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"Dalang, what are you thinking about?" Jiang Dashan interrupted Dalang's meditation and asked. He thought that it was not easy for him to thank his family, so what did Dalang think?
"Uncle, what do you think of the Xie family?" Dalang asked.
"The days of dealing with each other are still short, and it is impossible to have a deep understanding. But for now, the Xie family is at least not a bad character and can endure hardships." Jiang Dashan said.
This is what he really thinks, and he doesn¡¯t think there¡¯s anything wrong with saying these things to a kid like Dalang. He was used to treating Da Lang as an adult. After all, everything here, or it should be said, everything in Luwei Village, is decided by Dalang. Although there is nothing serious for the time being, Dalang, this kid, seems to have established an image of himself as a leader in everyone's mind.
"Yeah. That's good." Dalang smiled, turned around and walked out the door, thinking to himself: "As long as they are not bad people. The higher the status, the more beneficial it is to us."
He is eager to get to know more people with status and status now. It will be easier to get a new status in the future. And his calculation is not because he wants to run Luwei Village well and take root in this place. You must know that everyone must have roots, and in the future, he will have to move his mother's grave here. Let her enjoy the incense of her descendants, instead of lying alone in the wilderness, a lonely ghost.
When he thought of his mother lying all alone in the Chen family's hometown in the last life, and no one even visited the grave during holidays, his heart felt as if someone was stabbing her with a knife. At that time, he was weak and incompetent, and he was still ignorant. He allowed the Chen family to be humble and failed to get a memorial tablet for his mother. Completely pretending that his mother never existed.
After that, the Chen family completely gave up on their hometown and built a new ancestral cemetery in Beijing. His mother was the only one left in their hometown in the countryside.
It made him miss his mother only in his heart. Later, after he left the Chen family, he secretly got a tablet for his mother and placed it beside him. When he finally got the chance and wanted to go back to his hometown to visit his mother's grave, he was already dead. In this life, he didn't have time to let his mother live a good life for a few days, but he must not let his mother be as pitiful after death as she was in her last life.
Therefore, he must manage a place well to serve as his roots, so that his mother can enjoy the incense of future generations, reincarnate as a human being at an early date, and live a good life.
Thinking of the memorial tablet, because the burial was in a hurry and there was no pen or ink, even now, he still hasn't been able to get a tablet for his mother. When he thought of this, he hurried out again.
"Hey, what are you doing?" Jiang Dashan asked in surprise when he saw him running out in a hurry.
"Go outside and find two wooden boards." Dalang replied.
Jiang Dashan secretly breathed a sigh of relief. He was afraid that Dalang would go to question the Xie family. He actually had the same idea as Dalang. After all, the higher the status of a person, the more benefits he could bring.
"Hey, Ah Tu went back so early today?" Xin Hu asked in surprise. It's rare for the house to be so quiet. She was doing needlework with Aunt Liu just now. Aunt Liu said she would go out to chop wood tomorrow and would do less needlework today, so she came back first.
"Well, his father took him back to teach him a lesson." Jiang Dashan said.
"Sister, will Ah Tu be beaten by his father?" Ping'er asked with some fear. Mr. Xie is good-looking, and even the children like him very much, but he looks scary when he is angry.
"You should beat him," Xiao Shitou said disapprovingly. He was often beaten and scolded by his mother.
Aunt Zhang and Aunt Liu¡¯s educational philosophy is that men should be disciplined strictly. Girls can be more pampered, after all, girls have to get married when they are only sixteen or seventeen years old. No matter how high a girl's status is, if she marries into the hands of her parents-in-law, she must be careful at first, for fear of making her parents-in-law angry and losing her husband's favor. Even if you marry wrongly, you will rarely have a good life in your life.
So everyone says that the most comfortable days in a girl¡¯s life are when she is her daughter¡¯s home. With elders caring for you, you don¡¯t have to worry about anything. After getting married, you should respect your elders at first and discipline your children and take care of household affairs at lower levels. There is also a husband in the middle who may not like you no matter how hard you try. The most important thing is if you don't do it right, they can get a bunch of concubines, aunts, concubines, and concubines to piss you off to death.
Aunt Zhang is an example. She was a sweet girl who could tell the truth in her parents' family, but when it came to her husband's family, she couldn't tell the truth. Although Xiao Shitou's father didn't have a bunch of concubines and aunts, and he didn't have any children, he still had two wives, and he didn't have much enthusiasm for her on weekdays. The relationship between the two of them is really not a loving one. Although my mother-in-law appearsIt's still too young to come. Moreover, the ancients talked about virtual age, and these fifteen or sixteen years old were probably fourteen or fifteen years old. At this age, she felt that she was not physically mature enough to bear the pain of childbirth, let alone raise children.
"For women who are seventeen or eighteen years old, the children who get married early are already two or three years old, and there are very few who are unmarried. Those are all under special circumstances, such as observing filial piety. How can there be a family of twenty-year-old girls who are not married? , this will make people laugh to death." Dalang said disapprovingly.
It is normal for men to get married at the age of seventeen or eighteen. The earliest ones got married at the age of fifteen or sixteen. A twenty-year-old girl is not married yet, what kind of man can she marry? Or if his wife is dead, he will marry his stepmother. Or, marry a man who is not in good condition to marry a wife. Moreover, no one would delay the marriage of their daughter until the age of twenty. This is also a very shameful thing. Others will say that no one wants the daughter of this family.
In his opinion, this girl Xie must be fifteen or sixteen years old, and she cannot afford to delay. The flowering period of girls is very short. If you don't marry at your best age, it will be difficult to get married later. He also didn't want Xie, a lively and cheerful girl, to be unable to marry a good man in the future.
"If you don't get married at the age of twenty, you will be laughed to death." Xin Hu secretly spat in depression. I think back then, she had not yet been married in her thirties. Moreover, there are also many unmarried women in their forties. Some people live happily even if they never marry.
When Dalang saw Xin Hu was silent, he ignored her and concentrated on carving the small wooden board in his hand. He didn't have any handy tools at the moment, so he used a kitchen knife to repair the small wooden board. He planned to get a base for it tomorrow. Carve a few words on it and use it as a memorial tablet for your mother. You can also worship it during the New Year and festivals. When conditions permit later, I will make a formal memorial tablet. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com