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¡°Mom, does this child recognize someone?
Why did you stop crying when you hugged her? Could it be because you took care of her for the first month, but I also breastfed her. As the old saying goes, whoever has breasts is a mother? "
Liu Xiaoyun felt extremely depressed.
Her mother only took care of the child for a month, and she was not with the child all the time during that month. She was still responsible for feeding the child, and she had already been with the child for half a year. Why hasn't her mother come yet? dear.
This is too unfair.
"You are too hasty.
Once the child cries and is not coaxed well, you will get angry. Although you say you have not spanked the child, your tone will obviously change. Although the child cannot understand human speech, he still has a sense of tone.
For example, a dog can¡¯t understand human speech.
¡°Then if you say harsh words to it, it will be afraid.
Children are actually the same. The more anxious you are, the louder your voice will be, the grumpier your temper will be, and the more scared the child will be. How can you stop crying?
Children cannot be obedient as soon as they are born.
There has to be a learning process after all.
Your temper needs to be changed. If the mother is too strong and has a violent temper, the child may become relatively closed and timid. In the future, you should recite the Calming Heart Mantra, Bing Xin Jue, etc. more often when you have nothing to do.
I originally thought that if a girl has a stronger temper, she will not suffer too much in a marriage.
Now it seems that it is not entirely correct.
You won¡¯t suffer a loss in marriage, but when it comes to childcare, I¡¯m afraid it¡¯s not appropriate.
You still have to study more.
It just so happens that I'm back to help you take care of your children. Take the time to sign up for a parenting class and listen to what the teacher says. At the same time, you can interact and communicate with parents of other children. This should be of some benefit to you. It's for work. Just stop busying yourself with the matter and wait until the child goes to kindergarten. "
Qiao Mu did not consider the issue of childcare at first, because she felt that under normal circumstances, after giving birth to a child, a mother should theoretically be overflowing with maternal instincts, and then her temper would naturally soften, without the need for anyone to teach her.
But, her daughter obviously doesn¡¯t.
How should it be or what should it be?
Motherhood is not overflowing, it is disgusted first.
Therefore, I can only persuade him carefully.
I hope her daughter can listen.
¡°Mom, what you said is too exaggerated.
Those parenting classes are all a scam. I have nothing to do. Why would I sign up for that? If I have time, I might as well get in touch with work in advance and get back to work as soon as possible. I have been isolated from the world for nearly a year. If I don¡¯t go out to work quickly .
¡°In two years I will be a caveman.
Who will want me then?
These days, every industry and every industry has to keep up with the trend and keep learning and progressing. If I really stay at home with my children for five years and then go out, I¡¯ll be damned if I can find a good job. No company is willing to hire someone who has been out of touch with the times for five years. woman.
Mom, times have changed.
¡°You could work in a factory for a lifetime at that time, but now, the company you stay in may collapse one day, and at the same time, cheap college students are constantly competing with us for jobs.
If we don¡¯t fight, we will be left behind.
If our family only relies on Dijia to work and earn wages, the ability to withstand crises will be too low. Once he loses his job, I'm afraid it won't be long before we can afford to pay off the mortgage. What was it like for a single-employee family to be laid off? You've seen it with your own eyes, it's amazing.
As long as a dual-income family is not so unlucky that both employees are laid off, they can still survive.
dont you agree?
I am working now. Even if I can only get a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, it can be regarded as an insurance and I can save a little more money every month. What¡¯s more, it¡¯s not easy to live without money.
I don¡¯t want to ask Dijia for money when I buy groceries. "
Liu Xiaoyun was dissatisfied with some of Qiao Mu's remarks and immediately refuted them with reason.
It¡¯s actually hard to say whether this is right or wrong.
It can only be said to be a matter of thinking between two generations.
On the one hand, we seek stability, and on the other hand, we seek development.
¡°On one side, they are only thinking about the present, and on the other side, they are already thinking about possible crises in the future.
Actually speaking, for a small couple family like theirs where parents can¡¯t provide much help, it is indeed safer for both of them to work.
After all, unemployment is a normal thing these days. No ordinary employee can guarantee that his position will be kept forever, or even that the unit he works for will be able to persist.
Which international financial crisis.
A large number of companies must not be abandoned.
??International giants can collapse.
Not to mention ordinary small companies.
¡°If a few accounts are not recovered, a project goes wrong, or a certain capital chain suddenly breaks, it may go bankrupt in an instant.
¡°Oh, what you said makes sense.
¡°But I¡¯m just worried that both of you and your wife will work and you will have very little time to spend with your children.
¡°Forget it, you can go to work if you want to.
But don¡¯t look for those classes that go to classes that work seventeen or eight hours a day. It¡¯s best to come back in time to have lunch and dinner with your children every noon and evening. If you just go to those classes that leave early and come back late every day, your children will be tired in a month. I may not be able to see you once. I don¡¯t want my children to stay up until twelve o¡¯clock every day just to see you. "
Although Qiao Mu has the ability to provide the two of them with food and clothing, he can even allow them to stay at home with their children without having to go to work.
But, it¡¯s not necessary.
It is not within the original wish to raise the child to death.
Therefore, Qiao Mu could not help but feel a little relieved.
It¡¯s just her who has to suffer.
I have to take care of the children for a long time.
It¡¯s true that children are all debts!
¡°I know, I don¡¯t want to be so tired.
Then I will submit my resume tomorrow.
No, I¡¯m afraid the original resume can¡¯t be used anymore. Mom, I¡¯m going to make a resume first"
The main reason why Liu Xiaoyun needed Qiao Mu's consent was because Qiao Mu didn't agree and she wouldn't be able to go to work without helping her take care of the children. Now she finally heard Qiao Mu agree.
She was naturally very excited.
With that said, he hurried back to his room to make his resume.
In the next half month, Liu Xiaoyun interviewed more than a dozen companies, and after answering questions such as whether he had any thoughts about having a second child more than a dozen times, he finally found a design job with great difficulty.
Everything starts from scratch.
The young couple all went to work, so Qiao Mu could only take care of the children at home. This situation lasted for three years until Wei Ju passed away three years later. Zhang Meihua finally had her hands free and came over to compete with Qiao Mu for the right to take care of the children. .
Actually, Qiao Mu doesn¡¯t want to fight.
It¡¯s pretty good to live alone.
But the child really couldn't live without her, and she wasn't very close to Zhang Meihua, whom she barely saw a few times a year. For the sake of the child, Qiao Mu could only fight.
Fortunately, Wei Dijia is not confused.
In the end, he just asked his mother to help take care of him.
The trees are mainly in charge.
Then, Zhang Meihua started to urge the couple to have a second child, but Qiao Mu didn't care about these things. Anyway, no matter whether they had a child or not, Qiao Mu would never take care of the confinement child anymore. So of course it doesn't matter.
After Zhang Meihua cried, made trouble, and hanged herself, Wei Dijia and Liu Xiaoyun could only have one more child. This time, it was a son. Zhang Meihua didn't even need to be called, she just walked over to help her daughter-in-law. She went to serve the confinement and take care of her precious golden grandson of the Wei family.
So the whole Wei family formed a situation where the grandmother takes care of the granddaughter and the grandma takes care of the grandson.
They do not interfere with each other and support each other.
Fortunately, the age difference between the two children is nearly ten years, so there is no conflict with each other.
They all grew up relatively peacefully.
Qiao Mu has been taking her granddaughter to go to college, and then she completely let go. Then she used the money she earned from the system to buy a small farmhouse, where she picked chrysanthemums under the east fence and went to see Nanshan for her retirement. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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