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"It's okay. I'm not blaming you. They can't do anything to me anyway. Are you okay now? Where is the child? How is the child?"
Qiao Mu didn¡¯t criticize her eldest sister harshly.
At this time, while comforting her, she began to look up and down at her eldest sister's current condition. How to describe it, it was actually not bad. There were no scars on her arms or face.
I haven¡¯t lost any weight either.
All in all, it looks pretty good.
It doesn¡¯t look like he was treated harshly.
"Oh, I'm fine, the child is in the house.
¡°Then my parents will¡¡±
Xiao Pannan was still a little frightened. At this time, she pointed at her tied up parents and hesitated. Not disobeying her parents had almost become an iron rule in her mind, and hesitation was normal.
However, Qiao Mu just held her eldest sister's arm, checked her pulse, and dragged her into the house, while continuing to comfort her:
¡°It¡¯s okay, don¡¯t worry about them two.
You won¡¯t freeze to death even if you¡¯re outside on a hot day.
"Take me to see my niece. I haven't seen her since she was born. I didn't come when she was a hundred days old. I probably won't come when she is one year old, so let me see her first." "
While she was talking, Qiao Mu had already dragged her eldest sister into the house. At the same time, she had basically understood her eldest sister's physical condition through her pulse. Generally speaking, her health was actually good.
At best, it¡¯s just a little overthinking.
There may be slight neurasthenia and mental impairment, but these two conditions are not suitable for a mother whose child is less than half a year old.
It¡¯s absolutely normal.
Taking care of children is inherently hard work. Children basically sleep day and night, and it is impossible to eat three meals a day like normal people.
¡°That¡¯s when I cry when I¡¯m hungry in the middle of the night.
I cry even when I urinate in the middle of the night.
Even at one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, parents still have to get up to change diapers and feed milk. However, how many fathers actually get up to do these things? In the end, it is not all mothers who do it.
Even if a mother doesn¡¯t go to work and works like this every day, she won¡¯t feel much better.
All this will have to wait until the child is two or three years old.
It can be slightly better.
After taking a pulse and finding out such a result, Qiao Mu immediately felt that she was a little worried. She thought too badly about blind marriage and having a daughter. Most families prioritize sons over daughters.
That wouldn¡¯t be too obvious.
It¡¯s not even possible to torture or beat people.
¡°My niece is quite cute.
Sister, this is the gift I prepared to make up for the 100th birthday, and the first-year gift in a while. You can keep it, you're welcome. "
Soon Qiao Mu saw her niece in the crib next to the big bed, and immediately took out the gift box she had prepared long ago from her bag.
After giving the gift, Qiao Mu teased her niece for a while, and then asked her about her eldest sister in detail:
¡°Sister, you and your brother-in-law don¡¯t have any conflicts, right? Also, how does your mother-in-law treat you?
Did she give birth to a niece because of you?
What are you dissatisfied with?
"Don't be secretive. Please be more detailed and tell the truth. I will feel relieved after hearing this."
If anything happens, I can help. "
¡°You came back specifically for this.
¡°Oh, that¡¯s it, your brother-in-law didn¡¯t say anything about me giving birth to a daughter.
??????????
He is just not able to help me at all. Every day when I come back, I know I have to eat three meals a day, go to bed after eating, and play on my mobile phone and watch TV. I don¡¯t know how to help me take care of my children. Recently, my children often get up in the middle of the night and make trouble. , living in a separate bed with me, as if this child belongs to me alone.
But there is nothing we can do.
???????????Isn¡¯t this how everyone lives?
When Sanmei was born, I helped take care of her, and my father didn¡¯t do much to help.
As for my mother-in-law, she was a little dissatisfied at first, but didn¡¯t the government open up the two-child policy, so it¡¯s okay. I¡¯m a little worried now. What should I do if my second child gives birth to a daughter? You know what we do The family gave birth to three girls before giving birth to a boy.
I am worried that this is also hereditary.
well! "
Speaking of this, Xiao Pannan sighed again.
Although she doesn¡¯t want to favor boys over girls, she always feels unsure without a boy.
"Don't be too entangled in this matter. It depends on fate. Besides, it's not your decision whether to have a boy or a girl. It also depends on your husband!"
By the way, where is your mother-in-law? Why do I feel like there is no one else at home except you and the child? "
Qiao Mu asked strangely. She vaguely remembered that her sister lived with her mother-in-law.
"Oh, mother-in-law, she went to my second brother's house.
After I gave birth to a daughter, she left without even helping me with confinement. The second sibling was also pregnant, so she went to take care of the second sibling. It is said that the due date is next month, but I wanted to let my mother Come over and help me, hehe, it's a pity that I can't afford the money to hire her, so it was my third sister who came over to help.
Otherwise, you will definitely suffer from confinement syndrome.
By the way, Third Sister may come over to help me take care of the kids later. Don¡¯t mind if her tone of voice is not very good. Because you took your ID card and ran away, your parents took the ID card and household registration book. The management is very strict.
Third sister, she can¡¯t leave even if she wants to. Now she is working in a factory, and her monthly salary is still in the hands of her parents, so she blames you a little. "
After explaining the situation of his mother-in-law, Xiao Pannan also talked about his third sister and gave Qiao Mu a vaccination in advance so that she would not be angry.
"Complain about me, forget it, let her go.
I won¡¯t get angry with her. If she really wants to leave, I¡¯ll just take her away. It¡¯s just an ID card.
Sister, what will you do next?
If you are just raising children at home like this, you have to prepare for the worst, what if you give birth to a daughter after your first child? Also, if you don¡¯t have the financial income, you won¡¯t be strong-willed in your words. You should have it now. Feeling right? "
After replying indifferently.
Qiao Mu continued to ask tentatively.
Hearing this, Xiao Pannan was silent for a while, then shook his head helplessly and said with a bitter smile:
¡°What you said is really accurate.
When I was working in the past, although the salary was not very high, at least it was not a big problem to maintain three meals a day. There was no need to ask your brother-in-law for money, and there was basically no conflict in life.
But since I resigned due to pregnancy.
Especially when I ran out of savings and had to ask him for money every month or even every week, I felt that life was much more difficult than before. He gave me a thousand yuan a month and asked me why I didn't have any meat for lunch. No matter how I use it, I always ask him for money.
It seems like water, electricity and gas are free of charge.
Internet and phone calls are free.
After having children, we quarreled even more.
Ask me why I need to give my child milk powder?
Can¡¯t I feed breast milk? He didn't drink milk powder when he was a child, so he lived well.
But since I gave birth to the child, I haven¡¯t had a few good meals. Where can I find enough breastfeeding? If you hadn¡¯t given me hundreds of dollars every month, my life would have been even more difficult, but Don¡¯t send money here from now on.
The third child has graduated.
There is no need to pay tuition and living expenses anymore.
I can live a good life here. "
Xiao Pannan¡¯s experience has happened to many people, or is happening now.
But that¡¯s how we live our lives.
Most people just make do with it. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com