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"But you can't just let my mother take care of five people at home. It's not like you don't know how tiring it is for us all to do things together today.
???????????????????????????? If we persist for two more days, maybe the elder brother or the younger sister will not be able to survive in two days, or we can spend some money and hire someone to help take care of the elderly.
It may be a bit expensive to hire a professional, but there are many old men and women in our village who are relatively old and have nothing to do. If you ask them to help take care of you, it might be cheaper. "
Liu Qianghai himself obviously doesn¡¯t want to stay and take care of his grandparents and his great-grandfather and great-grandmother, but there are some things that are really hard to say.
So I can only persuade my wife tactfully.
While making suggestions that he thought were feasible.
"You can pull it off, what a bad idea.
¡°You don¡¯t even look at how old the left-behind elderly people in your village are. They are all in their seventies or eighties. When you invite them over, will they take care of your grandparents, or will your grandparents take care of them, in case something happens accidentally?
If you fall, break your leg or have some other accident, we won¡¯t have to pay for it.
¡°Besides, how much money do you have? Your son¡¯s 30-year mortgage still has five years left to pay off. Your grandson is going to buy a house again, and there¡¯s still tens of thousands short of a down payment. Then the mortgage will be 25 years old again.
Where don¡¯t you spend money?
In addition, the grandson¡¯s wedding will be held next year.
The little money you get every month is enough for anything. If you hire professional nursing, the little money you get every month is not enough for half a month¡¯s salary of professional nursing. You can¡¯t bury your neck for a few dollars, or even pay for it. People who are about to build it, don¡¯t care about the small ones at home, don¡¯t you think so?
¡°Forget it, I won¡¯t talk nonsense to you.
Let¡¯s look back.
Look at your brother¡¯s reaction.
I don¡¯t believe your sister-in-law can persist. She is so pampered that she doesn¡¯t even cook at home and lets her daughter-in-law cook. She lives like an old lady. Go to bed and turn off the lights. "
After quarreling with her husband a few more times and completely rejecting his suggestion, Li Yan was too lazy to continue talking. She decided to follow her husband's first idea and see what the eldest brother's reaction would be tomorrow. To improvise.
After saying that, she lifted the quilt.
He covered his head and went to sleep.
Liu Qianghai hesitated for a while and fell asleep.
Although they went to bed a little early today, they were indeed tired, so they did not have trouble falling asleep. Not long after lying down, they quickly fell asleep, and were woken up by Qiao Mu in the middle of the night, asking them to take the old man with them. To the restroom.
The same goes for the boss and the little girl over there. They were all woken up by Qiao Mu in the middle of the night. Since they are allowed to experience their own hard work, they must be given a full experience. They cannot just ignore the situation of getting up in the middle of the night for more than two nights. .
Qiao Mu¡¯s operation.
It undoubtedly made them feel worse.
They also said that the next morning, the alarm bell woke them up at about five o'clock, and they were taken to change the four elderly people into human diapers.
Finished changing diapers.
Not long after breakfast.
Liu Qianghai and Liu Qiangliang, the two couples, took Qiao Mu to the backyard, avoiding the four old people and the father who was paralyzed in bed, and wanted to talk to Qiao Mu.
Liu Fang saw it and followed him.
She also wants to talk to Qiao Mu.
¡°Mom, please stop tormenting us.
So many years have passed, and you haven¡¯t said anything. Aren¡¯t you holding on?
You suddenly called us here and then tormented us like this. You must have something you want to tell us or discuss. If you have something to say, just say it. If you want money or something, just say it. Stop tossing us around the bush. .
? ? Okay, really, please! "
Liu Qiang, who was pulled up twice in the middle of the night last night, discussed it with his wife for a while.
They all felt that his mother must be so abnormal because she had something to say, but she was too embarrassed to say it directly, so she pulled Qiao Mu over and wanted to clear things up with Qiao Mu.
Liu Qianghai and his wife next to him obviously had different thoughts from his elder brother, but at this time, hearing what his elder brother said, they also felt that it made sense.
So he quickly agreed with his wife.
"You are all like thisWhat do you think?
Do you really think that I am torturing you like this just to ask for money from you? I really hope that you will come back to take care of them and practice in advance.
Qiang Qiang, Qiang Hai, do you still remember when your grandparents began to suffer from Alzheimer¡¯s disease? Do you still remember when your great-grandfather and great-grandmother became confused? "
Qiao Mu endured the discomfort deep in his body, looked at them with red eyes, and asked.
"this¡¡"
The two brothers Liu Qianghai and Liu Qiang were stunned for a moment, looked at each other again, and then hesitantly replied: "Grandpa, it seems to be many years ago, right?
I remember when my grandson Xiaowen was born.
Grandpa and Grandma are a little confused. If they are confused, they must have been confused for nearly thirty years. They must have been there for twenty-five or six years. Grandpa and grandma must have become confused more than ten years ago. Yes, Mom, you"
"No, they are all in their eighties. When I think about it, they all started to become confused in their eighties and barely recognize people in their early nineties. Mom, you are worried about yourself"
Okay, the two of them reminisced.
I finally understood the key point Qiao Mu said.
Their two grandparents, great-grandfather and great-grandmother, basically started to become confused after the age of eighty-five or six, and it was basically from that time that they gradually changed from mild Alzheimer's disease to severe Alzheimer's disease, and Qiao Mu She is eighty-six this year, and her paralyzed husband is also eighty-four.
Even if the original body has not taken poison.
¡°It probably won¡¯t be sober for a few more years.
"Yeah, I'm worried that I'll become confused too.
I have started forgetting things all the time now. Have you seen the calendar at home? It is full of things I have written down.
I¡¯m just afraid that I¡¯ve forgotten something.
"How long do you think I can still be awake and take care of your grandparents, great-grandparents, and your father? I am not a god, and I have no way to control my Alzheimer's disease.
¡°And you don¡¯t think about how old I am, you really think I can move for many more years.
"Now I can't move you, but if I can't move in two years, will you just let us six old guys wait for death at home, and then come back to collect our bodies?"
Do you know how many times your grandparents have been lost? It¡¯s because our village is relatively closed and everyone is acquaintances, so we can find them successfully every time. If I follow you into the city, I will really get lost. I don¡¯t know if I can get them back, but I can¡¯t tie your grandparents with ropes at home. Is that ridiculous?
That¡¯s all I have to say.
What are your thoughts now?
Do you just want to ignore it, or what do you want? "
" Qiao Mu really didn't lie this time. The original body does have some preliminary symptoms of Alzheimer's disease, but it is not obvious yet. The initial manifestation is that the memory has begun to deteriorate. However, because of age, memory will naturally decline.
So the original person didn¡¯t pay too much attention.
"The original body didn't understand and didn't care, so how could Qiao Mu not understand and not care. Although she had ways to control the initial symptoms, there was no problem in telling her son about it at this time.
Even if they take her for a checkup.
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