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A few years after Yuan Shen started working, when she was about eighteen years old, her mother started looking for a matchmaker.
Give her a blind date and find her husband's family.
In the 1980s and 1990s, although the so-called free love idea was already very popular, it was only popular in some prosperous areas.
There are many economically underdeveloped areas.
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When meeting each other, if they see each other right, both men and women will be satisfied with the first meeting.
Then you can try to meet a few more times.
Go shopping and spend some time together.
No problem, in a few months, or half a year, we can almost talk about marriage.
At that time, the only people she could choose were people of the same age from about a dozen nearby villages, so she wasn't too picky. After a few blind dates, she successfully fell in love with a guy who was two years older than him and didn't have a regular job. A man who makes money by working.
The original parents felt it without even thinking about it.
¡°My daughter will definitely suffer if she gets married.
However, despite the fact that the daughter was willing, the original parent hesitated and hesitated, but in the end they could only nod in agreement and prepared a lot of dowry for the original person.
A complete set of new sheets and bedding.
A sewing machine.
Two thermos bottles and other household items.
In addition, the old couple also gave the original person most of the salary they had given to them for household use in the past few years, which was a full thousand yuan, and gave it all to the original person as a living wage.
Don¡¯t underestimate that one thousand yuan. At that time, my monthly salary was only about forty yuan, and I only made five hundred yuan in a year.
She had only worked for a total of three years and earned 1,500 yuan in three years. She used some for herself and some for her family. It was not easy to have 1,000 yuan left and give it all to her. Besides, the sewing machine for her dowry, Bed sheets, bedding, etc. don¡¯t also cost money to buy, if you add those things.
I am afraid that the original body¡¯s parents not only gave the original body less than 1,500 yuan, but all of it to her, and even gave her a lot of money.
As for the bride price given by her husband.
The total cost was less than a hundred yuan, and there was no such thing as three turns and one beep. Even the bicycle used to carry the bride to the bride and groom was borrowed from others.
"However, the original parents had just built a new house in Song Jianguo not long ago, and they spent a lot of money on furniture and the like, so they didn't say anything after all, and just married off their daughter in tears.
?The original person didn¡¯t know until she got married.
The new house he bought was for the second eldest son of the family. Song Jianguo lived in the old house, but Song Jianguo's parents did not live with him. They lived in the new house for the second eldest son. Although the original body was a little depressed, he could do without it. It's not a bad thing to get along with my mother-in-law day and night, plus I just got married.
In the end, I endured it.
An old house is an old house, after all, it is a brick house, not a shabby thatched house.
As long as it can protect you from wind and rain.
After getting married, the next step is the married life where the parents are short-lived. Generally speaking, it¡¯s okay.
Father-in-law and mother-in-law are not too biased.
The only thing that makes the original person a little uncomfortable is that the father-in-law and mother-in-law are really quite lazy, and they are also quite stubborn. Not to mention other aspects, just the fields they farm are completely different from others.
When she first went to work in the fields, she could clearly see that the wheat in her parents-in-law¡¯s fields was obviously shorter than that of other people around her, and there were many weeds in the wheat fields.
When asked again, they were too lazy to weed.
At the same time, not only were pesticides expensive, but also chemical fertilizers were expensive. Therefore, the wheat and rice grown in her land were all natural, pollution-free, organic food. However, that was in the early 1990s. Who cares whether the food is organic or not? The only real thing is to have enough food in large quantities.
However, the original person couldn't care about that. He could only work hard on the one-third of an acre of land that his family was divided into. A person who had hardly worked on the land in his parents' family quickly learned all kinds of farm work. He even learned to carry water and manure.
At that time, the original husband said:??Okay.
He told her to work at home, and he went out to work to earn money for her to use. The original person actually believed her husband's lies, quit her job that was about to become a regular job, and then went home to do farm work and take care of the house. various household chores.
While preparing for pregnancy and so on.
?Then, comes pregnancy and childbirth.
Before giving birth to the child, the original person and her husband really didn't feel that there was anything wrong with them being like this. But after the child was born, their money began to be a little tight, especially when the original person brought over the thousand yuan. After basically using up, the conflict between them exploded.
After the child is born, he needs money everywhere.
Before the one thousand yuan in the original hand is used up, the original person can still spend his own money to buy milk powder, milk cakes and other things for his children.
But wait until the thousand yuan is spent.
She had to ask her husband for it.
But her husband is often absent.
He even had to go back and borrow it from his parents.
It¡¯s not like the original husband Song Jianguo gave all his salary to his parents, let alone spent it on himself, or didn¡¯t want to use it for the original person.
He really has no money.
Because he works outside the home, it does not mean that he has a fixed job and is paid on time every month.
His income from part-time work is quite unstable. Sometimes, the foreman above will not pay the money until the project is completed. Sometimes, after the project is completed, the foreman above will have to delay the payment.
Others may directly agree to wait until the end of the year to pay, or even not pay in arrears.
Some people with conscience.
The most I can give you is some pocket money every month.
It is impossible to get the full amount.
¡° In this way, how much money can Song Jianguo have in his hands? He basically has no money all year round.
Only at the end of the year.
You may have a little more money.
When you are unlucky, you may still be trying to get back your salary from the year before or even more than the year before at the end of the year.
"However, it is impossible for people not to eat in the first ten months of the twelve months of the year, and then eat together in the last one or two months at the end of the year. It is also impossible not to get sick in the first ten months of the year, but to move to the end of the year to get sick.
When I was not short of money, I didn¡¯t think there was any problem, but now I really have no money.
You have to go back to your parents¡¯ house to borrow it.
Naturally, I have some regrets. It¡¯s not that I regret marrying Song Jianguo. I just regret that I listened to Song Jianguo¡¯s nonsense and quit my job. If I don¡¯t quit my job, even if I take a few more days off every month, then at least I will have more time off every month. Have income.
It¡¯s not like I have no income for several months in a row.
The entire net worth cannot be collected with only ten yuan.
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