Out of feeling sorry for her husband, and also because they were even busier due to another pregnancy, I took some contraceptive measures and sent my daughter to kindergarten as soon as she was old enough.
I quickly sent my daughter to kindergarten.
Then I found a part-time job.
? Share the family financial income pressure.
As for why you don't find a full-time job, of course it's because you can't find one. Kindergarten is not a high school or junior high school. You can send your children there at six in the morning, and it's not too late to pick them up at eight, nine, or even ten in the evening, or you can still have your children. stay.
No need to pick up or drop off.
Kindergartens are basically sent there at seven or eight in the morning, and they have to be picked up at four in the evening, and the latest is five o'clock. Generally speaking, work has to be from nine to five, plus the lunch break, the boss must be sure You can't let your rest be in vain. Even if you don't work overtime, you still have to get off work after six o'clock.
By the time we arrived at the kindergarten, it was probably half past six. The teacher stayed at school for more than an hour just because of your child?
It is precisely because of these reasons that I have no way to find a full-time job. I can only work part-time to earn some daily expenses.
After that, it¡¯s the same when I go to elementary school, because these days the burden on elementary schools is reduced, and school ends early.
This situation of being unable to work full-time continued until junior high school. After entering junior high school, the original daughter could have lunch at school, and then she had to study for a period of time in the evening. Normally, school would not end until after eight o'clock.
In this way, as long as the original person does not work in a class that requires overtime until 11 or 12 o'clock every day.
It¡¯s absolutely no problem to pick up and drop off your children.
But this time.
It is already very difficult for me to find a job.
Because she has not had a regular job for twelve years. Although she has always had a part-time job and cannot be considered completely out of touch with society, in the eyes of the employer, she has not worked for twelve years.
Just can¡¯t do the job.
Except for some specific professions, women are inherently discriminated against when looking for a job, not to mention the original person who has been away from the work environment for a long time because of her children. It is estimated that they have not kept up with the times, so the original person interviewed As a result, I hit a wall at every turn, almost to the point of despair.
In the end she had no choice but to give up.
Choose to start your own business.
Of course, where is their Lu family's financial resources? It is impossible to start a business on their own. The most they can do is set up a food stall. In order to avoid embarrassing her daughter, Yuan Shen deliberately avoided the restaurant where her daughter lived. junior high school.
It's a mobile one. I sell it at the gate of the primary school first, and then go to the gate of the junior high school or the gate of the high school after the elementary school is over. Although it is quite tiring all day long, and I have to hide from the urban management and the like, but the income is not bad, anyway. Not worse than the salary at work. .
It doesn¡¯t sound respectable at best.
Everything was going well at first, and even the remaining mortgage loan was completely paid off within two years. When everything was going in a good direction, an unexpected thing happened. The original husband, Lu Xiujing, did not work overtime that day because of the strong wind warning. , deliberately went home early, but a strong wind blew up halfway. In order to go home, he did not find a place to hide from the wind.
Still insist on riding a battery bike.
Go back against the wind.
Then when we arrived at the intersection, a billboard on the side was suddenly blown down by the wind. The thin steel sheet was like a large hidden weapon under the influence of the wind.
Directly slit the throat.
When the ambulance arrived, no one was there.
After receiving the news, the original person immediately reported the case, identified the person responsible, and received partial compensation, but he was unable to restore the deceased.
It goes without saying how grieving I was at that time.
And because they have no other relatives, the original body has to handle and worry about everything alone. In addition, there is a daughter who is in junior high school to take care of, and she is about to take the high school entrance examination. How can the original body dare to grieve too much? For a long time, I could only force myself to come out quickly.
Then go to apply for a death certificate, contact the funeral home, crematorium, buy a cemetery, etc.
In addition, there are condolences from the reception company.
Accepting condolences from colleagues, etc.
In short, the original person is extremely busy.
I was so busy that I couldn¡¯t care less about being sad in the end.
During the process, although the original person tried his best to comfort his daughter, he wanted her to calm down and be in a good mood.
Able to pass the high school entrance examination normally.
"But such a big thing is so exciting to a child. It can't be comforted by comfort. In the end, the original daughter Lu Yuanyuan was half a child.?The next high school entrance examination.
No doubt he failed the exam.
If your grades are not good enough as previously predicted, you can only go to an ordinary high school if you are admitted to a key high school.
The original person didn¡¯t dare to say anything about this.
Instead, she asked her if she wanted to repeat her studies for another year.
Or just go to a bad high school?
Lu Yuanyuan doesn¡¯t want to repeat the course.
The original person also followed her.
When relatives first left, they were definitely not used to it. Sometimes when they got up in the middle of the night and touched the empty space around them, their eyes would get wet. When eating, they would even involuntarily fill up an extra bowl, and they would not realize until they sat down. The person will never appear again, and he will never eat again. He can only stand up again and throw the food back.
The time when I first started.
The original person doesn¡¯t even know how to cook.
They always involuntarily stick to their previous habits, and the end result is that they cook too much rice and the mother and daughter can't finish it, and they cook too much food and the mother and daughter can't finish it either.
I have been getting used to it for half a year.
They walked out slowly.
Later, when the original daughter was in high school, she chose to stay in the hotel. The original person felt even more lonely when she stayed at home alone. In order to prevent herself from having random thoughts, the original person began to work hard. She went out to sell breakfast in the morning, lunch at noon, and dinner at night. After dinner, they sell midnight snacks and snacks.
When people are busy, they won¡¯t think too much.
At night, I fall asleep with my head stuck to the pillow.
The original person was still running a small stall as usual, not only to earn college tuition for her daughter, but also to save pension money for herself. After she resigned from the company, she stopped paying five insurances and one housing fund. Later, because she had no savings in her hand , so I didn¡¯t buy commercial pension insurance.
Only medical insurance has been purchased.
If you don¡¯t save some money now, you won¡¯t have a pension when you get old. You can¡¯t ask your daughter for it all the time!
And the original daughter is quite sensible.
I know it¡¯s hard work, so in the first semester, in addition to not being used to it since I just went to school and not being familiar with the surroundings, I also have a lot of homework.
There is no part-time job.
Since then, she has been working part-time in her spare time, and even worked during winter and summer vacations to earn tuition and living expenses. Starting from her sophomore year, she no longer has to pay tuition and living expenses for her.
The original person was both worried and happy about this. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com