Because she knows very well that the more some people pay attention to them, the more energetic they will dance and toss.
Ignoring them is the best option.
After a routine visit.
She went back to work at the company.
In addition, she also specially ordered nutritional soup for Zhu Juan from a Cantonese tea restaurant for a month.
In any case, her mother-in-law did cook lunch for her every day during her confinement period. As for whether she was reluctant to buy the food in the hospital, she still really cared about it. It didnĄŻt matter, since she had to cook anyway, so she would If itĄŻs not good, donĄŻt pay it back.
But she is very busy at work every day, and she really doesnĄŻt have time to cook those dishes, even if they are made.
She also missed her mother-in-lawĄŻs meal time.
You canĄŻt let her eat leftovers every day.
So she could only order takeout for her, and this takeaway was a very healthy and hygienic store that she carefully selected. She even went to the kitchen to see it in person and ordered it after thinking it was fine.
In Lu Yuanyuan's own opinion, she is already quite benevolent and righteous, at least she will never say she owes anything.
After all, the nutritious soups in Cantonese-style tea restaurants are not cheap. Even if they are only small portions, which one does not cost 180 yuan, it is still better than the high-quality chicken soup she drank during confinement.
It is much better to raise crucian carp soup and the like.
But even so, Zhu Juan still complained a little, saying that her daughter-in-law had never cooked a confinement meal for her since she was pregnant and gave birth, which was very cruel and unfilial.
Lu Yuanyuan didnĄŻt care about these.
Pretend you didnĄŻt hear it.
I donĄŻt want to argue with her mother-in-law.
But some things that happened next made her really unbearable. Specifically, they treated her daughter differently from her mother-in-law's younger son. It was not just her mother-in-law who treated her differently, but her husband's entire family. Treated differently by all elders except her husband.
For example, when her daughter celebrated her 100th birthday, the elders were basically symbolic, giving her a small red envelope, or buying some shoes and clothes, but her mother-in-law's youngest son's 100th birthday, too, was I gave away silver necklaces, silver bracelets, and several relatively cheap hollow hard gold zodiac pendants.
They gave us several sets of children's clothes. .
They were also said to be stingy by their elders.
He is so stingy towards his own brother.
They didnĄŻt even look at what the elders gave their daughters during the 100-day banquet.
ItĄŻs easy to say that the two families have put together a set of clothes.
They thought it was just a habit. They never thought that they were discriminating against their family for having a daughter.
ThatĄŻs why I gave you such a shabby and perfunctory 100-day gift.
Who can be happy with this kind of different treatment? ItĄŻs not that they are greedy for the little money or anything, they donĄŻt lack this. The key is that this kind of different treatment of their daughter makes them very dissatisfied.
This is just a small thing. There are many different treatments in all aspects of life.
For example, her daughter said it was wasteful to drink milk powder, and said it was unnecessary to drink goat milk powder. She even secretly used the milk powder they bought for her daughter to feed her young son.
For example, it took a lot of effort to choose a name for their youngest son, and they went through several dictionaries, and finally picked a dozen names and selected them one by one. But for their daughter, they almost didnĄŻt just ask their daughter directly. Called Di Zhaodi.
??????????? Another example is that when children occasionally fight, Zhu Juan and the others scold their daughter indiscriminately, and even say how could their daughter treat her elders like this, which is really ridiculous.
As time passed, Lu Yuanyuan really couldn't bear it anymore. She couldn't bear that her daughter had to be bullied by others in her own home, and she continued to be bullied.
So, after another fierce quarrel.
She directly gave Li Heng an ultimatum:
Ą°IĄŻm telling you, I canĄŻt stand your mother anymore, and I canĄŻt stand your brother, and I canĄŻt stand your mother and your brother bullying my daughter together.
Now I give you two choices.
"Drive your parents and their whole family away. I don't need them to help me take care of my children, nor do I need them to give me three meals a day. I won't starve to death."
If you donĄŻt agree, get a divorce.
The child must be mine.
The real estate was divided according to the proportion of investment at that time, and the house was sold directly. I took the children to live with my mother in the old house. I would rather live with my mother and daughter in the countryside than buy a house.
Just live like this??Countryside.
I donĄŻt want to live here and suffer from your familyĄŻs cowardice and let my daughter live in this environment. Your mother is really shameless. I have never seen such a vicious grandma.
He actually secretly said something to my daughter when my mother and I were not at home. You are a girl, so you should let your uncle go. What else did she say? It is useless for girls to study.
Getting married in the future or something like that.
Only her uncle can support her.
She must also be nice to her uncle.
Why didnĄŻt your mother directly teach my daughter the three obediences and four virtues? I think she is really crazy. "
"Yuanyuan, how could I drive them away? Aren't you trying to make things difficult for me? They also paid for this house in the first place. If I drive them away, what will others say about me?"
Li Heng is also in a dilemma.
Although he strongly disagreed with what his mother did, it was his mother after all, and he couldn't beat them or kick them out.
This is really inappropriate.
So I just want to give his wife some advice.
I hope her wife can endure it a little longer:
"If it doesn't work, let my mother-in-law take care of the children more and prevent the children from coming into contact with my mother. We only need to wait for a few more years until the children go to junior high school, and then it will be fine if the children stay in the dormitory, okay?"
Ą°I still made it to junior high school.
Why donĄŻt you let me stay until I die? I have to stay away from my own house. DonĄŻt forget, the real estate certificate of this house only has my name and yours, not your parentsĄŻ names.
Ą°Well, IĄŻll give you another choice.
Sell ??the house, return the money your parents gave you, and pay it back to them in proportion to the current house price, and tell them to get out.
My family invested two million that year.
Oh, no, itĄŻs 2.3 million.
I also got an extra 300,000 yuan in dowry.
Based on this ratio, even if we sell our current house, the money we get will be enough to buy an ordinary house of about 100 square meters.
If you donĄŻt buy a house in a school district.
The area could be larger.
Live separately, itĄŻs best to live separately.
When they reach an age, we can give them alimony. As for other things, it depends on the situation, but they definitely canĄŻt live together anyway.
I donĄŻt want my biological daughter to feel inferior to men again under their influence. "
Lu Yuanyuan hesitated for a moment, and although she took a step back, the core point remained unchanged, that is, she must definitely live separately from her parents-in-law.
She can tolerate other things, and she can also tolerate things that are not good for her, but treating her daughter badly, or even trying to affect her daughter's thoughts and ideas, is something she can never tolerate.
Women are weak by nature, but mothers are strong. When it comes to children, even the King of Heaven and I can't do it.
Such father-in-law and mother-in-law who constantly act like monsters.
This is something Lu Yuanyuan absolutely cannot bear.
She can accept elders who pretend to be deaf and mute, who only care about eating and drinking, and never point fingers.
Even willing to keep and respect it.
But he keeps acting like a monster and causing trouble.
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