It is better for a woman to marry than to do well.
This is a sentence that has been circulated for a long time on the Internet and even in real life, which has affected many people's views on love and marriage.
Take the people around me as an example.
I have two cousins. She looks as beautiful as a flower.
The boss pursues love, and when he grows up, he marries the person he likes. The second child pursues material things and grows up to marry a rich man.
Open their circle of friends, different styles of painting.
The boss either shows off his affection or shows off his baby.
The second child is full of scenery photos of traveling to various places.
It is clear at a glance whether there is money or not.
Going back to your natal home during the Chinese New Year is the best way to test your happiness.
For example, I have never seen the eldest couple quarreling, but I have seen the second husband openly beat his wife at his natal home
It is conceivable how small the position of the second child in the husband's family is. Not even the most basic respect.
Of course, there are also women in the world who don't need to rely on men to live a prosperous life. They have excellent family conditions. When I was still wearing crotch pants, they had already learned to play the piano and draw.
When I finally learned the pinyin alphabet, they basically learned 5,000 Chinese characters.
Different origins, of course different realms.
They have the conditions to travel around and go abroad to see more of the world. And I can only hide in the closed village and live a life like my ancestors, who work from sunrise to sunset. Prematurely understand the hardships of life.
It is an unchanging truth that when God closes a window, he will inevitably open another window.
I had a happy childhood. It is not filled with various interest classes. The innocent childhood.
Running barefoot with your friends in the boundless fields.
We catch frogs, we walk on the soft grass looking for unknown insects.
Sit on a rope and swing.
Eat popsicles that cost fifty cents a piece.
The lack of material has not reduced the nutrition of our spiritual world.
We know the classification of various vegetables and grasses. Know what crops to plant and what vegetables to eat in what season.
But in the end, there are very few people who can really get out of the countryside.
We can change our destiny either by knowledge or by youth and beauty. Not everyone is beautiful, and there are always most who are not. For example, my appearance is particularly tactful, wasting the space of the world.
However, if the heart is turbulent and desperately wants to rewrite the fate, it will take more effort than others.
?Because I have no money, no background, no profound cultural background, and no support for high education.
So far, I am not "chicken soup for the soul after success". Because I'm still struggling at the bottom.
There are many distant places that I can't reach, and I can only fill the lack of material through reading. It really verifies the saying of the ancients, read thousands of books and break through thousands of miles of waves.
At the age of 13, he began to write novels.
At the age of 16, he won the first prize of composition in the whole school
A little complacent. In fact, it is just a drop in the ocean in life.
At that time, I felt that I could give full play to my strengths and find my own direction in life. And strive for it, but where is the end, and not elegant.
So, I persisted for 15 years.
In 15 years, I have changed from a green girl to a woman full of vicissitudes.
Those ruthless years did not precipitate my grievances and tenacity. But it gave me a stronger blow time and time again.
The manuscript paper I submitted fell into the sea.
? Sent emails did not respond.
? There are still very few replies to the comments I hoped for after many days.
Therefore, in countless late nights, I repeatedly asked myself, what is the meaning of persistence I am already so old. Turning 30 soon
I became fearful. Want to compromise with life.
However, he clenched his fists and gritted his teeth time and time again, trying to move forward.
?Because I never believed in the theory that a woman who does well is worse than marrying well.
Regardless of the future or the present, women or men, only by themselves can they live with more courage and responsibility.
Literati are somewhat pretentious and do not want to live on the nose of others. But I am not a literati, I am a woman walking on the edge of words.
So, girl, you look beautiful when you work hard. Because you can support yourself.
Girl, you look so beautiful when you persist. Because you are looking for your direction in life.
Girl, you look so beautiful in love?Because standing by your side is the person you have always wanted to find.
We don't need to rely on anyone, and we can also live out our own splendor.
The rainbow over there is beautiful and dazzling. It came after a violent storm.
I came into this world
just to meet you
meet in the noisy sea of ??people
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