Can the Luo family brother and sister agree to this? I guess I have to agree. Although judges usually award young children to their mothers, Luo Xiaomei's conditions were too poor.
If the award is awarded to Luo Xiaomei, the monthly alimony paid by the other party will not be enough for the child, because Luo Xiaomei is also obliged to contribute money to raise the child. The most fearful thing is that if the child encounters an emergency, such as a major operation, and needs money urgently, Luo Xiaomei can't get it. The court went to Hu Hao again to ask for money. Hu Hao was not in a hurry to give it. If he delayed, the child would die.
When considering who to award a child to, the judge will only put the child first, and the child¡¯s parents second.
Such civil cases are usually appealed to the court. The court¡¯s basic action is for the two parties to mediate rather than litigate. After the litigation is completed, the conflict between the two parties may become deeper and the problem will not be resolved.
It is the best thing for two families to sit down and put aside their own stubborn opinions to have a good talk with their children. Negotiate how to do the best for the children together without getting married.
The most unexpected thing is that it was Brother Luo who took the initiative to negotiate with the Hu family and made three tailor-made requirements for his sister:
First, my sister needs to recover physically after giving birth and needs nutrition money so that she can provide adequate breastfeeding for her child. I hope the man will compensate the woman in this regard and give her money.
Second, the Hu family needs to know that if you go to court to file a lawsuit for child custody, even if the court awards the child to the man, it will still require the man to give the woman enough time to visit the child. This is the legitimate right given to the mother by relevant laws and regulations. The Hu family needs to allow Luo Xiaomei and the Luo family to visit their children regularly and stay in contact with them.
If the Hu family is not stupid, they will know that there is no benefit in not allowing the biological mother to visit the child. By then, the child will grow up and know the truth and will curse.
Third, no matter whether the man or the woman marries another third person and has children in the future, she needs to retain her love for the child. This is reflected in the fact that the Luo family and the Hu family will set up a joint account for their children from now on and put a certain amount of money into it every month. This will leave a guaranteed life and education fund for the children's future.
The three conditions are reasonable and well-founded, and it is absolutely impossible for the uneducated Luo brothers and sisters to come up with them.
Hu Hao didn¡¯t need to think too much and just came to talk to Classmate Xie, because the Luo brothers and sisters only trusted Classmate Xie now.
After making the call, Hu Hao appeared at the door of the cafeteria, with one hand in his trouser pocket and acting like a young master from a rich family.
Zhao Zhaowei and his gang stayed to see what was going on. When they saw Hu Hao, several people pulled at Student Wei and said, "You and he are both rich second generations. How do you feel about this guy?"
In fact, Hu Hao is not considered a rich second generation, he is just a middle class person with more assets than the average middle class. Of course Wei Shangquan looked down upon this person.
"Xie Wanying, have you eaten?" Hu Hao looked down at the brand-name watch on his wrist and said as if nothing had happened.
If Mr. Hu wanted to treat her to a meal, it would not be at this time. As a doctor, Mr. Xie paid attention to the family members of the child: "Have you not eaten yet? Do you need me to pack a lunch for you?"
After being choked back, Hu Hao hesitated and said angrily: "Don't act like I won't treat you to a meal. I will definitely treat you to a meal. Thank you for saving my son. I gave you a big red envelope. of."
Teachers don¡¯t dare to accept red envelopes. A student like her who dares to accept red envelopes from patients¡¯ family members is seeking death. Xie Wanying said bluntly: "I'll take it if you want to thank me, but don't use anything else. Don't cause any trouble to me."