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    Lord Chen Yanjing reacted immediately, "Your Highness the Crown Prince, you mean that we take the initiative to break the custom of men and women not meeting each other or getting to know each other before marriage?" He then shook his head, "This is too difficult."

    Not to mention the common people and conservatives outside, even those who have daughters in Nanshufang, don¡¯t want to agree.  Why should the little girl who grew up pampered and pampered by her family let those brats look at her?  Especially when getting along after the engagement, this is a big no-no.

    ??????????????????????? If things really go wrong and the engagement is broken off, how could it not have an impact on the little girl¡¯s reputation?  No matter how much the court publicizes the protection, and no matter what the real reason is for breaking off the engagement, it is the little girl¡¯s family who will be harmed in the end.

    Of course, some other Hanlin fathers also had the same mentality, and they were all silent.  Even Emperor Kangxi frowned. Even if he knew that the "general trend and unstoppable trend" mentioned by the prince was referring to the situation of equal freedom of marriage and love between men and women in future generations, he was not very happy in his heart.

    ¡°Does it mean that before he proposes marriage to the princesses of the royal family, he will have to let them see each other first?  Do you want to break off the engagement and start over again if things go wrong?  How could he have so much time to deal with these tedious household chores?

    ¡°Besides, no matter how the world changes, marriage is a marriage between two surnames, and the situation of marriage between wealthy families will not change much.  At most, it's just changes in ordinary people's homes.

    For a while, the south study room was quiet. Only the dull breathing of Emperor Kangxi and the Hanlin officials could be heard.

    Yinreng sighed in his heart, he had an intuition that no one would agree to his proposal.

    The traditional marriage model in ancient China was attached to the family and the clan. Marriage existed purely at the expense of personal interests and for the needs of the family and clan to carry on the family line. It and the traditional feudal family system jointly maintained the feudal rule of patriarchal integration.  "The top is to serve the ancestral temple, and the bottom is to carry on the work of future generations."

    Parents arrange marriages, and as children, you must obey them without any room for objection.  Because once children disobey their parents' orders, it can be regarded as disobedience and unfilial piety.  In this era where filial piety governs the country and filial piety is the first principle, unfilial piety is the biggest crime. The crime is unpardonable and the love cannot be forgiven.

    According to the provisions of etiquette and law, the marriage between a boy and a girl should be "the order of the parents and the word of the matchmaker", and "three matchmakers and six betrothals".  When a woman marries a man, having a legal marriage certificate after going to the wedding hall is only half of the ceremony. The other half must wait until she has paid homage to the man¡¯s ancestors, his surname has been included in the man¡¯s family genealogy, and a hundred years later, he has entered the man¡¯s ancestral grave.  Finish.

    A woman does not have her own name and surname, independent home and career all her life. When she is in her natal family, she obeys the arrangements of her father, the patriarch of the family. When she is in her husband's family, she obeys the arrangements of her husband-in-law. After her death, she must be buried with her husband-in-law.  , the rise and fall of honor and disgrace in life, and the life before and after life are completely out of your control.

    However, for thousands of years, generations of ancient Chinese people have come this way.  The fathers, ancestors, and ancestors of these young girls are now dominated by patriarchal, filial piety and other etiquette and ethical concepts. They cannot escape and cannot escape from the destiny of maintaining the prosperity and longevity of the family through self-sacrifice.

    Because once they leave the protection of their family, it not only means they lose the honor and grace of their family ancestors, but it also means they become alone.  A person who is alone can be bullied by everyone.  In this family-based ancient Chinese era, it was simply too difficult for an individual to get married, start a business, and live a good life. It was so difficult that there was almost no hope.

    Thinking of this, Yinreng couldn't help but explain, "My lords, I know that it is difficult to break the custom of men and women not meeting before marriage. But please think about it carefully."

    "The women's colleges of the Qing Dynasty must continue to be established, because our goal is to allow all the daughters of the Qing Dynasty, and the wives and mothers of the Qing Dynasty in the future, to receive at least four years of college education."

    ¡°Female students who have received college education, especially those who want to continue their studies in women¡¯s colleges, after they graduate, most of them will no longer stay in the backyard with peace of mind for the rest of their lives.¡±

    "Even if they stay in the back house for various reasons, their thoughts and insights should have changed. They will no longer be like her mother and grandmother's generation, no matter what great grievances they suffered in their natal husband's family.  , they all choose to swallow their anger and accept the consequences."

    "They will even ask to work; they will ask to stop having children after giving birth to two or three children; and when they are subjected to domestic violence, they will bravely stand up and ask for a divorce. Because they already have an independent source of income and have  Different from the activity space of natal family and husband's family, life and economy are gradually separated from parents and husband.Things.  Just like a women's college, most of them were not optimistic or resolutely resisted at the beginning, but now they are slowly beginning to accept it.  "

    "I agree that state affairs should be our top priority."

    Emperor Kangxi nodded helplessly, and the brat would dig a hole for them with an innocent look on his face without knowing it.  Once this sets a precedent for women to discuss affairs, it will be difficult to predict what will happen next.

    The precious son achieved his goal and went to take a lunch break with satisfaction. Emperor Kangxi, who looked depressed, discussed some other matters with the ministers. He guessed that the Empress Dowager had finished her lunch break, so she packed up and went to Ci  Ning Palace.

    After hearing the emperor's grandson's request, the Empress Dowager was so shocked that she almost jumped up from her seat, "Your Majesty, the Prince is young after all, and no matter how smart he is, he is not thoughtful. He made a casual suggestion, and those Han ministers actually  agreed?"

    "Grandma Imperial, there is nothing we can do about this matter. The Qing Dynasty's current development momentum requires many, many top talents. Since women are talented, this women's college must be opened smoothly."

    They, the big men, say that the country is the first priority in everything, but who has the heart to leave these girls alone?  You still have to work hard to do something, put your best effort into it, and control the situation within a range that everyone can accept, so that you can feel at ease.

    The Empress Dowager looked at her grandson who had no choice but to compromise, and shook her head, "Your Majesty, if this continues, the rule of no intermarriage between Manchus and Han, or no intermarriage between officials and citizens, will gradually be abolished."

    Although the Empress Dowager is in the harem, she has always kept in mind the country that was conquered with the flesh and blood of Manmeng Erlang. In recent years, the Qing Dynasty has experienced huge changes because of the things the prince has created.  Of course, she is aware of the changes, as if she has a mirror in her mind.

    Not only this land of the Central Plains, but also the Manchuria Northeastern hometown and Horqin are now changing little by little every day because of the asphalt pavement, blue brick houses, glass, essential oils, perms, new clothes, etc.

    The world in which you give birth and raise yourself has changed, and of course people's ideas have also changed.  The craftsmen who were looked down upon by everyone in the past are now national treasures; the gentry who were held in high esteem by everyone in the past suddenly found that their proud little days were not as prosperous as those wealthy businessmen engaged in overseas trade.

    How could Emperor Kangxi not understand that although his son never mentioned the intermarriage between Manchus and Hans, if things continued like this, there would be no need for him to mention it at all.

    You said that if these three or five children come to tell him which son of the Hanchen family she has chosen, the young man is not engaged, and his character and appearance are very good in all aspects, she will also be willing to give up her status as a princess.  Will he agree or reject the marriage?

    "A few years later, if the third elder brother finds a Han girl in a women's college, and the two are talented and beautiful, and fall in love with each other, do you think he can do something like a mandarin duck match?

    The Emperor Kangxi, who became more and more irritable as he thought about it, couldn't help pinching his brows and started walking in circles in Cining Palace.  (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com
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