ancestral hall, genealogy, and tombstone.
From the names of children born to daughters, the mentality of the ancients is clear at a glance-"nephew and nephew", which shows that in front of the family, the word "foreign" cannot be escaped.
In modern society, for urban residents, the word "ancestral grave" is almost unknown. Compared with the son, the daughter is a caring little padded jacket. All kinds of discrimination and restrictions in ancient times, with the development of the times, are also "all jokes". (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com