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Chapter 068 How to help them

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    "Let's continue to discuss the psychology of revenge. As we just said, people have 15 basic desires and values. Almost none of these 15 basic desires and values ????are satisfied by prisoners in prison. Therefore, female prisoners in prison  , almost everyone will have mental illness. Because of fear and other factors, many of them will quickly accumulate negative psychological emotions. Once there is a trigger to explode, they will vent it through violence and other aspects. If their  If these negative psychological emotions are accumulated too much and cannot be channeled and vented, people's mental problems will occur or even collapse. And many of the ways they show how to release themselves are by hurting others."

    I listened attentively. After listening, I said: "I learned this in college, but basically forgot about it, haha. You are so amazing, I remember almost everything."

    "Revenge psychology is explained from a psychological point of view, that is, one person's behavior causes a certain amount of damage or gain to another person's interests, making the latter expect that the former will also cause no less than this amount of damage or gain to the former's interests.  It also produces satisfactory gains in benefits. This kind of human reaction is called revenge psychology. This psychology has two sides, revenge and gratitude."

    I said embarrassedly: "I have learned this too. Although I don't remember it very clearly, I still understand the literal meaning. Let me ask you this, if I want to take revenge, how can I restrain myself?"

    When I said this, Liu Zhizhi did not show any impatience. On the contrary, her stretched eyebrows and gently waving gestures looked very happy. "People have a long time to do anything and have any ideas."  The subconscious basis will never happen temporarily. Everyone has anger. When anger is aroused, the best way to avoid excessive revenge is to self-regulate."

    I asked again: "Then if I meet women who come to me for consultation, some of them are emotional and want to vent through violence, while some are depressed and want to commit suicide, how should I guide them?"

    Liu Zhihui suddenly and inexplicably smiled gently at me and said, "Guard Zhang, I want to ask you another question first."

    I don¡¯t know what the purpose of her smile is, but I feel a little shake in my heart, maybe she is interested in me, "Okay, you ask."

    "Do you have many girlfriends? Let me ask you this, are there many girls who are interested in you, including many beautiful girls, and some of them have good family situations?" she asked.

    I was wondering why she asked that, but thinking about the fact that since I came here, beauties have been coming to me constantly, including all kinds of powerful beauties: "Haha, no, no, no."

    She said: "There are many. Guard Zhang is so young, charming, courageous, generous and loyal. It is normal for many girls to like you. In the future, there will be more rich, beautiful and beautiful women who will like you."

    I straightened my back and felt like I was going to fly into the sky: "No, no."

    She looked straight at me and smiled softly. After feeling proud for a while, I suddenly came back to my senses and wondered, damn, had I been hypnotized by her again!

    He immediately regained his calm expression and asked her: "Are you doing hypnosis experiments on me again?"

    She smiled, happily: "You know?"

    I felt a little unhappy: "You are still lying when you praise me! Everything about being charming, courageous, generous and loyal is all fake!"

    She kept giggling, her flower branches trembling slightly, and said, "You are so funny and so serious."

    I just looked at her.

    After she smiled, she said: "To get back to the point, all human uneasy emotions can be summarized as fear. There are two ways to eliminate fear. The first is to weaken the fear itself. You have an inferiority complex, right?  "

    I smiled sheepishly and said, "How do you know this?"

    After asking this question, I felt stupid. What kind of person Liu Zhizhi was, how could I not see it?

    "You are a smart person and have studied psychology. You know that you have low self-esteem, so your low self-esteem is not very serious. I guess your low self-esteem may be because your family situation is not as good as others since you were a child. You should be from a rural area.  Poor kids think you have no money and are afraid that others will look down on you. They are even more afraid that rich and beautiful city girls will look down on you. Right?" She is like an X-ray machine that can analyze people's hearts and see them clearly.  .

    I lowered my head and said sheepishly, "You know this."

    "In the final analysis, it is the oppression of personal ideas by universal concepts. As far as men are concerned, during the Qin Dynasty, people looked down on men who had no military exploits, so these men would feel inferior; during the Song Dynasty, it was another turn?Those who have little education; now, those who have no money cannot stand up.  "

    Seemingly seeing that I was a little embarrassed, she returned to the topic, "As I said just now, the first way to eliminate fear is to weaken fear. To weaken fear is to face fear and strengthen the resistance to fear, just like letting you face  Your inferiority complex. The second way to eliminate fear is to enhance the courage and self-confidence when facing fear. In these aspects, it is necessary to understand what the psychological patient¡¯s greatest instinctive needs are. If her greatest spiritual support is her family, then  We need to guide her, her family is waiting for her, etc. For example, what you need is others' affirmation of you, and I will affirm it for you. This enhances your courage and self-confidence. Were you in front of me just now?  The feeling of inferiority is not as strong as it was before you came in and when you saw me the first few times?"

    I suddenly realized: "Oh, it's true! You are so awesome!"

    "If you are confident enough, you don't need me to tell you these things. In the final analysis, I am just an ordinary psychology student. The most brilliant way of counseling is suggestion. Negative self-suggestion leads to negative behavior, and positive self-suggestion leads to negative behavior.  Hints lead to positive actions. All you have to do is hint to them that life is good and they are strong, so that they can have hope in life."

    She felt a little thirsty as she spoke, then picked up the cup and took a sip of water.

    Then he said to me: "I don't have any other cups for you to use here. If you don't mind, you can wash my cup."

    "No, no, no, no, I'm thirsty, but it doesn't matter." I originally wanted to politely say that I wasn't thirsty, but in front of her, it was better to let go of myself than to hide myself. She could see it anyway.

    "Then when I meet female prisoners who ask me about psychological problems in the future, I will use your method to hint to them and let them know that life is good and they are powerful. Let them face their fears, eliminate their fears, and increase their confidence and courage. Thank you,  If you help me, you may also help many female prisoners." I said.

    "If you lose your freedom and have no faith, such people are often extreme, desperate, and unreasonable. You have to remember that this is a prison, and there are always people who are hopeless. Do your best to obey fate, and don't give yourself any trouble.  If there is too much pressure, don¡¯t blame yourself too much.¡± When she comforted me, the word prison was a bit strong.

    "good."

    "It's time for you to go back. I think the person who came with you must be very nervous. Maybe in two minutes, she will come up and knock on the door." She said.

    "How do you know?" I asked.  (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com
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