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"In this case, it seems acceptable."
Although they already know how tiring the various tasks here are, it is not difficult to accept it if they only need to do one day out of seven days and have six days off after doing one day.
On the one hand, you can't afford the nursing home expenses every month, on the other hand, you are tired four or five days a month, and on the other hand, you just ignore it and bear all kinds of infamy such as unfilial piety, which may also affect your children and grandchildren's view of you. What.
After weighing the pros and cons of the three options, everyone's balance soon tilted towards the middle one, which is four or five days of exhaustion every month.
Now they are no longer silent.
Soon they talked to Qiao Mu about their opinions and choices, and said that they could discuss with each other later and make a list to determine which person from the family was responsible for which day. If something happened and they couldn't come, To announce the shift change in advance, someone must be willing to swap or something.
In short, this matter is settled.
?For the sake of fairness.
Today doesn¡¯t count. Let¡¯s all come together. Starting from the next day, it starts with the boss¡¯s wife Liu Qiangqiang, then his wife¡¯s daughter-in-law, the second¡¯s wife Liu Qianghai, Liu Qianghai¡¯s wife¡¯s daughter-in-law, and the third¡¯s Liu Fang, just take turns. Come alternately.
Qiao Mu was reluctantly satisfied with this.
But she was a little worried, a little worried about whether her sons, daughters-in-law, grandsons-in-law, etc. could persevere. She was not worried for one or two days, but if things continued like this, if her great-grandfather and great-grandmother would live another seven or eight Year.
There are some things that are hard to say.
Time passed quickly, and soon the next day arrived. When the alarm rang early the next morning, the others hurried away without even eating breakfast. Only the boss, Liu Qiangliang, was left here alone. Started to work with Qiao Mu to take care of people.
If the difficulty level for everyone coming together was twenty before, it must be at least seventy now. Even with Qiao Mu standing by to help guide him, he was still in a hurry and almost fell down the old man several times. .
There is no strength at all in the hand.
The original body was able to pick up her husband to go to the toilet with a body of more than eighty years old, hold her father-in-law and mother-in-law, transfer to the toilet and take a shower, etc., all with ease.
But her son can¡¯t do it.
Turning over and the like can only be done by hard pushing.
The toilet is also forcibly held.
It¡¯s extremely strenuous.
After surviving the morning, he didn't do much, and he was still panting from exhaustion. He also wasted Qiao Mu's time, which made Qiao Mu doubt whether he was right or wrong in leaving his son, daughter-in-law, etc. to help. wrong.
Don¡¯t turn around and do everyone a disservice.
Although the situation was a little better in the afternoon, it was not much better. After all, a person's strength cannot be exercised in a day. Qiao Mu was physically a little more relaxed than before, but in other aspects, what he worried about and what he said , but much more than in the past, because she had to constantly tell her son to do things. If she didn't tell her, her son would just act like he had nothing to do and do nothing.
When you tell him to do something, you have to explain to him exactly how to do it and what should be paid attention to. If you accidentally fail to explain something clearly, he will make a mistake. Sometimes it doesn't work even if you tell him again. Tell me several times.
It would be strange if you don¡¯t feel tired in this way.
It¡¯s strange that he doesn¡¯t say much.
This was the first day, and I had to repeat it again on the second day, because there was a change of people on the second day, and Qiao Mu¡¯s daughter-in-law didn¡¯t hear what she taught yesterday, so she had to teach it again.
The third day, the fourth day, the fifth day, the sixth day, the seventh day, you have to start all over again.
The only thing that makes Qiao Mu a little bit lucky is probably her daughter-in-law, grandson-in-law and daughter's understanding ability is pretty good. Although they can't explain everything right away, they still require far less words and worry than her two sons. , more worry-free.
It would be a fallacy to say that raising children to protect them from old age is a fallacy.
????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? Aren't the majority of the people who take care of the old in the end, after raising children, still their daughters-in-law.
??????????????????????????????????????????????? I saw a few sons who personally served their parents with feces and urine.
Will it be better when I get older?
In the end, it depends on whether the daughter-in-law is kind or not.
This is the first week. Although the situation in the second week has improved a bit, it is obviously not much better. We can only talk about the situation of Qiao Mu¡¯s two daughters-in-law, two granddaughter-in-laws and a daughter.There has indeed been a great improvement, which really saved Qiao Mu a lot of worry and did a lot less things.
But her two sons.
Sometimes Qiao Mu wants to beat the two of them, but they are quite able to eat every day. In his eyes, there is no work at all. They have to ask them to do a specific thing before they will do it. If they are only asked to wash the dishes , the pot will definitely be put aside by them, and they will not move it at all.
If you don¡¯t let them see if their grandparents¡¯ and great-grandparents¡¯ adult diapers are clean, they don¡¯t know how to look at them.
I would rather sit and watch short videos on my phone.
??Just say it¡¯s annoying or not.
Didn¡¯t Qiao Mu say that?
I have said it, more than once.
??????????????????????? But he listened with one ear and heard the other, and he just agreed, and he would do whatever he wanted to do next. There was no point in actively admitting his mistakes and not repenting. Qiao Mu could still beat them.
In the end, Qiao Mu had no choice but to admit it.
What can we do otherwise?
??Shoot them home?
? Then they are eager to do it!
Although they are not very obedient and work like abacus beads, they need constant instructions, but at least they can share some physical work, which is better than having no one to share the work and waiting on them alone.
It¡¯s better than nothing.
After the situation where his son, daughter-in-law, and grandson-in-law took turns taking care of his daughter became a little more stable for seven days, Qiao Mu began to think of other ways to reduce the hardship on his side. The method was actually very simple, and that was to resort to the power of technology.
??Those things that can be done with machines.
Try to switch to machines as much as possible.
For example, if you replace the old-style washing machine at home with a new one, a smart washing machine that can sterilize at high temperatures, come with spin-drying, steam sterilization and other functions, it will make washing clothes, bedding, and the like a little easier than in the past. point.
Just put things in and wash them.
Then sterilize at high temperature and dry.
Just take it out and dry it in the sun.
? Another example is buying more rice cookers.
From now on, I will eat more claypot rice, soups, and clay pots on a daily basis, so that I can basically use a rice cooker to cook, eliminating the need to look at the pot when cooking.
In addition, the toilet has also been replaced with a toilet that has its own cleaning system. Although it only saves the cleaning step, it can save a lot of trouble. After all, they have to go to the toilet several times every day. This change can help Qiao Mu saves forty or fifty minutes, not to mention the first two changes.
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