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Wang's house, in the third bedroom on the left.
Wei Sanju, the third daughter-in-law of the Wang family.
He was sitting cross-legged on the bed with his two daughters, making embroidery pictures of mandarin ducks, and guiding his two daughters to make some simple stitches.
Her two daughters are not too young, one is eleven and the other is ten. In three or four years, they will be talking about getting married. There is no way that they can't do anything as a female celebrity. Unfortunately, they have been busy in the past, so this winter is rare. It was a little colder, so Wei Sanju finally found some time to teach her daughter the basics of female celebrity.
¡°After a few years, when my daughter gets married and has some skills, she can live a better life in her husband¡¯s family.
¡°For example, she can make some money every year because she can do embroidery, so she can do less work at her husband¡¯s house, and she doesn¡¯t have to do things like washing clothes and chopping firewood that can easily hurt her hands.
¡°Mom, is Sister Erya sick?
She keeps fussing with her grandma all day long over trivial matters, isn¡¯t she deliberately trying to embarrass her second uncle?
Originally, the eldest aunt and the second aunt took turns doing the laundry work in winter. In recent days, grandma has changed it to the second aunt to do it alone.
Now I believe Sister Erya did this.
"It's definitely not what Second Auntie taught me."
Second aunt should not be so stupid.
??????? Deliberately offending grandma to find a job for herself.
But I can't figure it out.
??What does Erya sister want to do?
"She has sinned so hard against grandma. Isn't she afraid that grandma will turn around and not give her a dowry, or not find her a good family? She is already thirteen this year."
It¡¯s almost time to get to know each other. "
Since there were only three of them, mother and daughter, in the room, Wei Sanju's eldest daughter Wang Hongxing didn't have anything to be embarrassed about. She asked her mother in a tangled manner as she took care of herself.
At this time, there were not a few people who got engaged or even got married at the age of thirteen or fourteen, so they were naturally relatively young when they knew some things. They just wouldn¡¯t discuss it with others in public, but it was completely normal to discuss it between mother and daughter.
If my daughter doesn¡¯t understand very well.
Mothers need to be taught in detail.
Parents have to be taught.
"If you don't teach, you are harming your daughter."
Hearing his daughter¡¯s question, Wei Sanju couldn¡¯t help but stop what she was doing and shook her head: ¡°Don¡¯t tell me, I can¡¯t figure it out either!
I can only tell that the girl wants to separate the family, but what kind of family should the three girls of their family be divided into? After the family separation, there is not even a person in their family who will die by throwing a basin, so I don¡¯t understand.
Your second uncle is just a coolie.
How much money can I make every month? It¡¯s not as much as what I make from embroidery. I really don¡¯t understand. What does that girl want to do?
But if that girl really breaks up the family, that would be a good thing. From now on, all the money earned every month will not have to be given to the family.
You only need to give a little token every year.
"There is no need to use the money we earn to pay for the imperial examination for the fourth generation. After studying for more than ten years, we have almost spent hundreds of taels of money. It's really embarrassing that we didn't even get admitted as a scholar, haha"
How can a big family live together without some bumps and bruises? In addition, the division of labor among individuals is different, and the elders in the family are a little partial. Except for those who may not feel the special treatment, other families will have no idea.
And the Wang family is given special treatment.
¡°Obviously he is Wang Li¡¯s youngest son.
Wang Shiyao is still unmarried at the age of eighteen.
When he reached a certain age, his three brothers were basically able to work in the fields or make money, so the family was a little better off.
The family¡¯s finances are a little better.
His family can¡¯t help but want to change the family structure.
For ordinary people like them, there was only one way to change their family, and that was the imperial examination. Therefore, Wang Shiyao embarked on a completely different path from his three brothers. Even his name was different from his three brothers.
But their culture and education are in decline.
He himself is not a genius.
"So after studying for more than ten years, I can only be regarded as a scholar, and I didn't even pass the exam.
Generally speaking, only when scholars pass the Juren Examination can they have a certain amount of obvious income, have tax-free land, and have the opportunity to be an official. If they are simply scholars, they can only be considered poor scholars at best, and they will have to run a private school to teach or something like that. ???
But Wang Shiyao was not even a scholar.
This is also the main reason why he has always been looked down upon by his three brothers and even his sister-in-law.
Anyone who has invested for ten years.
If you don¡¯t receive anything in return, the future will still seem like a bottomless pit, and you will be dissatisfied.
Wei Sanju now feels that it¡¯s okay to let the girl from the second sister-in-law¡¯s family make a fuss. If the fuss gets urgent or big, it¡¯s the people of the second sister-in-law¡¯s family who will suffer. It has nothing to do with them. If there is a real separation, what will happen to their family? , which is actually a good thing.
So there is no need to stop it.
It¡¯s better to fan the flames once in a while.
¡°Mom, what if my fourth uncle is admitted to the scholar examination?
If my fourth uncle is admitted as a scholar, won¡¯t our family also benefit from it? It sounds nice to say it.
Grandma said that fourth uncle had diarrhea this time.
If you don¡¯t have diarrhea.
You will definitely be admitted as a scholar. "
Wang Hongxing is a bit younger after all, and she often hears her grandma say that scholars are great, so she has always felt that having a scholar in their family would bring a lot of benefits.
Even the family status of the person she married could be higher.
You might even be able to marry a scholar.
"Don't listen to your grandma talking nonsense all day long.
"Don't tell me that your fourth uncle probably doesn't have the ability to take the scholar exam at all. Even if he does, if he passes the exam, it will be of no use. What's the use of being a scholar?" You can neither hold an official position nor be exempted from taxes. Apart from having a good name, it is useless.
Only if you pass the exam can you be useful.
Is it so easy to take the exam?
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One is studying at White Horse Academy.
Another one is studying at Jinghe Academy.
Not only are the admission requirements for those two academies very strict, but the annual tuition fees alone cost a full thirty taels of silver, not counting other expenses.
Thirty taels of silver is just one year.
Even if we sell all our belongings, we won't be able to pay for two or three years of tuition, let alone the expenses on traveling to take the exam. If you expect your fourth uncle to win the exam, you might as well expect that you will marry a rich man and have a son. Then train your son to take the imperial examination.
The imperial examination is simply a waste of money.
??This is nothing we ordinary people can hope for.
Hongxing, don¡¯t listen to your nonsense.
Just stay at home with me and learn embroidery from me. In two years, I will find a way to find a good husband for you and marry you off. Even if the dowry is a little small, you have the skill of embroidery. Life in my husband's family is never too bad.
¡°Then just have a few sons as soon as possible and wait until you are your great-grandmother¡¯s age, or your grandma¡¯s age.
"Otherwise, I'll burn your mother-in-law to death."
Your comfortable days are here. "
After all, she is her own daughter, and Wei Sanju really cares about her daughter sincerely.
imparting her life experience.
As she spoke, she raised her finger and pointed to the tree that was scorching the sun in the yard, as a vivid example.
In her opinion, Qiao Mu is a great old lady.
She is an example of a daughter-in-law who has become a mother-in-law after many years.
???????????????????????????????????????????????????: We have food and drink to do whatever you want, and you can also take care of your daughter-in-law and granddaughter-in-law. This is simply a magical life!