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Chapter 757: The female prisoner who was so narrow-minded that she committed suicide

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    The doctors finally came out.

    The doctor said to us: "The patient is fine. His stomach has been lavaged and he is receiving infusions."

    Then, the female prisoner lay on the hospital bed, pulled out, and entered the ward.

    We went over and were at the door of the ward.

    It was almost five o'clock in the afternoon, and I was a little hungry, so I said to the two female prison guards: "Are you hungry?"

    The female prison guard said: "A little bit, the hospital cafeteria here provides food for free."

    I said: "I know, but we are all out, is it still something from the canteen?"

    They said: "Captain Zhang, do you want to eat from outside?"

    I said, "Yes, I'll treat you to it."

    They said: "No, no, no, we should treat you to food!"

    I said, "Don't talk nonsense. It's a happy decision. But we can't all go out. I'll guard the prisoner here and ask her what's going on. Then, you go out, eat and drink enough, and then pack the bags for me."  ,All right!"

    They said: "It's better for you to go and we'll keep watch."

    I took out three hundred yuan and gave it to them: "Go, go!"

    They said: "How can we be embarrassed about this, ah, we are embarrassed to ask for it!"

    I said: "Stop talking nonsense and go!"

    I gave them money.

    They happily took the money, said thank you, and went out happily.

    I asked the nurse who came out of the ward: "How is the patient?"

    The nurse said: "It's okay, I'm resting."

    I asked: "Is she awake?"

    The nurse nodded.

    I said, "I'll go in and see her."

    After entering, I saw the female prisoner lying down, receiving an infusion, and her face looked much better than before.

    I took a stool and sat beside the hospital bed, and she looked at me.

    I said: "Do you know me?"

    She said with a weak voice: "Captain Zhang."

    I nodded.

    I looked at her and asked, "I don't know what to call you?"

    She said: "Ye Zhenzhen."

    I said: "Well, it's a nice name. I want to ask, how does it feel to swallow more than a pack of cigarettes?"

    She said: "Nausea, nausea, dizziness, dizziness."

    I said: "Do you want to die, or do you no longer want to live?"

    She asked me: "Is there any difference?"

    I said: "Haha, Ye Zhenzhen, as you know, many people commit suicide in prison every year, for various reasons. I don't know why you committed suicide. I heard that you originally wanted to consult me ??about this.  Psychological counselor, but why didn¡¯t he come later?¡±

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "No one paid attention to me, no one cared about me. I said I had mental illness and I was depressed, but they ignored me."

    I nodded. What she said was that many female prisoners said they were sick and wanted to see me, but many of them were not that serious. Others had different purposes. They were not seeking medical treatment at all. Some wanted to leave.  Come on, some people want to look at men, yes, just look at me, and then want to have something with me. I picked one up last time, damn.

    I asked, "Can you talk to me?"

    She said: "I don't know why, I always feel depressed, and then I get angry easily, especially easily. I get angry when I see something that makes me unhappy."

    I asked: "Then why do you think you are angry?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "The main reason is that I have a bad relationship with them. Some of them always like to find fault with me. I am more capable. Others are jealous of me and often have trouble with me because of trivial matters."

    I asked: ¡°Who are they referring to?¡±

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Roommates."

    I asked: "So, is it someone else who found fault with you, and that made you angry?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Of course, if they don't find fault with me, how can I be angry?"

    I thought for a while and then said: "Let's assume an example. If you are drinking water one day, and a person comes over and spills your water, what will you think?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "I will be very angry and wonder why this person is so careless. Then I will complain, and then she will talk back and I will quarrel with her."

    I said: "What if, instead of you drinking coffee outside, I bump into your cup of coffee?The coffee was spilled and the man was blind. What would you do if you knew he was blind?  "

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "A blind man? A blind man cannot see. I may forgive him."

    I said: "Look, spilled coffee is the same thing no matter what the reason is, but different emotions will occur due to different cognitive results. Therefore, the perception of things is the real cause of emotions.  "

    Ye Zhenzhen thought for a while and said, "What you said seems to make sense."

    I said: "Everyone has some opinions about events that happen in life, some are reasonable and some are unreasonable. Different understandings will lead to different emotional states. If you realize that your current emotional state is unreasonable,  It¡¯s your cognition, and by changing it you can control your emotions.¡±

    Ye Zhenzhen asked: "Is this really going to happen?"

    I said: "The things you encountered may also happen to others, but others may not be like you now. What do you think is going on?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Are you saying that my understanding is different from theirs? But I haven't seen anything unreasonable in my understanding of others finding fault with me."

    I asked: "This is exactly the issue to be discussed next. Think about it calmly, why is the relationship between you and your colleagues so tense?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Those people always like to find fault with me."

    I said: "What is the reason why you don't allow others to find fault with you?"

    Ye Zhenzhen: "What I do is none of their business. I have completed a lot of my own work and done it well. Why should they find fault with me?"

    I said: "You can hope that others won't find fault with you, but you can't stop others from finding fault with you."

    She asked: "Can't you make demands on others?"

    I said: "You can make demands on others, but what you ask others to do to you, others should do to you. This is an unreasonable belief and an absolute requirement, because we cannot ask others to do it for us."  What to do. If we turn our demands on others into hopes, when something we don¡¯t want happens, it will be a disappointment at best, and we won¡¯t resent others too much, and we won¡¯t be angry ourselves.¡±

    She said: "You are right, but I'm worried that I can't do this. Can this problem be corrected?"

    I said: "Your problem has been formed for a long time. It is probably caused by the environment in which you grew up. Let me ask you, are you generally afraid of others' anger and fear of being criticized? There are two reasons. When you were a child, you were often raised harshly and often criticized.  Saw some harsh scenes.¡±

    She asked: "Hard criticism, does it mean being scolded and having faults found?"

    I said: "Yes."

    She said: "My family likes to find faults and compare me with other children."

    I said: "You have developed psychological aggression. You have transferred the attacks against others, which are simply anger, hostility, and abuse, to yourself. The reason why others will be angry at you is  Such self-blame is not because the other person loses his temper, but because you already have a powerful attack on this person hidden in your subconscious mind. Also, your own excessive criticism of yourself means narcissism, and the slightest anger of others will  It scares you, so you choose to be angry with yourself, choose to make yourself angry to death instead of others making you angry to death, so you are the best. It is difficult to change quickly. But as long as in practice  Keep changing, start from scratch, and don¡¯t get discouraged if things go wrong. The most important thing is to persist, and you will definitely achieve the desired results.¡±

    She asked: "How to change? Am I really narrow-minded? When I see something wrong with them, I get angry, become hostile to them, and make trouble with them. I can't get along with them, and my life is very tiring. I  I was worried that they would kill me one day, that they would poison me, that they would strangle me in a place where no one could see or be monitored, that they would drown me in the bathroom if I went to it. I just thought I might as well commit suicide.  I just wanted to die, but I was afraid of the pain and didn¡¯t dare to hang myself or slit my wrists. I heard that cigarettes contain nicotine and can kill people, so I swallowed it.¡±

    I nodded and said, "This is a symptom of depression, and it is also accompanied by delusions of persecution."

    She said: "Then what should I do?"

    I said: "First of all, you don't have to be perfect in everything. Don't strive for perfection in everything. Open your mind and try your best to experience the real joy in the process. Look at those people who are busy to death every day, and then they really die of illness. They are so busy.  People who die suddenly, risking their lives for so-called career and money, who says they are smart? You know how to adjust your mood. If you feel depressed and uncomfortable, talk to your friends. You have to learn to make friends. In fact, interpersonal relationships  Regarding relationships, there is a saying that a person's heart can be exchanged for a person's heart, and eight taels can be exchanged for half a catty. Do you know what it means?"

    Ye Zhenzhen asked me: "What do you mean?"

    I said: "If you want to win people's hearts, you have to suffer a little. If you give 80%, you will get more than 50%. You know? Maybe you have given a lot, but you find that your friends are not as good as you."  How will you treat me?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Then I can't do it. I will get angry and angry. I will think a lot about why she treats me like this? Why isn't she like me?"

    I nodded and said: "You are very sensitive now. You feel that you have suffered a loss. You cannot suffer a loss. You are narrow-minded." (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com)?Two for half a catty.  Do you know its meaning?  "

    Ye Zhenzhen asked me: "What do you mean?"

    I said: "If you want to win people's hearts, you have to suffer a little. If you give 80%, you will get more than 50%. You know? Maybe you have given a lot, but you find that your friends are not as good as you."  How will you treat me?"

    Ye Zhenzhen said: "Then I can't do it. I will get angry and angry. I will think a lot about why she treats me like this? Why isn't she like me?"

    I nodded and said: "You are very sensitive now. You feel that you have suffered a loss. You cannot suffer a loss. You are narrow-minded." (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com
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