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On January 23, the third day after the big cold and the day before New Year¡¯s Eve, Qiao Mu¡¯s brother Du Sisi came back with his girlfriend Wang Weina.
Qiao Mu¡¯s father and mother.
It was a really warm welcome.
As soon as they met, they were given a red envelope of 11,000 yuan, symbolizing that they would last a lifetime.
Of course, other amounts are also available.
Anyway, you have to choose an auspicious number.
This is their custom here.
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Naturally, the husband¡¯s family cannot act too stingy.
The two of them came back in the evening, but even at night, Qiao Mu¡¯s mother, Yan Yue, still pieced together seventeen dishes for them.
I barely count the wind and dust.
Qiao Mu didn¡¯t say anything about this. She had always been amiable and pretended to be a lady, presenting herself as a good sister-in-law who was not jealous.
¡°She won¡¯t go home often in the future anyway.
Why should there be conflicts because of different treatment? Moreover, it is the first time for a woman to come here and she is treated as a guest. It is natural for her to give some face and treat guests grandly.
So everyone got along very harmoniously that day.
On New Year's Eve the next day, everyone in the family was very busy. In Du Biguo's plan, they wanted to wait until after the third day of the Lunar New Year, whether the in-laws came over or they went over, it would be best to discuss marriage in person. matters.
Including various aspects such as betrothal gifts and houses.
But Wang Weina¡¯s parents need to hurry up.
They can¡¯t wait to meet.
On the afternoon of New Year¡¯s Eve, just after lunch, they made a video call, intending to discuss the marriage directly with Du Biguo and his family through video chat, so as to avoid traveling back and forth.
Although Du Biguo and the others felt that it was inappropriate to communicate over the phone, since their in-laws insisted, they did not refuse.
After some hesitation, he agreed
So the whole family sat on the sofa and discussed the marriage with the parents of the prospective daughter-in-law on the other side through TV video.
¡°Let¡¯s not talk about other things, but they must have a house when they get married, right? This is essential, even if they don¡¯t have a car, they must have a house.
So I want to ask, how are you going to pay for the house? Is it the full payment or a loan? "
These days, there are only two main issues discussed when getting married. One is the house issue, and the other is the betrothal gift issue. Some people may not care much about the betrothal gift issue, and may even give it some symbolic meaning, as long as it is not embarrassing, but the house, this is more important. Not a big problem in the past.
Whether it is the mother-in-law or the father-in-law.
They definitely didn¡¯t want their daughter to rent a house and get married with someone else, so Wang Weina¡¯s father, Wang Daguo, raised this issue first.
There are some questions that it is difficult for his daughter to ask.
But as a father, he still has to ask.
¡°Well, it depends on where you buy, if you want to buy a house here.
Then there is no problem if we pay the full amount.
¡°Because a house here only costs about 600,000 yuan, but young people like us are probably not willing to buy a house in a small place like ours.
And if you buy a house where they work, a down payment of 600,000 yuan is a bit too much.
So you definitely need a loan to buy a house. "
Regarding this point, Du Biguo can only answer truthfully. Although their family is not poor, they are indeed not rich. If they want to buy a house in a first-tier city, they will really have to empty out their family wealth.
I can only make a down payment.
They won¡¯t be able to help you with future loan repayments.
¡°If they help repay the loan, I¡¯m afraid they¡¯ll really have to live a miserable life to save their pension.
¡°When you take out a loan to buy a house, you need to write two people¡¯s names.
¡°But we also have a son at home, so there is definitely no way to help my daughter collect the down payment.
¡°In this way, you will pay the down payment, and each of them will pay half of the monthly mortgage repayments. My daughter¡¯s name will be written on the property certificate.
Of course, I don¡¯t mean to only write about my daughter.
It means writing the names of both people.
Do you think this is acceptable?
We can reduce the amount of betrothal gifts appropriately! "
Wang DaAlthough Guo wanted to be a little nicer to his daughter, he was really powerless.
If he had only one child, he would just give more to his daughter. But he also has a son. His daughter can't marry without a house. It would be really difficult for his son to get married without a house. His family is not a wealthy family. Subsidizing his daughter's bride price to her parents' family is already the biggest concession he can make.
So he could only try his best to find ways to make up for his daughter's future from his in-laws.
"Uhit's okay.
But I¡¯m not sure if we can come up with the down payment. We can barely squeeze it out within one million, but if it¡¯s more than one million, then we may really be powerless.
Sisi, which house are you interested in?
What¡¯s the average price?
Your mother and I have little ability. The most we can do is help you pay the down payment for a house with an average price of about 30,000 yuan. If it exceeds 35,000 yuan, then you have to buy a smaller one, no more than 80 to 90 square meters. "
This question is very real. For many families, it is really about where you want to buy.
But you only have enough money to buy whatever you want.
Then choose within the range that is enough to buy.
The situation on their side has just become clear. The in-laws have made it clear that their family is powerless, and the elders of Du Biguo still need his money to support them, so they are unable to help.
So other people buy a house with six wallets.
They can only take out four wallets at most.
You have to include your son and daughter-in-law.
¡°Dad, I plan to buy a house in the suburbs.
The house price there is cheaper, 28,000, and the down payment of 30% for more than 100 square meters is about 900,000. We plan to get a 30-year mortgage. Although the term is a bit longer, there is nothing we can do. , we can only repay a thirty-year mortgage, and we simply cannot afford to repay a ten- or twenty-year mortgage, even if it is a thirty-year mortgage.
??Almost 10,000 yuan per month is required.
Nearly one-third of our salary will have to be eliminated.
But no matter what, buying a house will give you a place to live and settle down. I just feel sorry for you. After raising me so big, you still have to worry about me when I retire. "
If it weren¡¯t for her own inability, why would Du Sisi be willing to touch his father¡¯s damn capital?
No one is willing to let go if there is no room.
¡°That¡¯s fine, we can still afford it.
My dear, I agreed to the house matter.
Let¡¯s talk about other things. "
Nine hundred thousand is still within Du Biguo's affordability, and he has already anticipated buying a house, so his acceptance is quite acceptable at this time.
After agreeing.
?I immediately asked other questions.
"As long as the in-laws agree, we won't ask for more as a bride price. Two hundred thousand is enough. Don't think that I want too much. I will let my daughter take the two hundred thousand back. I may be able to get a better deal with this little money by then." The decoration is not enough, but there is nothing I can do. The most I can do is add another 60,000 yuan for the dowry.
As long as the in-laws can agree to this, then we won¡¯t ask for anything more about jewelry weddings and the like, as long as you don¡¯t feel embarrassed. "
The house I bought is not a fully decorated version.
??You will definitely need to decorate it after buying it. After all, you can't just live in a rough house when you get married. The betrothal gift may not be enough to pay for the decoration.
But there is nothing he can do about it. His daughter is already pregnant. She will definitely not be able to get married before the house is renovated. He can only help his daughter get the renovation money in advance. The rest can only be left to chance, but it is not harsh to come to the in-laws' house. people. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com