¡°Besides, I may be promoted recently, so I¡¯d better put my pregnancy aside for now. I have worked hard for several years to get promoted, so I can¡¯t delay it.¡±
He hesitated for a while.
Lu Yuanyuan then found an excuse.
Her words can¡¯t be considered a lie, because their department manager has indeed been promoted and left, but there is currently no word from the boss whether they will select one of them or drop a new manager directly.
??????????????? And even if she doesn¡¯t get airborne, if she chooses among them, as a woman, she doesn¡¯t have an advantage over another male competitor in this regard. If she doesn¡¯t get pregnant, she¡¯s just at a disadvantage. Once she gets pregnant, it¡¯s probably going to be completely hopeless.
There is no way, the workplace discriminates against women.
Especially non-service industries discriminate against women.
It has long been commonplace.
As a woman, if you want to get the same opportunities and status as men, you must work harder than men. This is not because women are stupider than men, but because of social reasons.
Thousands of years of subtle social influence.
It cannot be changed by talking about equality for a few years.
??At least something ingrained.
??Some things that people take for granted, no matter how they say it, their hearts remain unchanged.
Men are particularly outstanding and receive extraordinary treatment, and they are average and receive average treatment. But only when women are extremely outstanding can they have the opportunity to break away from the specific housewife status given to them by society. Yes, they just have opportunities.
Whether you can break free or not depends on yourself.
There is no shortage of outstanding women in this world, and they finally return to their families and stand out from the crowd.
It doesn¡¯t have to be voluntary.
Most of them are just unable to fight against their parents.
It¡¯s just social pressure.
As long as women cannot get rid of the predicament of childbearing.
This is always difficult to change. .
But what Lu Yuanyuan said undoubtedly made Zhu Juan and Li Yue very dissatisfied. Their faces immediately fell. Zhu Juan put down her chopsticks and said:
"Let it go again, let it go. When are you going to put this matter away? Do you think this promotion will definitely succeed or something? It succeeded this time, but what about next time?
If you keep getting promoted.
Should you just leave it alone for a while?
Will you wait until you retire to get pregnant again?
"Compared to other families, our family is quite tolerant. Other families have already dragged people to the hospital for check-ups if they haven't gotten pregnant in half a year. Is it so difficult for you to get pregnant and give birth to a child? Do you want my wife and I to kneel down? Please? Ah!
Please give our family a child! "
"I won't eat anymore, I'll go back to the house first!"
Lu Yuanyuan was an only child who was pampered and raised since she was a child. The fact that she could endure not getting angry meant that she had a good temper. But it was absolutely impossible for her to sit here and keep listening. So after hearing this, She immediately clenched her fists, gritted her teeth and glared at her husband. After finishing her sentence, she threw the chopsticks aside, turned back to the house and slammed the door.
¡°She was still angry.
Is this still my fault? "
Zhu Juan was also obviously very unhappy. Although she did not curse, she was saying dissatisfiedly at the dinner table:
"Why do I want them to get married?
??Isn¡¯t it because they want the couple to get married so that they can have children openly and legally?
ah! If you don't have children.
What kind of marriage?
"What do young couples do together if not to carry on the family line? They just live together as a couple. They live together as a couple. If they don't have children, they are widows and widowers. That's red in the sunset.
What¡¯s the point of having a house without children.
If you die, you will give it to the country! "
With that said, Zhu Juan pushed her rice bowl forward. It was obvious that she was not in the mood to continue eating. She was so full that she was still in the mood to eat.
¡°Xiao Heng, tell us the truth, do you want to have children for the time being or are you unable to have children?
Is it that she can¡¯t give birth, or that you can¡¯t give birth?
"If you really can't give birth, you can't hide your illness and avoid medical treatment. You need to treat it. If you can give birth, you should persuade her. If you give birth to the child early now, won't everything be fine in the future?"
If your little couple are both children and daughter.
Look at me??Will your mother bother you?
Promise not to say a word.
Yes or no?
Your sister will give birth in two months.
You are three years older than your sister, and there is no movement here. Isn¡¯t it outrageous? "
Li Yue also continued to persuade, but because Lu Yuanyuan was not here, he could only speak to his son.
That means knowing with emotion and moving with reason.
He also teased him about his sister.
Li Heng, on the other hand, frowned and said helplessly:
"Dad, don't always make trouble with your little sister. Why won't she get married? She was already three months pregnant when she got married, and her belly can hardly be covered.
And we really have no problem. It¡¯s not like we haven¡¯t had a physical examination before marriage. We also had a detailed physical examination after marriage. We are all in good health and there is nothing wrong with us. It¡¯s just that we usually take some preventive measures and don¡¯t plan to get pregnant and have children so early. .
You are still young now and your career is important. "
"The career is important. What kind of career can you have? It's not about starting a business and becoming a boss. Career is important. If you don't have children now, you will not be able to have children when you are older.
That¡¯s life-threatening. "
After rolling her eyes and saying a few words, Zhu Juan suddenly thought of something and lowered her voice a lot: "Can't you let her get pregnant unexpectedly?
When the time comes, she will have to give birth even if she doesn¡¯t. "
"Mom, what do you want to do?"
¡°Maybe it was because Zhu Juan lowered her voice suddenly, so Li Heng also lowered her voice along with her, with a bit of surprise in her tone.
"What do I want to do? If you don't think about the two of us who are over fifty, you also have to think about your grandparents. How old are they? They will celebrate their 80th birthday in a few years. Do you think How long can they survive?
Do you want them to leave with regrets?
They all murmured that they wanted to hold their great-grandson for a long time. "
Of course, Zhu Juan continued to press forward step by step, and further increased her weight in persuasion.
With those who pretend to have cancer to force their children to get married.
There¡¯s not much difference.
¡°Mom, you said this again.
¡°Oh, I know, I will talk to her.
??????????????? Don¡¯t make trouble. "
What Li Heng said was just an expedient measure.
¡°After all, he couldn¡¯t just throw the dishes and chopsticks back into the house like his wife Lu Yuanyuan.
It¡¯s hard for his parents to scold his wife.
Isn¡¯t it easy to scold him?
"If you have children earlier, do you think we are willing to be bad people? Who doesn't want you to be good to me and everyone to be good mother-in-law? If you can have grandchildren for me, I won't be willing to talk to you."
"Yes, if you don't have children, your neighbors will say you are infertile."