Faced with this situation, the original parents did not say anything in the end, but gave their daughter a sum of money as a dowry in front of many people.
There is also a bit of fuss here.
Give money tickets in front of many people.
The main purpose is to show everyone that their daughter does not have a dowry, but they did not have time to come over to give the dowry. At the same time, it also makes it clear to outsiders that this money is their dowry for their daughter.
The husband¡¯s family is not qualified to ask for it.
After that, the original parents didn't stay there for long. They just found an opportunity to talk to their daughter in private, and then hurried back. After all, they didn't take a long leave, and it took a long time to go back and forth. There can be no delay.
At this point, the original matter is settled.
She really enjoyed it. She basically didn¡¯t have to work in the fields to earn work points. She only had to do housework at home and cook three meals a day. Although the daily housework was not easy, at least it didn¡¯t require wind. Blow the sun.
Comparing the days of hard work and hard work in the wind and sun in the past few months, the original person is barely satisfied with his life after marriage.
After all, there is nothing you can do if you are not satisfied.
This is the best result so far.
Two years after her marriage, when her parents-in-law were a little anxious, she got pregnant, and it was very difficult. She almost died in childbirth and gave birth to twins, a boy and a girl. Because everyone else in the family had to work in the fields, the baby was also born. Having to be taken care of by the original person undoubtedly made the original person, who was already a little depressed due to the pain of giving birth, even more irritated.
My appetite started to get worse and my hair started to fall out.
Being out of shape made her even more uncomfortable.
Of course, even if he was dissatisfied, the original person did not abuse the child or anything in the end. At most, he would get sulky and cry after feeding the child. In this way, his emotions would be vented to a certain extent, and his mood would naturally feel better. .
Two years later, after the original person had basically accepted her own life, her husband died.
In order to make more money to raise children, I went to a nearby coal mine to make money during the off-season. However, I encountered a water leakage accident in the coal mine and the mine tunnel collapsed. When I was rescued, I was already dead.
This is for the original body.
It is undoubtedly a huge blow.
The same is true for her parents-in-law. .
After the funeral, the original person's parents-in-law began to be vaguely hostile to the original person, and even rejected the original person, because they seemed to feel that before the original person got married, their son had never thought of going to the coal mine to mine coal, because of the original person. After getting married, they did nothing but had to eat and drink well. Then their son would go to the coal mine to dig coal and die in order to make more money.
They couldn¡¯t blame the coal mine, and they didn¡¯t want to blame themselves. Naturally, they could only blame the original person, an outsider.
The original person is obviously not satisfied with this kind of life.
She doesn¡¯t want to be a widow who is mistreated by her parents-in-law and has to take care of the children and work as a cow and a horse.
Therefore, the original person who had given up on returning to the city soon had the idea of ????leaving here and returning to the city again because of the attitude of her parents-in-law.
And immediately wrote two letters and sent them back.
One was to inform her of her husband's death, and the other was to express the attitude of her parents-in-law. First, it was said that her parents-in-law blamed her for her husband's death and treated her harshly. Second, it was written that she had just turned one year old this year. She was twenty years old and did not want to remain a widow for decades. With her in-laws in the village, it was simply impossible for her to remarry.
I hope her parents can help her.
¡°Otherwise she would have to remain a widow in the village.
Because in these years, the original person has never written home to ask for money notes, and her sudden marriage that year also made her parents feel a certain amount of guilt towards her. Therefore, when the original person's parents received the money she sent, After thinking about it for a long time, I still couldn't bear the thought that my daughter would remain a widow for the rest of her life at the age of twenty.
¡°In addition, considering that the two of them were just married at the beginning, they did not actually apply for a marriage certificate. Now that the man is dead, the actual marriage relationship must be terminated. All he needs to do is to bring his daughter back.
This matter will be settled.
So, for the sake of her daughter, the original mother voluntarily gave up her job in the soap factory to the original person, and asked the original person to sneak back first.
Wait until the position is replaced.
Go ahead and make up for the previous procedures.
?????????????????? If you want to come back a year in advance, it is actually not that troublesome. As long as you have some connections and spend some money on tickets, you can come back. Unfortunately, in 1968, it was no longer a call for people to go to the countryside, but a request for family members.?Families with more than two children must send their children to the countryside, unless they are married and working.
Her original husband had just died, and it was obviously impossible for her to find a husband to marry in the city right away, so she could only arrange a job for her.
And this time.
Work is inherently hard to come by.
The price of buying a job is not something their family can afford. Even if they could afford it, their family would not want to be in the limelight at this time. A two-income family is already quite enviable, but if it becomes a three-income family again.
That¡¯s not just a cause for jealousy.
So we can only transfer the original mother¡¯s job to the original person so that the original person can have a job to come back to.
This is what everyone does.
No one can say anything.
Of course, this kind of job transfer can only be the transfer of ordinary employees. It is impossible to say that a factory director can give his position to his son. This does not exist. Only ordinary employees can transfer their positions in this way.
After secretly leaving the village and getting a position, the original person quickly completed the missing procedures and settled in the city again.
And it didn¡¯t take long.
So I found another man whose wife was dead.
Because the other party had no children and did not dislike her having been married in the countryside, the two quickly became satisfied with each other and got married again. This time the marriage was not a marriage without a marriage certificate.
It¡¯s a marriage with a certificate.
However, the original person did not tell the truth during the blind date. She only said that she had been married once in the countryside and then came back after her husband died. She did not say that she had two children. In fact, her husband did not tell the truth. Her husband only said He and his deceased wife had no children, but he did not say that his deceased wife had another partner who gave birth to a son for him.
The two of them can be considered equally matched.
Meeting your opponent in chess.
Unlike the two children who were originally from the countryside who would not reveal their secrets for a while, her second husband's son revealed his secrets after they got married.
But at that time, their evidence was all gone.
Naturally, it¡¯s hard to regret it.
After weighing the pros and cons, the original woman did not make a fuss over it in the end. She just used it to express the grievances she had suffered, so that her second husband could admit that he was sorry for her and gain the upper hand.
Successfully occupied the moral high ground.
Having taken the initiative in the marriage, she also used this as an excuse to take control of the family's finances. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com